i've noticed for a while now that guys always run the opposite direction when it comes to me. am on the bus and if i look in his direction he would turn his face away even though am not watching him. they don't even sit next to me! am not an ugly girl...am freakin hot! but is it jus in my head or could there be something wrong with me that i am not aware of?
2007-10-19 04:57:08 · 8 answers · asked by <3*tinkerbell<3* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the 'burdens' of being hot is that people are intimidated by you.
2007-10-19 05:01:20 · answer #1 · answered by ZCT 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about next time you walk into a room, or into the bus, you stop and pick out the guy you want to sit next to and shower him with your cool, hot self for the ride? I think you'll find out there is no problem at all.
2007-10-19 06:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Estrella E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely it is because they feel like you are to hot to approach.Do you smile at them?Or just look there way.Smiling can cut the ice.
If I were you.The next time you see someone you are attracted to.Approach them.Guys like to be chased to.
I could tell you now.If I noticed you were looking at me and you were hot.Especially if you smiled.I would ask you out.
Keep your confidence.If you are around fort wayne.Let me know what bus you ride.Lol.
Good luck
2007-10-19 05:50:45 · answer #3 · answered by kenneth h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really need to stop worrying so much about this. you are looking for that, thinking that people aren't walking near you, crossing the street, not sitting next to you on the bus, etc. it's not you. you have no idea why people do that things they do, don't worry.
and if you are worried it could just be because alot of men are intimidated by beautiful girls.
just relax and not worry so much.
2007-10-19 05:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by baby_sunshine_4eva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ZCT is right, sometimes by being too attractive you scare people off.
Try down dressing yourself next time you go out, no make-up or something along that line, & see what happens.
& If people are shy, try talking to them first, they may be surprised to see that you have a pleasent personality along with your looks.
2007-10-19 05:08:22 · answer #5 · answered by Diamond24 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to ask other hot babes such as yourself to see if there be a common thread. In my opinion, the boys or sold called men have become feminized over the years and they think that you’ll have more respect for them if they give you space or some other liberal dribble.
2007-10-19 05:06:17 · answer #6 · answered by TicToc.... 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi...you can be beautiful but maybe some guy doesnt find you attractive. Every guy has his own specific thing he finds attractive in a girl. Some guys like girls who are skinny, some like thick some like light skinned and some like girls who are dark or girls who wear makeup. Some guys can find you pretty but wont look at you because they have someone or they don't want to look at you alot because they have an ego. Maybe you lack self esteem...girls do that alot we are pretty but if a guy doesnt look at us we think first "oh man maybe i dont look good". i hope that helps you a little...xoxoxoxoxoxo
2007-10-19 05:12:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
speaking from a guy's vantage point, if you're really that attractive (and I don't doubt that you are), guys are probably intimidated by you. Nobody likes rejection, so rather than face possible rejection, they go the other way. I'm sure there is nothing wrong with you.
2007-10-19 05:02:42 · answer #8 · answered by tigrompy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋