wat can i do to ake my b.f com back to me? i still love him and we are having a baby. am 22 weeks pregnant. he left a month ago. i begged him, i forced him, i threaten him. now i dont know any more. how can i win him back? is it cuz am pregnant and makes me look fat and uglier? wat do i do? i really need him, baby needs him too. he doesnt even ask how baby is doing. please give me suggestion to win him back
2007-11-06 01:56:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sounds like a prat, you deserve a better man!! and so does your child!!
2007-11-06 02:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by kit 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, begging and threatening? How would it help you and the baby to "force" him to come back. And considering yourself "fat and ugly" is not too constructive for your peace of mind, so I'd dump that attitude, as well as any desire to see him again. Focus on getting your act together, without him, and figure out what you're going to do once the baby arrives, and don't even consider winning him back since he's clearly no prize. How old are you anyway?
2007-11-06 10:09:58 · answer #2 · answered by GEEGEE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As kit said, the guy sounds like a prat. Neither you nor your baby deserve him, so stop trying to fight for him. You can however demand me pay child support when the baby is born. That should teach him a lesson and perhaps make it sink in that he is gonna be a dad. Good luck and congratulations x
2007-11-06 10:02:49 · answer #3 · answered by Notts Bubbles :) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
concentrate on your new baby and doing the very best for him/her - if your pregnancy shape is the reason he left then he is a shallow good for nothing- preganant women are beautiful- he is obviously selfish and is more wrapped up in himself than caringfor you and your baby- - - and if he doesnt come back then make sure when your child is born that he contributes- i know you can provide for your child yourself but at least the financial donation will make him take some responsibility -
2007-11-06 10:09:18 · answer #4 · answered by maz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear KEISHA:
I've been where you are and YES...it hurts!
However, move on with your life and be the best parent YOU can be for your child.
Trying to force the absent-parent back into your life will not work.
My son is now grown and self-sufficient.
His dad walked out on us when he was a baby.
On top of that, his dad is constantly trying to make up for everything he did not do for our son when he was younger.
It's funny to me.
Serves him well
At this point, we are the best of friends and although I do not brow-beat him about the way he dissed us years ago, karma is an unrelenting b!tch.
He is married to a common shrew, stuck, and is unhappy as hell; it makes me grin all down in my butt!
-THE MIDDLEFINGER
2007-11-06 10:07:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about this situation but threatening him won't make him come back.Give him time, if he wants to come back, he will. If he doesn't care about the baby he's no man who's good for you anyway.
2007-11-06 10:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by jennifer484 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it may not be the answer your looking for, but with the lack of interest he showing to you and the baby it sounds like the pair of you will be better off without him.
2007-11-06 10:00:47 · answer #7 · answered by adsl_uk2000 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Forget him he must be a loser to leave while your pregnant with his child. Get with your friends and family for support. He'll regret it later!!
2007-11-06 10:02:10 · answer #8 · answered by me2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
give him time dont keep on at him this could make him run a mile and please dont think your fat cos your pregnant pregnant women look lovely
2007-11-06 10:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by shaza 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an ars* hole to me - why do you want him?
2007-11-06 10:04:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋