Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

i've noticed for a while now that guys always run the opposite direction when it comes to me. am on the bus and if i look in his direction he would turn his face away even though am not watching him. they don't even sit next to me! am not an ugly girl...am freakin hot! but is it jus in my head or could there be something wrong with me that i am not aware of?

2007-10-19 04:57:08 · 8 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Singles & Dating

any ideas?

2007-10-19 04:55:15 · 16 answers · asked by S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

she keeps yelling at me.....i ignore her and do whatever she tells me to do. what can i do that helps me keep my mind off these things. (muslims may answer too, i believe that all the islamic answers may help)

2007-10-19 04:54:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I flicked my hair when I walked past this guy who is 4 years older than me in school to try and get his attention because I have a huge crush on him and he just stared at me for about 5 seconds like he was thinking about something and then he said "do your tie up a bit there a bit there"(I wear a school uniform with a tie so he was suggesting it wasn't done up properly) and he did my tie up for me.
I don't know him that well but do you think he likes me?
Why else would he do my tie up for me???

2007-10-19 04:53:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well about this friend of mine at school. I really like her. We've been studying together for 3rd year now. We're pretty good friends I could say. So, lately I feel kinda closer to her, and these last few days we've been hanging a lot more together, talking some random stuff on classes etc and just smiling alot.
She never had a bf, neither I had a gf. But, don't know if i should ask her out, if she says no, would that ruin our friendship?
Oh, we're both 16 btw. And yes i'm kinda shy :/

2007-10-19 04:53:24 · 4 answers · asked by Martin J 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright guys the wedding is just three weeks away so it's going to be a question an hour from me! I really need to get my ringbearer a gift but I'm totally clueless on an idea. He's eight so the teddy bear type items don't work. I don't want to spend more than $15-20. Any ideas on a cute gift that he'll actually like but is still appropriate as a ring bearer gift?

2007-10-19 04:53:02 · 5 answers · asked by Mary D 2 in Weddings

I'm on my tenth day of taking antidepressants now (zoloft) and I'm even more anxious then before I started taking them, what gives?

2007-10-19 04:52:24 · 10 answers · asked by jeremy_scherr531 1 in Family

what can i do to just shake it off? i feel i don`t know how to handle it. one of them said that i don`t belong there and they like me the least

2007-10-19 04:51:59 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The other day one of my sisters guy friends was over and I didn't know. I came out the bathroom in only a towel. He snuck up and yanked it off me. He then chased me around a bit before I got away. I feel he was just playing around but I still feel a little violated. He has apolgized and said it is all in fun.

2007-10-19 04:51:13 · 14 answers · asked by Special K 1 in Friends

Two part question. Is it ok for a wife to buy sexy underwear but not wear them around her husband or even let him know that she has them? Also, if a wife was having problems with orgasm with husband and tried on her own and was successful, is it ok for her not to let the husband know that she was successful in having an orgasm by herself. The husband did not find out until about 7 years later. Mature answers appreciated.

2007-10-19 04:51:11 · 30 answers · asked by M&F 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the thing - my friend is getting married next year and I am 1 of her bridesmaids. Myself and my partner have recently starting trying to conceive, should I tell her? I dont see why it would be a problem if I got pregant but would you want to be told?

2007-10-19 04:49:46 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we have a week what we don`t have sex so want try something new!!!

2007-10-19 04:48:59 · 14 answers · asked by zorycar16 1 in Marriage & Divorce

There's this mysterious guy which I've found intriguing. He even remembers my name the next day after having lunch on the same table with him. He would ask questions about me, and everytime we see each other in hallways we would greet. But he'll notice me from afar and keep looking until an eye contact is established.. im not sure if it meant something.. but its almost like he wanted me to notice. he also added me in facebook. im not sure if hes just trying to be friendly or is interested in me... no guys ever show their affection to me before... and im extremely flattered. him and my other female friend went to the same church before but they never greet each other in school.. and she's one of those perfect girls that guys desire... and i dont think i am. He have not talk to me in facebook yet... its been a few days now.. I wrote him a wall saying something like "O, you gave me the wrong direction to so and so thanks for the add haha" no reply still :(

2007-10-19 04:48:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy that i'm seeing friend called me a B****, I heard him when he said it .He was on the phone talking to him, when he got off the phone I asked him why did he call me that and that i did not appreciate it. I told him tell your friend don't call me that. He gone say will he didi'nt mean it like that, I say that to his girlfriend to. I told him I don't care what you call her tell your friend not to call me that. He got really mad at me and told me if your going to be mad about it leave me the hell alone, you can leave. I thought that he would have said that ok i'll tell him not to call you that, or i'm sorry. He was really upset with me because i was mad about it. Is he wrong for that or I'm i over reacting

2007-10-19 04:45:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

At 43 I thought I finally found the perfect woman for me. She is the same age as myself, had never been married, no children, common interests, and absolutely beautiful. Come to find out she was simply having an affair with me. At least thats my thought. She told me up front that she was living with her boyfriend for 3 years at that time, yet was not in love with him, and knew she never would be. Said she wanted to change the direction in her life. After countless conversations, intimacy was a big part of our lives. We were both searching for closeness, affection, and ultimately love. I thought I found it with her, so I asked her to marry me after one year of dating. She declined. I was devistated. And after two more years, I still am. There is nothing more I wanted then to love this woman and begin a family with her. I opted to wait awhile, but I know it will never happen at this point. Have I done wrong in my life? Should I still seek the "perfect woman"? Or am I doomed or crazy?

2007-10-19 04:43:12 · 12 answers · asked by spoc65 1 in Singles & Dating

I pay for medical insurance for my kids and child support. should the money from child support pay for dental work?

2007-10-19 04:42:43 · 19 answers · asked by d b 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 27, he's 26 but he act immature like he's 16. Married 3 years should I play the I don't role when he get in his negative attitudes?

2007-10-19 04:42:05 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend?She is one of the most down to earth ppI i know. She will make you laugh and cry well mostly laugh. She is Italian, Irish, El Salvodorain. She looks more Hispanic than any thing. Loooong brown curly hair w/ tint red in it. She has hazel brown eyes,olive skin, beauty mark under her right eye, her eyes are so amazing. I mean her personality is like wow. She is the type of person u want to make ur best friend. Caring,2caring,she is all about old skool. listens to doo wop all the way to the 2000's. She loves musicals(phantom of the opera.)She loves old movies that are& arent classic and walt disney movies.fav drink cranberry w/ rum. loves 2 party. Out going always wants 2 do something big. She belives that there is this type of love u only get once in a life time; were u cant breathe when ur not around them, &u want 2cry when they let go of u, lookin in2 thier eyes they take away pain, rain or shine they put a smile on ur face, dont judge u, imporatntly they fell the same way...

2007-10-19 04:39:57 · 24 answers · asked by dalizp 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going to a speed dating event this weekend and was wondering if anyone has any tips or experiences with this.

2007-10-19 04:38:55 · 18 answers · asked by Danielle 7 in Singles & Dating

My husband left me for another girl, who is also married . We've been through a lot before he and I got married, because everyone is against us. He was separated with two daughters, that is why. He told me that he doesn't love me anymore and I can't seem to find the reason why? After all that we've been through, then he'll tell me doesn't love me? It's really hard specially my 3 year old son is always looking for him. And my 1 year old daughter won't even know him. I still love him, and I still hope and pray that we'll still be together. And I know for myself that I can forgive and accept all the things that he has done, that's how I love him.

2007-10-19 04:38:47 · 41 answers · asked by revengemama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can say anything to my dad and get away with it but my mum would have a fit if i did any thing like that.

2007-10-19 04:37:35 · 5 answers · asked by hippy1975chick 5 in Family

I have a really good male friend who has been nothing but respectful, kind, and he kind of took me in at a time when no one seemed to care. I ended up moving to France to teach and we talk everyday. I think at some point i kind of fell in love...i told him one time that i cared a lot for him and that i loved him...i wasnt sure if it was just a friendly love or more. He ended up telling me he had feelings for me. So we kinda started a long distance thing. Weve both been through a lot and this morning i was kinda thinking about the past...i told him i didnt know how to get over my divorce...not bc i love my ex anymore but just bc i now have no self esteem, he took away my creativity with his abuse, etc....he was really nice and tried to help but then seemed to just get fed up and he said can i just talk to you later. Why did he hang up the phone? Without even saying bye. What do i do now?

2007-10-19 04:36:29 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean it's often that good guy didn't get what they deserve.but bad guys does.
example like bad guys always get the girls,they always get more respect from people.
it seems to me that there is no more room for good guys..

2007-10-19 04:35:32 · 6 answers · asked by Salman 1 in Singles & Dating

i call and text him allot even if he doesnt reply
i get jelous sometimes
i accuse him of things
i always try tag along with his friends
i chase after him
i know this needs to stop but i think i may be too late as ive gone too far how can i put it right

2007-10-19 04:34:52 · 72 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the situation...My boyfriend and I have been together for about 9 months now. We live together. We love eachother very much. I know I've never felt like this toward anyone ever before. I feel like I need him and I would die without him, and he says he feels the same way. The problem is that we are both VERY hard-headed and we both always have to be right. And neither of us like to be told what to do. This causes many fights. Almost daily!! I am usually the one to give in, and apologize even when I didn't do anything wrong...just to get him to pull the stick out. Every fight ends up being huge...like we are ready to end our relationship. The hard part is that when we aren't fighting, it's pure bliss. I've never been happier with anyone. And he is a great dad to my daughter, who lost her biological father years ago. Does anyone have any advice on how to make getting along easier? I absolutely want to make this work with him, because I love him more than life itself.

2007-10-19 04:33:52 · 7 answers · asked by Nicole G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my partner have been together for 2 & a half years now , but weve been through alot and hes been through alot with me (I have mental health issues and am on prozac which is difficult for him and we also decided on an abortion together with the knowledge his and my family knew and agreed on) but now we can barely have a conversation and he will sit an play on his mobile and only come up to when he wants something eg sex..... so Ive taken a break from him for a couple of weeks and even tryed to talk to him as a friend and didnt work. We are so good together and always have a laugh and joke but things are getting to much for him and me so thats the reason for the break... right now I broke down to my mom how I missed my son and how he was going to be in the next 2 weeks so she comforted me & said she also thinks about having a grandchild around the house...but then she said very truthfully that she could see and my partner getting married and having a child and him being a good dad

2007-10-19 04:33:27 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my man dosn't have a great income and so struggles to make ends meet, he sometimes asks me for a loan of cash as he is short, i dont mind if i get it back but i dont always see it again , also when he comes down to my house he helps hiself to food and toiletries he thinks if he pays his bus fare to come and see me then he shouldn't have pay for much else, i have a kid to feed he dont, am i being selfish?

2007-10-19 04:32:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 04:32:29 · 26 answers · asked by suzan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

For seven years I toughed it out. I wanted the best for our baby so I moved in with him. He never asked me to marry him so I had to decide whether I should leave or ask him to marry me... We got married in 2005 and everything went smoothly. I figured if we bought a house, I'd be happy.. We bought the house but still something was missing. So I figured maybe we should have more children. We tried for the past year and a half. .. A few months ago we got pregnant but I miscarried around the 8th week. That was such a difficult time. Things are ok right now. I love him still, he's my best friend.. but I'm unhappy. I don't think I want to be married anymore. I'm not the same person I used to be. I had to make a lot of sacrifices and plenty of compromises to make our lives together work. He doesn't know anything's wrong. But I've been crying a lot. If I stay I'll remain miserable. but if I leave, I'll be breaking up our family. I don't want to make life hard for our 6 yr old

2007-10-19 04:30:56 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 04:30:46 · 16 answers · asked by SOPHIA L 1 in Marriage & Divorce