How can i get over the fact that my family doesn`t love me?

Question

what can i do to just shake it off? i feel i don`t know how to handle it. one of them said that i don`t belong there and they like me the least

Answer 1

One of them isn't all of them. And you know what, everybody says something hurtful to family members now and again. It's because you take your family for granted sometimes without realizing it. They're always there. Sometimes you have a bad day and you say something you don't mean. Your family loves you, they may just have a hard time showing it. You should talk to the family member in question about it.

Answer 2

I don't know what happen why you are feeling this way, but I do know your family loves you, you can not like someone but you still love them. You might want to talk to the one that said, she don't like you, and try to work through it. You can't get over something that's not true. Talk with which ever member you feel this with, and just try and see if you all can't solve the problem. If it helps any.. I love you and your family do too...BIG HUGS TO YOU.

Answer 3

Oo that was mean to say. :-( Well does all of them feel that way? Be the best person and family member you know how to be. And ignore what only one person says. People needs to learn not to worry about what other people thinks or says about them(including me). Sometimes I think my parents doesn't like me as much as they did when I was younger. They aren't around me as much and don't talk to me as much. But I got to ignore the feeling and be glad that they do love me though. Hope you take the same advice. Hope that helps. Best Wishes. :-)

Answer 4

I know ecactly how you feel Im told everyday how much my family hates me and Im only 15 theres just no shaking it off for me do the things you like and have fun woth life they don have to accept you remember "be hated for who you are not loved for who your not"-Alucard Kohatu

Answer 5

Im really sorry to read that. I dont think its possible to shake it off. My father left when i was 4 months old and I hate him but it hurts like hell to know he doesnt care about me either. I hope that something will change in your family, its sad when stuff like that happens. Good Luck with it

Answer 6

is it just one of them? or did everyone in your family made you feel that way?

i feel that sometimes, but most of the time, I KNOW how much each of them cares....i did something once that proved it...
my sister told me something like that once, and i guess she was angry that time...besides, when i came home very late, and my school being near the place where a lot of girls were raped, my mom scolded me so much she cried afterwards...my sister too...(i didn't mean to)

if everyone made you feel that way...DON't be down, just act like you don't care no matter how hurt you are...everything leads to one purpose in a person's life...wait for that day....

>>>don't listen to me if what i answered is beyond the point your implying, or if it's not the answer you expect.... listen to yourself...i know you know what to do... ; )
did this for the points...hehehe....JOKE!!!

Answer 7

I wouldnt take it personal really because they do love you they just have a weird way of showing it that is why they are called family

Answer 8

I don't know what to say must really suck I lnow what it's like in a way not much like your but I'm adopted all I can say is to you is try talking to them the best you can. Goof luck.