I am in love with my ex girlfriend but I broke up with her because she deserves better which I honestly mean. I dont have the time for a relationship now and I feel terrible. Not just a line. She said she understood but she loves me and she thinks I do deserve her. But she still understands where I'm coming from. I could tell she was really hurt...Did I even do the right thing?
2007-11-06 06:39:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes you did the right thing, if you dont have time for relationship or put effort into it then she derserves better, you did her a huge favor instead of letting the relationship go on and on and letting it die on its own
2007-11-06 06:44:12 · answer #1 · answered by A Decade Ago 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well yeah cuz u part of a way u was honest n if u dont have tiime den dont be wiith a gurl cuz all u gonna do is end up hurtiin her more but if u do love try 2 find a way to have tiime cuz u never noe n also talk 2 her as a friiend n if ya love each other dont waste tiime cuz sum ni99a miite take her away from u n u miite not like it
2007-11-06 14:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by dAWIf3YUWANT 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all your doing is making her feel bad. If your in love with her, you can make time for her! Never tell her that you are too busy for her.
You aren't being a jerk, but your making this hard for her. Try to see it from her point of view. She sees that you dont have time for her, and have low self esteem. You are good enought for her. Just give her what she wants, while she still wants you.
2007-11-06 14:52:17 · answer #3 · answered by m.e. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mark - 'she deserves BETTER'? No one is BETTER than you, and no one is WORSE than you.
If you love her and she loves you, then you should be with her. She LOVES YOU. It is your own lack of self-love that is responsible for your breaking up with her.
So, why aren't you lovable and deserving of love? Does her love make you feel uncomfortable or bad?
If you get a chance, please read "How to Heal the Hurt That Sabotages Your Life" by Bill Ferguson.
Good luck
2007-11-06 14:47:51 · answer #4 · answered by dragonsong 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you feel terrible because her feelings are hurt or do you feel terrible because you want to be with her? There's a big difference. If you feel guilty for hurting her feelings, you're going to have to accept and appreciate that you did what was best for her and for you, and she will move on. If you really want to be with her, call her up and try to work it out.
2007-11-06 14:44:54 · answer #5 · answered by No Shortage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if u love her that much, and that you can see a future together, but if u dnt see nothing like that then. yes u made the right decision but u shud just be with her because life is too short
2007-11-06 14:46:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you didn't do the right thing.If you're a great guy then you deserve a great girl no matter how much you work or how busy you are
2007-11-06 14:43:43 · answer #7 · answered by DiamondXxx 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Honestly yes ,becuase you have to be commited to that girl but ya'll should still be friends. When you r ready for a relationship go for it .but it sounds like she really does like you.
2007-11-06 14:57:31 · answer #8 · answered by star 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont have time for her than yes, you did the right thing. Just dont expect her to be waiting for you when you do have time for her.
2007-11-06 14:44:12 · answer #9 · answered by kitty10185 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well u just have to go with ur heart. Take time away from her so u can think about it.
good luck :)
2007-11-06 14:54:00 · answer #10 · answered by danceingsidney 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋