Family & Relationships - 6 November 2007

Does anyone take the advice people given to them in their questions? Does anyone learn from the other questions asked, the ones you read?

2007-11-06 06:51:40 · 3 answers · asked by Jon G 7 in Singles & Dating

want to do it to this FAT MAN. He's 6"4 and weighs about 250 almost 300.

I am 4"11 and weight 140.

We've been chillin and talkin for a minute....and i want to do something, but i am scared.

Of course, I do not want him to get on TOP....he's pretty big and i am afraid he might suffocate me. (don't laugh)

I never done it to a FAT man before....and i am not sure if it's going to work out.

Any suggestions.....help a sista out!

2007-11-06 06:51:15 · 20 answers · asked by twdy412 2 in Singles & Dating

i told the guy im casually dating (aka NOT my bf) that im going away for the weekend with my best friend (who is a guy) and he suddenly announced at his work that he wants to go to the casino (which is where we are going!) 1 of my friends works with him and just called and said that hes planning on going down saturday which is when i am going but when i texted him and asked what his plans were for this weekend he said he was gunna work all weekend so hes obv trying to come down and crash my weekend. hes upset cuz my best friend is 1. a guy and 2. my ex boyfriend. he doesnt get that me and my ex broke up for a reason and that if i wanted to be with him then i would be. he has thrown fits about it before and we ended all contact in the summer over it. he wants to "work things out" but this is not the way to go about it..what do i do? should i tell him i kno about his plans or what? i dont want to be spied on when im doing nothing wrong!!

2007-11-06 06:51:14 · 17 answers · asked by jennybean7985 5 in Singles & Dating

I need my space:

I love you:

I miss you:

Please leave me alone:

I want you:

You're too good for me:

I think your cute:

2007-11-06 06:49:08 · 36 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my wife cheated on me. She told me because she felt like she didnt have a friend in me. Well, there has to be more than that. But it is all so new still so I am sure more will be coming out.
She said she only slept with him once. But once or 100 times, it's all the same. She said she was sorry, and I do forgive her. I think I want to work it out but I am not sure how. How/can I trust her again? I want to so much. Im just really confused and hurt. I just dont know what to do or where to start.

2007-11-06 06:49:05 · 80 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my hubs for 4 years now, we have 2 beautiful children, and he is in the military. He joined just over a year ago and ever since right before then his family has gone completely nuts. I used to be really close with his sister, then she got a bf and destroyed expensive clothing of mine and wouldnt replace it...and i decided she was not the type of person I want to be friends with. anyhoo when he left to join, his mother called me one day out of the blue called me every name in the book, accused our son (only 1 then) of not being his, thinks our sex life is her business, got pissed when we bought a car together and she wasnt involved, ect ect. she has always been 2 faced, talking bad about her own children her sister brother ect, and I have come to the point where I dont want my children growing up around people like her, i will be damned if I let her say untrue bad things to MY kids! My husband is 100% supportive, but its such a sad situation. Any suggestions to move on

2007-11-06 06:47:09 · 22 answers · asked by mommyof2 1 in Family

She always has to scream and yell and im telling her to shut up! and i get in trouble for it!!! ITS SO ANNOYING!!! HELP ME!!!

2007-11-06 06:45:48 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Webkinz Lover Lilly♥ 2 in Family

If a marriage lasts only two weeks should the bride and the groom give back the wedding gifts?

2007-11-06 06:45:26 · 18 answers · asked by cam57 5 in Weddings

ok so he had this fling with a girl and he would mess around with her and after a couple times she would just be a mind trip like tellin him she was pregnate to get attention from him and just being a total a$$ she was my friend untill all this happened.
Last night she wrote me saying tell your bro that i would pay to be his friend again(he had told her he didnt want anything to do with her) so what should i do? question her about why she felt the need to lie about all that stuff or convience my bro to be friends with her again?

2007-11-06 06:45:14 · 9 answers · asked by Lauren M 1 in Singles & Dating

Everytime we talk the first thing he says is "Hows the divorce going, not gonna get back together?", and then he drops it... in person he'll do this thing with his eyes where he's looking at me in the face but he darts his eyes down to my chest & back up in my eyes, plus lots of "joking" sexual comments.... is he wanting me to persue him, whats the deal??

P.S. Thought i'd throw this in to....
We hug goodbye ( always have), his hugs are soooo much tighter now than before I got married; nothing like groping, but just a real loving feeling

2007-11-06 06:45:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 48 my boyfriend is 45. we have been going out for 3 years now .Not only do we celebrate our anniversary each year he insists on celebrating the 6th of each month because the 6th of september we had our first date . I think this is childish. or do you think im just tired of the whole thing

2007-11-06 06:44:27 · 19 answers · asked by jennie s 2 in Marriage & Divorce

this boyfriend of mind wants to have kids get married and other things im not ready hes 23 and im 19 wow getting married we havent seen each other in 3 years whats his problem is he desperate i want to see other men before i get tied down NO im not a hore i have hore intendisys i want to experience life not love ive been hurt 3 times already im confused wahts the deal with me

2007-11-06 06:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by DIVA 2 in Singles & Dating

Please read and help me understand this.

We played a pool game and my boyfriend got in a fight with this guy. I tried to push the other guy off of him on the ground and then when they started to fight again I came in between them and stopped it. Well then he got kicked out of the bar and 2 of his friends took him back home.
He says I didn't stick up for him cause i didn't leave with him when he did.
I did what I could, and i don't know what else I couldv'e did. I couldn't just leave the bar, I had a tab to pay. I told him that and everything buy he still doesn't understand and now he has moved out saying we need a break.

2007-11-06 06:43:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to those who responded soo negatively and didn't read the last part i put in there.
My husband calls me because he wants to call me and he wants to talk to his son as well. He works 12 hour shifts some nights and doesn't see us much during the day. I love seeing the smile on my son's face when he talks to his daddy on the phone. So it has nothing to do with me clinging to him and i'm not worried that he's cheating on me or anything like that. We have a healthy happy marriage and wouldn't change a thing! I only see my husband maybe for 3 hours a day. He works alot of weekends as well so we try to stay close! Our son is learning new stuff every day and it's exciting to tell my husband about it!

2007-11-06 06:41:27 · 2 answers · asked by JumpingBean 3 in Family

Especially if you've been trying, without any success, to find "that special person" for a while?

2007-11-06 06:40:33 · 12 answers · asked by PRH1 3 in Singles & Dating

I am in love with my ex girlfriend but I broke up with her because she deserves better which I honestly mean. I dont have the time for a relationship now and I feel terrible. Not just a line. She said she understood but she loves me and she thinks I do deserve her. But she still understands where I'm coming from. I could tell she was really hurt...Did I even do the right thing?

2007-11-06 06:39:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Met a guy a couple of weeks ago. Had first date this past Friday (4 days ago). It was amazing. Supposed to be only meeting for drinks after work. That led to dinner, which led to dessert at another restaurant. Great conversation, lots of flirting, laughing and fun. The evening ended several hours later. We said goodbye with no mention of getting together again. We've emailed back and forth this week, during which we talked about our first date and I expressed interest in getting together again. He hasn't said anything either way. What's the next step? I'm assuming that HE should initiate requesting the second date. If he doesn't, should I assume he's not interested in me? Do you agree?

2007-11-06 06:39:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband of 1 month and I are moving back to my hometown in a month. We've been discussing where we wanted to live for a while now, and being there makes the most sense for us. Both he and I found good jobs there, we already have land to build a home on, I have a large family very close by, and the town supports the community lifestyle we want for our future children. However, his mother is hurt. She wants us closer to her. How can we assure her that she will be part of our lives? We feel terrible about this, but it is the right thing for our lives. How can I help him feel less guilty? I feel sad for him that his excitement about a new job and moving out of the large city we live in now is dampered by this. And I feel sad for her that her son won't be close by and that she is jealous of the relationship my family will have with us.

2007-11-06 06:37:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How old do you have to be to change your surname with your mothers permission, i'm 16, can I change it now?

2007-11-06 06:36:52 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here's the "short version" of the story. I just moved to NY this April to be with my family. I met my boyfriend in May. Turns out I got pregnant around July 4th with his baby. He has 2 boys from a previous relationship that he RARELY even gets to see. He used to pay his child support (off & on) but recently he quit his job so I have a feeling he might end up going to jail since he's gonna miss at least one payment. Our relationship started going downhill about 2 months ago so I moved out and back to my family's house. I recently found out that shortly after I moved out he met another girl through some friends of his (I don't like many of his friends at all) and the 3rd time hanging out with her, they slept together. She's the one who told me the whole story (although she says it wasn't worth it and didn't know about me and doesn't want to even speak to him again). So of course he denied it at first but eventually fessed up. Now he's saying that it won't ever happen again and he wants

2007-11-06 06:35:30 · 23 answers · asked by Lexus 2 in Singles & Dating

he will be gone for another five days...I love him so much but shouldn't I feel like I miss him

2007-11-06 06:35:07 · 16 answers · asked by MissLady 3 in Singles & Dating

They are like a tennis match hurling insults and ugly words. What's worse is they drag the children into their disfunctional games. I am not jealous, just fed up with the drama. I love him and have talked tro him about this numerous times. I don't know if I should leave and protect myself or stay and be by his side and support him through this hard time. Suggestions please.

2007-11-06 06:32:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left 6 months ago because he is an acoholic. I would have to go stay the night elsewhere on many occasions when he was drunk and mean, but not physically. His lawyer keeps saying I don't have grounds for divorce and they are contesting it. There is substanial money involved. My attorney says the grounds are real. There is no chance to reconcile. I am not seeing anyone so it is not for spite..I am just not understanding unless it is about the money, which he will have to pay me anyway. Why would buying time make a difference if that is what they are doing? It is not against his religion and he is not trying to get me back. What do you think? I am a little confused here.

2007-11-06 06:27:37 · 40 answers · asked by Ann Marie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby ALWAYS calls me on his breaks. 5pm 8 pm and 10 pm. WELL I was sooooooo worried alll last night because he did not call. I understand that he was busy and his phone crapped out on him but he knows that I'm a worry wart and I was soo sick to my stomache thinking the worst possible has happened. Should he have tried to find another phone to use to let me know he wouldn't be able to call me? They hardly ever answer their phone where he works because it is sooo loud and always very busy and I couldn't exactly drive there with my 15 month old asleep.
When he finally got home I was soo relieved but I broke down crying, I don't know why. I don't want to go through that again!

2007-11-06 06:25:03 · 48 answers · asked by JumpingBean 3 in Family

would u date me?....
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haha dont ask what i was doing i have no idea

2007-11-06 06:25:01 · 35 answers · asked by in_L-O-V-E_w/daniel 3 in Singles & Dating

My question is in the context of direct enjoyment, pleasure or excitement, not the indirect enjoyment, pleasure, or excitement one may derive, from pleasing their partner.

Ideally, I am seeking a published study or other scholarly work. However, I would also, like to hear the personal opinions of women.

2007-11-06 06:23:31 · 17 answers · asked by Larry 4 in Singles & Dating

For various reasons, if we don't do it in May we won't be able to have the wedding in December or later. Not wanting to have a wedding in the winter or wait until the next Spring (2009), we decided that this coming May (2008) would be the best time for us. But several, rude, people keep thinking it's because she's pregnant. Which she's not.

What's the best way to deal with this kind of ignorance? Is there even a point?

2007-11-06 06:22:12 · 25 answers · asked by Rob A 2 in Weddings

i want my bf to basically rape me every time we do it. is that completely messed up of me? I love the feeling of his strong arms holding me down, him telling me to shut up and take it, and him forcing himself into me.

2007-11-06 06:21:27 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What exactly are the boundaries? How long is too long to talk on the phone with someone of the opposite sex if you are in a committed relationship? Is three hours everyday too much? what about five? Where is the line drawn?

2007-11-06 06:21:22 · 23 answers · asked by genniangel0 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My current boyfriend is 24, I'm 21. We just started dating, he asked me out officially about a week ago. Back when I was 17 him and I were really good friends although I was very promiscuous as the time. His family knew me as "that promiscuous girl" who came over sometimes.
Yesterday he informed me he didn't want to tell his family about us yet and he would in due time. I understand why they'd be concerned, I wasn't a good girl back then but why won't he just tell them now? He's already talking about the future with me. Could he just be saying he doesn't want to tell his family because he's cheating or something? Why would he do this? My friends told me to not sleep with him until he is ready to make our relationship public and not keep me a "secret". I agree I think. What do you think about all this? help please!! :(

2007-11-06 06:20:58 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating