My boyfriend that i havent talked to in a week, is completely silent and doesnt want to talk to me, when i finally get the chance. I know that sometimes he just gets tired from working everyday... but that doesnt give him the right to totally seem uninterested in me. He doesnt want anything to do with me... even when I try to talk to him. Is this a sign of him not wanting to be with me anymore? Because I'm about to call it quits.
2007-11-06 01:16:27 · 21 answers · asked by I.Love.My.Baby.Iris. 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not trying to tell him what he does or doesnt have a right to do..we do compromise. I jsut don't think he has the right to treat me like crap after I show him that I care deeply about him and he turns me down.
2007-11-06 01:34:21 · update #1
Rethink things honey.........If my girlfriend tells me what my ' RIGHTS " are I'd be dropping you too.......Don't ever tell some one what feelings they have a right to have............Sorry , but choose your words wisely - that one statement speaks volumes about you
2007-11-06 01:22:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The same thing is happening with me and my boyfriend. He is 21, and we have been dating since highschool. I think that all of the sudden he feels this pressure to grow up and become an adult so he is rebelling against it. We will probably have to break up because I don't see this changing any time soon. You never mentioned how old your boyfriend was? Maybe it doesn't matter. Men all seem to be the same. Good luck!
2007-11-06 09:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by sara 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if its a sign that he's trying to give you, but its a sign. He might not think anything is wrong. Things are going just fine. But you aren't happy so things need to change. Either change with him or without him. But take action. Life is to short to feel miserable in relationships.
2007-11-06 09:21:12 · answer #3 · answered by light_strikes_a_deal 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should call it quits. People are amazing creatures and they have the ability to work all week and still have a relationship...your boyfriend is either putting the rest of his energy elswhere or he just doesn't respect you. Get a new one.
2007-11-06 09:20:05 · answer #4 · answered by ppw1024 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It may be, But, you mentioned that he worked alot and well that may be the reason.Perhaps, he is too tired to talk.
And, trust it happens.
Because, when my husband gets from work he doesnt quite feel like talking.
Just confront him about it, its the only way of finding out.
2007-11-06 09:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by BB 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't like to be the one to dump the girl bc a lot of times rumors get around and they are criticized for it. Maybe he just wants you to agree and make it mutual?
2007-11-06 09:20:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it, but it sounds like he has lost interest in you. You need to just come right out and ask him what's up? And tell him how you are feeling! It's one thing to be married and dealing with this kind of thing but when it's just your boyfriend...yah...have a chat with him!
2007-11-06 09:20:39 · answer #7 · answered by hopetohelpyou 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do it before he does. It will make u feel better. Its no use hanging on to someone whos fine not talking to you for a week. Respect yourself and call off.
2007-11-06 09:20:20 · answer #8 · answered by sheenu 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
yea becuz evidently he doesnt want to talk 2 you if hes not calling you. but dont quit just ask him whats going on dont just call it a quit.
2007-11-06 09:21:08 · answer #9 · answered by `Beautiful inside and out~ 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a sign. But it would be better if you discuss with him openly in leisure time,may be on Sunday!
2007-11-06 15:18:48 · answer #10 · answered by Dr.kumar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋