this boyfriend of mind wants to have kids get married and other things im not ready hes 23 and im 19 wow getting married we havent seen each other in 3 years whats his problem is he desperate i want to see other men before i get tied down NO im not a hore i have hore intendisys i want to experience life not love ive been hurt 3 times already im confused wahts the deal with me
2007-11-06 06:43:42 · 6 answers · asked by DIVA 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what kind of relationship is that? you haven't seen him for 3 years. so, you were 16 last time you saw him. you both are too young. wait till he is 25. if then he still wants to marry you, maybe he just loves you that much. you can still hang out with him to see where it goes. if you are not ready to get married, you are just not ready. nothing wrong with that.
2007-11-06 06:48:32 · answer #1 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exacly what you mean about dating other men b4 u get married. I met my husband when i was 16 been together since I'm now 24. I sometimes wonder what my life had been if I had waited longer. But hey sometimes you need to take risks I knew this man was going to love me no matter what, & maybe the others weren't so who knows. But I say you should wait.
2007-11-06 14:52:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you made up your mind. Go with that. It seems like he is too old for you. He wants to settle down and you aren't ready. That can cause problems. You haven't seen each other for 3 years and that is a long time. You seem to me you made up with your mind and want other things. I don't blame you for feeling like that. If you feel like that have fun. You are still young....enjoy.
2007-11-06 14:49:24 · answer #3 · answered by runner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don' t know!? lol but seriosly you just want to live you life and then settle down which is normal. but you don't have to have kids to do that what you can do and probably should do is go with him... don't get married or have kids... all that can wait! but have fun with him and as usual and if and when you are ready to settle down and the 2 of you are still together then thats when it'll happing. thats it! simple!?
2007-11-06 14:50:35 · answer #4 · answered by mixed_brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He loves and wants to spend his life with you, this is in no way a bad thing.
2007-11-06 14:48:13 · answer #5 · answered by Mike M. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats normal for you to think like that. just tell him your not ready for that
2007-11-06 14:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋