So i have had terrible relations with guys before, and i can't really feel close to them. I view them all the same, the way i view girls too. Its as if im asexual(not liking sex) or something. I think it might have to do with me being raped at a young age. But there is this guy, who isn't even that hot, who i feel really comfortable with. Like i put my head on his shoulder (which is something i can NEVER do) and he put his head on mine. And i was playing around with this bracelet i gave him, and i just wanted him to be around me. And he has been on my mind a lot lately. Does this mean i like him? and if i eventually do want to start a relationship with him, what do i do? im afraid to ask him out because he's 3 years younger then me, im a senior and he's a freshman(we're in high school) and i'd feel like such a loser if he said no. But does this mean i like him? and if so, how do i know its not going to turn out like all my other relationships?
2007-11-06 01:21:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and all my other relationships resulted in me not really caring for someone, and he'd usually cheat on me and i wouldn't really care, or id just forget about him or something.
2007-11-06 01:22:47 · update #1
Hon, i'm sorry you had a bad experience.. and i hope you got some help for the rape... such as therapy. If you didn't, please consider it. It's necessary.
As for the guy, well, just see what develops. Remember that, if you are over 17 and he isn't, it's not a good idea to get involved... You are an adult, and he's not.
take care.
2007-11-06 01:30:19 · answer #1 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes you just have to go with ur heart and it seems like its telling you to go for it even if he is younger then you; I had trouble liking guys after i was cheated on and then mistreated; I'm also a senior in highschool and i say give it a shot
Ive had bf's mistreat me and cheat on me and i was afarid of a real reltionship but i liked the guy im with now and we just hit 5 months It is the best thing i could have done was open my heart to him
2007-11-06 09:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at some point your going to have to put yourself out there and trust someone again. This guy likes you and you seem to like him. Id say to go for it. I really dont think that he would reject you.
2007-11-06 09:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋