get over my ex
2007-11-06 01:05:12 · 18 answers · asked by *stacie* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i cant get over my ex
2007-11-06 01:08:38 · update #1
Would not be fair to him if you DID go out with him. Let your heart heal and give a guy a fair shot..............
2007-11-06 01:09:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand how you feel and you are right for holding off on jumping into a new relationship, if you are carrying baggage from another. Eventually you will have to start dating again, in order to move on from your ex. Sitting around the house,surrounded by a bunch of balled up tissues, thinking about him, will not help you.
Diving into another relationship too fast, will most likely have you taking out your frustration on the new guy, and that will turn him off immediately. Get well, allow your heart to heal, and then play the field. Take your time, with the next guy and make sure he's really worth it. Best wishes!
-Knowledge24
2007-11-06 09:13:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just give it time, you'll get over him. I wouldn't worry about dating, one of the easiest ways to get over the ex is to decide that you are going to enjoy the freedom. Maybe take a class on something you've always wanted to learn to do (crochet, web design, etc) or volunteer at an agency, get involved at a church, or join a sports team. Focussing on something less intense than a relationship is a good break for your mind and spirit.
2007-11-06 09:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by serf_tide 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wondering........Whats the situation with your ex? Any chance of getting back with him? Are you still in touch with him? Did it end amicably or was it messy? Do you know this other guy? Would it help if you were to explain this to your admirer, would he understand? Do you fancy this other guy?
Sometimes we need to admit to ourselves that its the end of something that we've held dear for however long. If your ex has no intentions of getting back with you then you need to move on and this guy might be the one to help you get over the rebound stage. If this is the case you need to make the other guy aware. Take care.
2007-11-06 09:13:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get over your ex is to tell this guy the truth and I am sure if he really feels something for you. He'll help you in the healing process.
2007-11-06 09:08:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
God is sovereign: Meaning that he is Almighty, all knowing, and he's in control of everything including who we meet. At the same time we are not robots without "free will." With that in mind, I think I'm learning not to try to "force" something to happen. Sometimes what appears to be good isn't and there maybe someone "Davine" protecting us from trouble we can't see.
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2007-11-06 09:12:37 · answer #6 · answered by Steve 369 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The good sign is that your mind is on the road to consider the alternative propoasal which is coming. In the first flus of greif of separation the fact that somebody else is showing interest in you does not even register in your brain. It has and this shows that the grief of separation is already on the wane. You now resolutrely try to ignore it and go forward to welcome the future. I donot know whether this 'guy' knows about your separation .If he does know it is a good sign and shows that he has already made his mind to forget the past.
So come live in the present for going to the future. Do not be like a mother who loses herself somuch in grieving over lost children that she tends to neglect the other children.
2007-11-06 09:15:39 · answer #7 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live with peace and patience . Utilise your present in some creative work and forget the ex.
2007-11-06 09:12:12 · answer #8 · answered by SUJITKUMAR D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then tell him that you aren't ready for another relationship. You don't need a man to define who you are. Try living without one for a while. Then when the right one comes along, you'll know
2007-11-06 09:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Cynthia S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be the tonic you need to get past the last guy. Approach this new opportunity with a positive attitude, and you might be surprised and refreshed about your new relationship !
2007-11-06 09:10:02 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
be frank wth that guy
n if he really loves u then he vil give u space n time
n if he doesn't then he is simply not worth u!!!
n plzzzz try n forget abt ur ex
cuz past won't do any good to u
live in the present dear
2007-11-06 09:09:11 · answer #11 · answered by lifeisfrndship 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋