Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

All he's been doing lately is playing video games.
I even tried pausing the controller, and climbing ontop of him and kissing him.
When he finally caught his breath all he said was, "Look, you made me die!"

What should I do... I seem to want it more than him. Any suggestions?
Thank you! :)

2007-11-06 06:20:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i have been with my boyfriend for 4 years goin on 5 years ...from age 15-20.
he was my only love the only boy i have ever known..
nyhoo i am quite shy and dealing with overcoming this fear!! and i think i have overcome it but still have a few shy tendancies i dont dance in public for instants ..my boyfriend on the other hand is so outgoing, a fantastic dancer etc and he loves being in the middle of a club part takeing in a dance off... u can see the difference right, so recently i think this whole difference in charecter has affected him and he now says he has a problem..he loves me but hates me, he wants to be able to dance with me not other girls, go out and get drunk (i prefer not to do this!) try different foods, be more sexually outgoing
nyways things along thoose lines... is it ok for someone to say i wish u were different?, or shod i stick it out and try and change even more, what do u think of him
thanks for ur help

2007-11-06 06:18:41 · 58 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 06:18:39 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mother is single and lives alone. She has always taken favours from me but rarely gives them back. She always has asked for favours from my family from shovelling her sidewalk to letting her stay with us for a month till her new house was ready. But when it's my turn to ask for favours like babysitting for a few hours,.. etc she either says no or backs out of it last minute. What should I do? I wanted to have a relationship with her, but I don't think I can. When I do hang out with her, she doesn't seem interested in what is happening in my life or in my kids at all. She more or less ignores them when they try to tell her their little stories. Mostly she uses the time to tell me everything about what is going on with her. It's sad, because I don't think she will change as she is a very defensive person. Well, my question is how do I have a relationship with a person like this, especially being that she is also my mother with out being a doormate?

2007-11-06 06:16:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if my boyfriend of 10 months teases me sometimes saying i should dump him and find someone who will marry me? He says it jokingly like he is too independant to settle down, but then when he was drunk he said he wanted to be with me forever, marry me and have kids? He is totally sweet to me and tells me he loves me all the time.

2007-11-06 06:15:37 · 36 answers · asked by kat 2 in Singles & Dating

Quite often I see answers such as "leave him", "get a divorce" or something similar.

2007-11-06 06:15:13 · 12 answers · asked by HM 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Was your wedding somewhere other than where you were living? What were/are the biggest challenges of planning a wedding from afar? How many trips did you make and how long did it take to plan?

2007-11-06 06:15:00 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

my answer has never been accepted as the best why?

2007-11-06 06:14:33 · 8 answers · asked by Apple Buttom 1 in Singles & Dating

i have five girls that like me. and i am not sure which one i want to date. i like at least two and well the others i think of as freinds. the ones i consider freinds i told them so.
i am thinking about just going on dates with the rest to see which one i really like.
do you think that is right?
P.S i am going to tell the girls i want to date that i am not just dating her and that if she does not like that then she can just move on. so is this a good idea?

2007-11-06 06:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 06:13:54 · 17 answers · asked by dan b 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 06:11:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 06:10:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Like Seal and Heidi Klum, or Jay-Z and Beyonce? What about Ugly women with men? I hate ugly women with men even more because if an ugly woman can get a handsome man(who most likely treats her like garbage) than average looking woman expect can to handsome man who treats her right, and a good looking woman will expect to get a handsome guy, who is rich.

2007-11-06 06:07:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now…after about 1 year we stopped being as “intimate” as we had been…and it just continued to decline. Its not for a lack of trying new things…we have…but for me its almost like being “intimate” with a really good friend.

I love him (there’s no doubt about that) and he treats me really good. He is always trying to do things to better himself and set us up to have a family. And I know that is a rare find…but I just can’t bring myself to do “anything” with him…

Sometimes there is a month or more in between. I don’t know if its that I’m not attracted to him, or if my drive is just gone…but how do I find that out without being with someone else??

I’m so confused…is lack of s** enough to end a relationship that is perfect otherwise? How do I figure out if its me, or him??

2007-11-06 06:07:33 · 27 answers · asked by Inquiring Mind 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

First of all I dont wanna come off as being a mean or jealous person but. My high school boyfriend who is now my husband cheated on me in high school and got some tramp pregnant. Well he is very much in the childs life but says he wants nothing to do with her. Me being young and naive believed this and married him. We now have a child. I recently talked to his "babymama" and she said that they had sex last december. The same month I had our son. Well he says he hates the "*****" and doesnt want to be with her but anytime we argue or i put him out he goes to her. I know hes wrong and I should leave him but I cant stand the thought of him being with her. HELP PLEASE!!!

2007-11-06 06:06:35 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my soon to be husband wnat his 3 friends and their feinces to move in with us as well as one of his friends who is going through some leagle thing with her soon to be ex and she has 2 kids and i have 4 kids. is that too many people? should i tell him he cant have all of them in our home? you tell me what you think should i be suppoetive or should i put my foot down about so many people in one home (apartment)?

2007-11-06 06:06:10 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean like really fancy gorgeous cupcakes. Is it wrong? is it cheap looking?

2007-11-06 06:06:09 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am getting married next year, june 2008, a mate of mine annoucned that she is marrying her whirlwind lover in 2009, now all of a sudden she is marrying her fella in september 2008!

When she talks to me, she is staring at my hair, because she is envious of it, I have told her that I have indian in me, hence why hmy hair is long and has a nice texture (being black and having indian in you is a big thing!)

She claimed that she has indian in her but then I spoke to a family member of hers and I found out that she was lying, she has no indian in her at all!

I am black, so is she but I am into rock and grunge music and she thinks that is wrong, telling me that I am a honkey.

What do you think of this

2007-11-06 06:06:02 · 9 answers · asked by Rebz 5 in Friends

Split up after living together for 2 years anbd being with each other for 4 years. Been split now for 4 months but there isn't a day goes by where i get up with a sad heart and a mega depressed feeling..........how long does this bleeding hurt last for? I left my wife years back and knew it was the right thing but i can't remember this hurt as i knew the marriage was over for a while. My ex now is still a real good friend and we both agreed that we were finding it difficult to live together but although i think it was right - why am i still dead inside?? Maybe because i still see her regularly.
Thanks for any answers to a newbie!!

2007-11-06 06:05:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok here it goes…I was seeing a guy who instantly I felt chemistry with. We were together almost everyday and text at least 50 times or more per day. Well, back in January I broke up with him because I caught him going threw my purse to look at my phone (he is very jealous) so I broke up with him there and then. I cried and fell into a depression (weight loss and crying spells) because of it, it left me devastated. Well after 5 months of being a hermit and not having the strength to meet anybody I went out and meet wonderful man. He has treated me to trips to Paris and Thailand and even got me a brand new BMW. He’s a dream, but there is a catch he doesn’t believe in marriage and gave up having kids (never been married and doesn’t have kids). So 9 months go by and my ex who broke my heart wants to give it another try. He said he wants to take things slow and see what happens. My question is do people really change? It’s almost been a year since the break up does he want something serious like marriage with me? I’m not sure if I should, when we were dating we did break up for one month and decided to give it a try so this would be our third attempt!!

2007-11-06 06:03:49 · 34 answers · asked by evangelina1980 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi

I dated a girl for about a month, broke up up with her, we stayed friends, she met someone else and I've slowly fallen in love with her. She's been seeing this guy for about 5 months and she still see's me as a friend (although I haven't contacted her in months).

Now I want her back and I'm going to confront her.

I need advice from females - please.

Thanks

2007-11-06 06:02:34 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she's my best friend. she has been for years. but i've secretly loved her almost as long as known her. and i didn't think i was good enough. so i worked my @ss off over the summer. i lost 58 lbs in two months (and gained fourty back as pure muscle), i stood up straighter to fix my posture (and gained 6 in., bringing me to 6'2") i fixed my hair (no one liked my hair in my eyes. i looked like a mushroom). im at the age where my face is finally clearing up too, and i thought i stood a chance. but since she joined the wrestling team last year, and lost 39 lbs, her standards are higher. i was there when her boyfriends dumped her, and when they were cheating, and when she thought she was pregnant. still im not good enough. now i just want her to feel how she made me feel. i dont care what you think of me. i want to be netter. too good for her. and i need help. what can i do?

2007-11-06 06:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Grimace 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 06:01:33 · 10 answers · asked by Cam N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am only a18 and my breasts are already this large. I hope they aren't still growing! I dont get it. Large breasts do not run in my family! Women on both sides are known to have small breasts. I dont understand why my are so large. I have heard it's the hormones in the food people prepare this day in age. That can't possibly be the only reason. I am not overweight at all, in fact, the rest of my body is very tiny. I am seriously considering a reduction. but what I want to know is how they got so big?

2007-11-06 05:59:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend told me this, and I'm not really sure why. this was by the time she was 22 or something. I'm not sure what to make of it. I mean, me and all the girls I know haven't slept with even close to that many people, so it came as a shock to me. I mean, she must be quite, er, flirtatious to have done that, or at least a bit easy. Does that mean that's the sort of girl he usually goes for? I feel worried that his ex was this big aggresive experienced sexual predator, and that I'm totally boring and inexperienced in comparison. Either that, or he'd prefer someone a bit more...erm...slutty or something? He said she was tested for stds and she was clean, so I have to trust him on that. he also said that he had only slept with 5 people. Should I be worried that I'm not experienced enough for him?

2007-11-06 05:54:47 · 46 answers · asked by Katrina W 2 in Singles & Dating

i have never been baptized and stll don't want to be but i dont have a problem if my fiance wants to have our children baptized in the future... he's really adamant about being married in church but since i've never been at all religious i didnt want to suddenly convert to a catholic from never having any faith at all just to get married. please help!!!

2007-11-06 05:53:56 · 12 answers · asked by Lindsay B 2 in Weddings

why , when i like a guy, and he starts to show alot interest in me, i push him away and step back and get bored?????

how can i change this?

2007-11-06 05:53:05 · 1 answers · asked by yasinena 3 in Singles & Dating

Why would someone, a girl in my case, text message me instead of calling me when she says she will call me when we are meeting? I call her all the time but she never calls me unless its because shes calling me back.

2007-11-06 05:48:45 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, at first he called me and things seemed to be going good. Then all of a sudden he stopped calling me. Then when I logged into msn, he was all like "why didn't you call me?" when he said to me previously that he was going to call me, which is why I didn't call him because I was waiting for his call. Then when he calls me, he actually asks me "what am I thinking about?". lol. Then now, he's always asking me to call him, instead of him just picking up the phone and calling me. He also likes shoes and likes chick flicks.

Is there something wrong with this guy, or is my brain just over exaggerating everything? I'm possibly in the wrong, because his behaviour is kinda cute...but he is such a girl! lol

2007-11-06 05:46:52 · 7 answers · asked by somegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-11-06 05:46:06 · 14 answers · asked by Beach Babe 08 2 in Singles & Dating