This guy that i'm seeing friend called me a B****, I heard him when he said it .He was on the phone talking to him, when he got off the phone I asked him why did he call me that and that i did not appreciate it. I told him tell your friend don't call me that. He gone say will he didi'nt mean it like that, I say that to his girlfriend to. I told him I don't care what you call her tell your friend not to call me that. He got really mad at me and told me if your going to be mad about it leave me the hell alone, you can leave. I thought that he would have said that ok i'll tell him not to call you that, or i'm sorry. He was really upset with me because i was mad about it. Is he wrong for that or I'm i over reacting
2007-10-19 04:45:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's wrong, and you need a new BF.
2007-10-19 04:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By your boyfriend showing that he does not care what his friends say about you, he is also showing that he doesn't care about you in general. He doesn't respect you. Or else he would have stood up to you. My boyfriend not only told his friend to shut the hell up when he said some comment like that but also told all of his best friends to stop using 'gross' language when I was in the car because 'she doesn't want to hear it and it's my job to stand up to you guys for her' That's how a real boyfriend should act. You need to reconsider what you got yourself into and maybe you should move on and get something better for yourself!
2007-10-19 04:52:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never ok to call a girl a b****. Kidding or not. If you were to go along with it, what are you going to get called the next time? I think it's good that you put your foot down. If your guy won't stand up for you, even if it was a joke, then he's not worth it.
2007-10-19 04:54:38 · answer #3 · answered by regina falange 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that's how he talks about women, and thinks its ok, that just shows what he thinks of women---then his reaction? He's a loser. I'd tell him to go on a date with his friend, because I'm gone....and it isn't because the friend called you a B----, it's because he should be sticking up for you.
2007-10-19 04:54:32 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are right he disrespected you and if he told you to leave then do it. respect yourself no man should tell you to leave. That is wrong and no one should ever call you a ***** you did not over react and what you did is okay. You should leave.
2007-10-19 04:50:23 · answer #5 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel disrespected, and then he gets mad because you're not ok with being disrespected, then do yourself a solid....and leave him the hell alone just like he said... is the guy your friend? Because I only allow my friends to call me a ***** and get away with it...
2007-10-19 04:53:35 · answer #6 · answered by Believe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hes putting up with his friends calling you names then he doesn't love/like you. Hes either hanging aroud with you to be seen or some other reason.
you should think about it over the next few days and decide whether to leave him or tell him off.
good luck
2007-10-19 04:54:00 · answer #7 · answered by Sean 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad. You feel it is a derogatory term that is being used to describe you and if you don't want to be called that, they I think they shouldn't call you that (even though they will when they are sure you can't hear).
My ex-boyfriend's friend called me a very offensive term one night when we were out - my ex didn't say a word - I did - I was very upset. Please note: He is my EX boyfriend....
2007-10-19 04:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by IJToomer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not wrong. He should have respect for you and not let that happen. I would get rid of that loser and find someone that would respect you and treat you like a lady needs to be treated. Stand your ground and make him treat you like you deserve if he wont leave his ***
2007-10-19 04:49:53 · answer #9 · answered by jenniferk5683 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I'm on YOUR side in this....
Its a difference when WE call our GIRLFRIENDS ***** but as far as another DUDE calling you that???? Oh HELL NO he has cross the line & as for your man not having your back also mean you need to leave his *** cause he sint showin R-E-S-P-E-C-T!!!!
2007-10-19 04:54:05 · answer #10 · answered by Ms A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is saying that he didn't mean it that way then maybe he didn't... take his word for it there is no need to cause a fight over it. You have already expressed how you felt and he should dknow that it hurt your feelings... if he is smart he will take that hint and probably wont do it again. But I wouldn't bring it up again unless it happens again...
2007-10-19 04:49:09 · answer #11 · answered by brina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋