me and my best friend are having this problems but i don't know what are those problems, she just keep telling me that i should change. i want to but i don't know how because i don't have any idea what is it. i can't talk to her because she doesn't want to talk to me. what i am feeling right is very painful because she's the only best friend i had, yes i have many friends but she's different from the others. please help me with problem, i don't know what to do.
2007-11-06 01:51:06 · 7 answers · asked by cetcabs_2oo6 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honesty you guyz need to talk and don't talk no for an answer. be like these problems are really hurting because you are my best friend i we really need to talk. Tell her if i don;t know what;s wrong then how can i fix it? how can i change if i don;t know what there is to change? If she still won't talk to you then how can you call her your best friend? Best friends are always able to communicate and talk and if she wants to change who you are for the worse and not the better then your better off without her. I know this can hurt because best friends are hard to find but this was proberly not the friend she was in the begining. Try getting close to some of your other friends and talk to them to.
Best of luck in your troubles.=)
2007-11-06 02:17:01 · answer #1 · answered by me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write an E-mail to her. Tell her how much she means to you and how you want to work it out, but you need to know what the problem is. Tell her you're willing to try, but you can't change without her help. That you need a best friend to help you through the tough times.
However, be cautious. A true best friend doesn't try to "change" you. If the changes are subtle, that's one thing. If she wants you to be a whole different person......well then this isn't a good friend and maybe you should find others.
2007-11-06 01:56:27 · answer #2 · answered by jtbrick1208 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write a note or letter, asking her what's going on and why she's mad at you. You're never going to find out unless you ask.
HOWEVER, true friends don't try to change their other friends. They love them just the way they are and will always be there for them. The girl mad at you doesn't sound like a very good friend if she's trying to make you change, and doesn't even give a good reason why.
Good luck :D Choose your friends wisely.
2007-11-06 02:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by Smileyy :D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you shouldn't have to change who you are, EVER. If she won't tell you what you supposedly did wrong, then she's the one with the problem. She's obviously not the great friend you thought. I suggest you move on and make a new best friend, someone who likes you just the way you are. Good luck sweetie. :o)
2007-11-06 01:56:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fully common. I uncover it so tricky many times seeing that earlier than you understand it an additional day is up. I simply disregard many times seeing that i look to be lovely busy at all times and feature such a lot of matters on my brain. Dont suppose dangerous, possibly write it down someplace to name this individual, and whilst you get a spare second, simply name them. Also they havent stricken to preserve intouch with you, or provide you a choice, so they have most of the time forgotten too! Happy days!
2016-09-05 11:53:51 · answer #5 · answered by caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her what type of changing that she means. If she still doesn't want to talk to you than that is not your problem. maybe she is the one that have to change.
2007-11-06 02:12:27 · answer #6 · answered by LadyAnis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does she think you should change? if it's just so you can be like her, forget it and find a new friend.
2007-11-06 01:54:45 · answer #7 · answered by racer 51 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋