Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

wat can i do to ake my b.f com back to me? i still love him and we are having a baby. am 22 weeks pregnant. he left a month ago. i begged him, i forced him, i threaten him. now i dont know any more. how can i win him back? is it cuz am pregnant and makes me look fat and uglier? wat do i do? i really need him, baby needs him too. he doesnt even ask how baby is doing. please give me suggestion to win him back

2007-11-06 01:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i live with this guy .all most 3 years he makes good money i am disabled. his son of 19 works he lives here to he dont pay no bills he dont even buy his own razers or toilet paper. his dad buys it all for him i give him $300 a mounth i only get $623.my kids live in ky about 2 hours away. his mom lives there to when i go see my kids i only get see them 1 hour. he spends about 5 hours at his moms i dont mind going to his moms but is it fair to me.i help pay bills my oldest girl starts school in jan its not free i give her money to help her he jumps my *** he says my girls are just useing me. should i leave.

2007-11-06 01:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by s k 2 in Family

i am 20 at the moment and me and my partner have been together for almost 7 years, since i was 13. my partner is 23. we love each other dearly sand want to spend the rest of our lives together and i couldnt imagine life without him. we are planning on getting married spring 2009. i will then be 21 and he will be almost 25. is this wise?????

2007-11-06 01:52:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I mean, I want the SAPPIEST, most SYRUPY romantic thing ever done. The story that makes me throw up inside my mouth the most willl be awarded the 10 points...

Cheers!

2007-11-06 01:51:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

me and my best friend are having this problems but i don't know what are those problems, she just keep telling me that i should change. i want to but i don't know how because i don't have any idea what is it. i can't talk to her because she doesn't want to talk to me. what i am feeling right is very painful because she's the only best friend i had, yes i have many friends but she's different from the others. please help me with problem, i don't know what to do.

2007-11-06 01:51:06 · 7 answers · asked by cetcabs_2oo6 1 in Friends

We are close to breaking up and I am close to moving out. I would not intentionally be a deadbeat because I would still spend money on my son; I just would not be giving it to her. This is solely her choice and she wants to sign an official paper stating that she doesn't want support from me.
I am thinking that even if she signs anything, her parents will still try to get the courts or police or whoever they can to get me to pay regardless of what she says or signs.
So my final question is would I still have to pay child support to her if she signed papers stating she doesn't want money from me? I am not giving up custody; it would be joint custody because I don't give up on my son. He is still my son. Her parents do not have any custodial rights, although I am thinking that they may try to force her to get money from me anyways.

2007-11-06 01:50:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I mean as physical appearance. Do you feel this is important, or do you feel that "I'm married, I got what I want. If he don't like it, he can leave and I'll take half?"

Just curious.

2007-11-06 01:50:20 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

do u feel uncomfortable if they meet a person or a woman who is more handsom or beutiful?

2007-11-06 01:50:09 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-11-06 01:49:22 · 9 answers · asked by Lily 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so what do you do when you kid wants to know about sex? Not just the where what goes where kind of questions the very intrusive questions about... size... positions... porn.. one specific question was how does a guy know how to do things... I thought i might die... I thought he would be embarassed asking me but the more i answered the more questions flew from his mouth!!!

2007-11-06 01:46:49 · 5 answers · asked by lostnlove 2 in Family

I'm getting married in a few months. My fiance and I don't really need anything so instead of doing a gift registry would it be appropriate to have people donate towards a honeymoon? If so, how would I go about it? Should I leave it up to someone else to handle? Any thoughts? Thanks!

2007-11-06 01:45:51 · 11 answers · asked by Due May 17, 2009! 2 in Weddings

Before I had my son I weight 138 pounds, after having him and it's been 2 years I weight 160pounds. Every since I had my son I have been insecure about myself I think it the weight. My husband say I look good but I don't believe him. I started a diet yesterday go to try and lose 25 pounds by New Year's. Anyway, i have got to the point where I don't want to go to work b/c of my weight and afraid my husband will cheat on me one day if i don't get my size back. I am a very beautiful, attractive 5'5, 27 years old young lady but I don't know how to control my insecure issues that I never used to have. Please help serious mature answers only. Married 3 years.

2007-11-06 01:40:21 · 26 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We already slept together a couple of times within about 3 weeks. He calls me everyday, tells me he wants to build a future with me and makes future plans with me. What is he up to, is he just after more sex or is he real? I just dont trust my judgement anymore

2007-11-06 01:37:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am in an abusive relationship. We can't seem to have an argument without him hitting me, then I go crazy and hit back, and then all hell breaks loose. But the rest of the time, we are fine. I actually love him, and I believe that he loves me, altho we both agree its getting more difficult. How would you work this mess out?

2007-11-06 01:34:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I guess I understand you love them....My guy friend cheated on his girlfriend said he regretted it and then went out with a new girl...A few months later he got back with his ex...People out ther who have taken back cheaters, how and why? I would like to sa I wouldnt if I was in the situation because the trust is destroyed.

2007-11-06 01:31:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I worked for my Ex-Wife's father for 9 years. When my ex-divorced me for another man, I was ordered to pay child support to my ex-wife based on what I was making working for my Ex-father in law. Two weeks after the divorce was final, he fired me. Now, the best job I've been able to find is paying me exactly half of what I was making, but I'm still having to pay the original child support amount. I'm trying to get a modification, but I'm Three months behind right now. I'm out of things to sell, I can't work any more jobs, I don't know what else to do? What are my options? I live in Georgia.

2007-11-06 01:29:49 · 10 answers · asked by frontrow0 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok... i know my wife has been involved in an affair & i also know that she is still text msging this jerk even though i have asked her 2 stop. i have come up with a plan of action and wanted opinions. i get paid 2 days fm 2day & when i do i am packing some things and moving bk 2 my mothers home which is about 2 hrs fm here. i cant take it anymore. when i ask her about the texting she just tries 2 lie and tell me its not happening or that it is old. i want 2 send her a clear msg that i will leave and not come bk. what does anybody think?

2007-11-06 01:29:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

has anyone ever loved someone so much but hated them at the same time? I need to leave him, but the pain is too much...nothing can stop the pain but it can be forgotten or to a lesser value, what can i do to leave him and let him know i'm not coming back this time. and how can i forget and stop the pain

2007-11-06 01:28:20 · 14 answers · asked by shawrtia 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok im, relatively young and a hurst was pulled over at the side of the road at a church. Poeple were stopped and I didn't realise, I thought they were perhaps pulled over because they were attending but I'm not sure now. (this is in the UK) I've never heard that it is disrespectful but a friend just told me it was and I feel awful. Can anyone let me know

2007-11-06 01:28:20 · 23 answers · asked by bosswell2 1 in Family

I live in Richmond, VA & my brother has gotten arrested and my mother is very sick, I don't know any information on him and I can't contact him, in case my mother doesn't pull through.. Can someone help me please! He got arrested in Richmond, VA.. I don't know what his charges is and he is only 15,we both are. That's my twin and I can't function without my other half in jail and my mom sick. Do anyone know what website or number i can call to find out something. I'm on my own!! PLEASE, I'M DESPERATE!!!

2007-11-06 01:25:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i am dating a man who is divorced. Now , am a virgin and he wants to do it with me..i like him but not so sure about losing it to him..am not gonna marry him as its not possible n thats why i feel i should lose it to the one I'll marry.
Now i wanna ask, is it worthwhile to wait for "the one" or should i go ahead with this man. I am attracted to him anyways.
Please help me solve through this situation.

2007-11-06 01:22:16 · 36 answers · asked by aint_i_hoot_madonna 1 in Singles & Dating

So i have had terrible relations with guys before, and i can't really feel close to them. I view them all the same, the way i view girls too. Its as if im asexual(not liking sex) or something. I think it might have to do with me being raped at a young age. But there is this guy, who isn't even that hot, who i feel really comfortable with. Like i put my head on his shoulder (which is something i can NEVER do) and he put his head on mine. And i was playing around with this bracelet i gave him, and i just wanted him to be around me. And he has been on my mind a lot lately. Does this mean i like him? and if i eventually do want to start a relationship with him, what do i do? im afraid to ask him out because he's 3 years younger then me, im a senior and he's a freshman(we're in high school) and i'd feel like such a loser if he said no. But does this mean i like him? and if so, how do i know its not going to turn out like all my other relationships?

2007-11-06 01:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend that i havent talked to in a week, is completely silent and doesnt want to talk to me, when i finally get the chance. I know that sometimes he just gets tired from working everyday... but that doesnt give him the right to totally seem uninterested in me. He doesnt want anything to do with me... even when I try to talk to him. Is this a sign of him not wanting to be with me anymore? Because I'm about to call it quits.

2007-11-06 01:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by I.Love.My.Baby.Iris. 4 in Singles & Dating

okay, so met this amazing guy this weekend (actually is a friend of mine, but i never really hung out with him before) and we hit it off fantastically. whe his friends and i were hanging out, the one girl mentioned something to him about some girl that he got pregnant and everyone got quiet and the one guy said that was a bad topic. i guess it's true, but from what i gathered the girl is married to someone else now and i guess they have a daughter together. i'm only 20 and he's 25, so i dont know if i could handle a guy that has a kid. call me immature, but i just dont want to get involved with that drama, but on the other hand, he's such a nice guy and i shouldnt judge him on his past. i dont know what to do! i need advice ASAP

2007-11-06 01:16:07 · 12 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Singles & Dating

This B*&!# my fiance has kids with is so crazy & jelous of our family we have, she is alwats trying to start stuff. Well I normally dont care but she is 25 yrs old and went to the extreme of calling my little boys names. They are only 6 yrs & 20 months. they are so innocent and dont know anything. She was calling them mutherf's and saying they are ugly (which I KNOW is out of jelousy0 b/c my boys are sweet & so adorable. But as a mom I just want to really flip out on this heffer or something. I dont care what she says but I dont know what to do b/c she has crossed the line but I dont want to get arrested for going to her home but I feel I need to stand up for my boys. How do I handle this in a mature way as a mother should?

2007-11-06 01:16:02 · 11 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Singles & Dating

This B*&!# my fiance has kids with is so crazy & jelous of our family we have, she is alwats trying to start stuff. Well I normally dont care but she is 25 yrs old and went to the extreme of calling my little boys names. They are only 6 yrs & 20 months. they are so innocent and dont know anything. She was calling them mutherf's and saying they are ugly (which I KNOW is out of jelousy0 b/c my boys are sweet & so adorable. But as a mom I just want to really flip out on this heffer or something. I dont care what she says but I dont know what to do b/c she has crossed the line but I dont want to get arrested for going to her home but I feel I need to stand up for my boys. How do I handle this in a mature way as a mother should?

2007-11-06 01:09:37 · 8 answers · asked by Yellowtulips 3 in Marriage & Divorce

When I hear people say that, it kind of sounds like an oxymoron to me. Isn't that exactly what makes the relationship, the amount of love in it? NOT that generic relationship high. But the genuine thing.

People say that "love isn't enough," because relationship take work. But doesn't the amount work put into the relationship have to do with the amount of love you have? If "love" is real. . .

So isn't "love is not enough" a false statment?

Hell, first you gotta find out how much love was there to being with. . .if any. . .

2007-11-06 01:09:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

there is this guy in school, he is new this year, he is also very quiet and doesn't talk much and he is quite wierd and ugly looking. right before a dance he came up to me when i was with my friends and asked if he can go to the dance with my group so i gave him my number because i didnt want to seem mean well he txted me and i told i had sprained my ankle so he stayed home. he tried calling then later couple of weeks ahead first he asked if i can pose for his photo class (he asked if it was cool with me and my bf and all that) i said no but i said i would love to but im busy. well then he tried calling couple of times but i refuse to pick up. he asked me in school why i didnt and i had to make up with some excuse and now he keeps on doing this!!! how do i get him to go away and leave me alone?!?!?!

2007-11-06 01:08:41 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

get over my ex

2007-11-06 01:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by *stacie* 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my mom (not my step-dad because he's a pedophile), but the truth is is that I have so much unhidden anger towards both of them.My parents would give me guilt trips and make me feel like I was a bad girl, so I would hide my anger and try to give them leeway. I would say"Oh they're not so bad, at least they're doing what's best for me." I was even praising my pedo step-dad because my mom brainwashed me to treat him as a "life saver." But I'm sick of it! My therapist even said my parents are a reason why I'm the way how I am today. If any of you read my topic about my mom choosing to stay with my step-dad, and thinking that money, reputation and living a rich life is more important than my happiness, than you know why I'm pissed right now. Not to mention that she chose that sicko to marry, brought him in the house, and forced us to pretend that he's our real dad. She keeps saying "I married him because we needed a house." So having a house is more important than what happens to

2007-11-06 01:05:09 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family