She always has to scream and yell and im telling her to shut up! and i get in trouble for it!!! ITS SO ANNOYING!!! HELP ME!!!
2007-11-06 06:45:48 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Webkinz Lover Lilly♥ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Im 12 shes 14
2007-11-06 12:43:24 · update #1
Since you did not give your age it's hard to answer. If you are living in her home it is best you just shut up and close your ears. At some point when she is calm and can be approached talk with her. Tell her that you find that very upsetting and would you would like very much to have a better relationship with her. If she gets upset again, close you mouth and your ears again. When you scream back it re-enforces her desire to OUT SHOUT YOU. Don't give her fuel.
I tend to be a little smart a** myself. I might ask her .....WWJD?
when she is yelling,.... what would Jesus do? ..... the shut your mouth and ears! and run for cover!!
And if you don't live with her but she visit from time to time, just avoid her like the plague and if asked why tell her.
2007-11-06 07:03:09 · answer #1 · answered by Lyn B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you probably wont like to hear this but if your aunt is an adult and your are a child then telling her to shut up is inappropriate. However, if she is mean to you then you need to talk to your parents. If they do not do anything about it then avoid her. If she ask why, then tell her in a calm voice that you feel that she does not treat you very nice and walk away. That way she gets the point and you can't get in trouble for being rude.
Good luck!
2007-11-06 15:04:47 · answer #2 · answered by MotherB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, there has to be a reason for her to be yelling at you. Second of all, don't yell back, that just makes things worse. If there is no reason why she's yelling, just tell your parents.
2007-11-06 15:05:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't cause her to scream and respect her age and status in the extended family.
2007-11-06 16:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋