i have five girls that like me. and i am not sure which one i want to date. i like at least two and well the others i think of as freinds. the ones i consider freinds i told them so.
i am thinking about just going on dates with the rest to see which one i really like.
do you think that is right?
P.S i am going to tell the girls i want to date that i am not just dating her and that if she does not like that then she can just move on. so is this a good idea?
2007-11-06 06:13:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good idea to date all of them and just see who fits you...Don't ever tell any of them that you are dating the others, unless one ask's you. Then don't lie, just say, that you are discovering who's right for you. Then they will get jelious real quick and fight over you. Avoid this at all cost....You end up loosing all of them in the process.
That's why it's called dating.
2007-11-06 06:19:57 · answer #1 · answered by Date Dr. 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That's not fair to the girls. It's like you're turning it into a game, for pete's sake!
Why don't you just stick with one person for a couple of weeks and see if it work out? If you guys are happy, there's no need for you to go through the other girls too.
Never date a girl one day, and date another the next day. It's like you're cheating...or a name for you would be a "player"
Pick the one you feel the most strongly about, and ask her out. If it doesn't work out, then move on. Just don't bounce between the girls when you are picking who you want to be with.
2007-11-06 14:27:41 · answer #2 · answered by Nina is here! :D 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First off,are you bragging or complaining?Next if you are just dating someone there is no need to bring up the subject unless they ask.Only then should you let them know.Hey just remember rule number one;you don't have to tell on yourself.Now if you are in a relationship with some one then shame on you boy.If not there is no rule that says you can't date more than one person.But be careful cause girls don't like competition.And if these two know each other you can bet they will be comparing notes.Good luck,Buck
2007-11-06 14:31:41 · answer #3 · answered by Buck 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No don't bother bringing it up, you'll sound like you're just looking for attention. if she asks, don't lie. Then explain that you like her and someone else but you really don't know how annoying someone is until you spend at least a little time with them. There's nothing better than 2 women trying to one-up each other. Worst case 1 of them gets overly aggressive and you get play. :P
2007-11-06 14:22:30 · answer #4 · answered by Agnostic Front 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a pig, pick one and be exclusive. You start treating girls like that, having multiple girls on the go and telling them to take off if they don't like it, you're very quickly going to be seen as a sleazy jerk. And then only the skanks will be interested in you.
If that's okay with you, then you've got bigger problems.
2007-11-06 14:22:57 · answer #5 · answered by rohak1212 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
seriously if you are honest like that with them and they agree to it, then do it! you r probably young, and you should have fun. As long as your not sleeping with both of them then what harm is in dating bth?
2007-11-06 14:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Mary L 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
How about stringing all of them along until you find one that gives up the booty, then dump all the rest.........I'm not saying this is the best option, just another option~
2007-11-06 14:23:14 · answer #7 · answered by Phil McKracken 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You aren't obligated to tell them you are dating other people until you are exclusive. I would keep it to myself.
2007-11-06 14:17:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
hey girls this guy sounds like a player
2007-11-06 14:16:28 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
um one word-player
2007-11-06 14:21:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋