ok i live with this guy .all most 3 years he makes good money i am disabled. his son of 19 works he lives here to he dont pay no bills he dont even buy his own razers or toilet paper. his dad buys it all for him i give him $300 a mounth i only get $623.my kids live in ky about 2 hours away. his mom lives there to when i go see my kids i only get see them 1 hour. he spends about 5 hours at his moms i dont mind going to his moms but is it fair to me.i help pay bills my oldest girl starts school in jan its not free i give her money to help her he jumps my *** he says my girls are just useing me. should i leave.
2007-11-06 01:53:51 · 6 answers · asked by s k 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
yes. sounds like he is being totally unfair to you and using YOU for $300/month b/c you're disabled and he thinks you won't leave.
leave him. get on your own. there are programs out there to help disabled people earn a living and get housing and everything. get out there and LIVE honey.
take care:)
2007-11-06 02:03:24 · answer #1 · answered by joey322 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah this guy sounds like a jerk. Plus his son needs to get off his *** and do something. I would have left along time ago if its been like this for a long time now. You find someone else that will love you 100% not some control freak!
2007-11-06 01:59:25 · answer #2 · answered by ace_adams79 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not know what you should do... if you are having issues in your relationship, then maybe gently approach the subject, ask him to listen, and let your guy know how YOU FEEL... "I feel _________" . Ask him what he thinks the two of you can do to work out the relationshp if that is what you want.
Let him know that you feel it's ok to help your kids, to some degree, and that you choose to help your daughter, as he chooses to let his son live in his home.
That's the best you can do. I hope things work out.
2007-11-06 02:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should! Sounds like he takes care of his kids but then when you want to help your kids he has a problem with it. Doesnt sound like a very good relationship to me. Hope everything works out for you.
2007-11-06 02:06:27 · answer #4 · answered by dee dee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you like him?
Do you love him?
Do you enjoy his company?
If there are financial issues, talk to him and resolve them. But if you don't really enjoy his company, leave.
2007-11-06 01:57:42 · answer #5 · answered by jplrvflyer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-11-06 01:56:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋