Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

If you have to get 50 different opinions my guess is he's not breaking down the door to be with you.

2007-10-19 08:33:09 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How old were you when you started wearing thongs?

I'm 13 and my mom thinks I'm way to young. And my brother says I'm a Sl*t.
I don't see the issue wiht it.
Its just another kind of underwear.

2007-10-19 08:31:43 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Cassie Wassie♥ 2 in Friends

I am going to be the Godfather. If you think money is appropriate, how much?

2007-10-19 08:31:13 · 3 answers · asked by joe 2 in Family

so to my previous question posted...i didnt know what to do..ive decided to keep the baby...im 16 years old, and the boyfriend and i just broke up today. the whole times hes treated me like **** because i have decided to keep it...he wanted an abortion and it would of been done today. i couldnt do it and hes known that from day one..but i had scheduled it anyways...i kept the baby and now....things r worse then ever. im single..16..and pregnant. how do i deal with this, how can i manage to not cry, how can i keep my head up. will i ever get another boyfriend to show me affection. im not immature so please dont judge by my age im very mature for my age. i am young but my lifes already changed before even this. ive always felt like i needed masculine affection, growing up with no father. do guys get involved with girls who r pregnant/have a child?...let alone be as young as i am? i believe ive made the right decisiion but the outcome of everything...is making me 2nd guess myself plz help

2007-10-19 08:31:06 · 56 answers · asked by o0neek0o14 1 in Singles & Dating

I went on a first date with this guy. He is 6'4" and I'm 5'1". Do you think this is too crazy? Like would it be weird to see us walking down the street together?

Has anyone else had a similar experience? (a huge height difference?)

2007-10-19 08:29:30 · 35 answers · asked by lovslinky 2 in Singles & Dating

(Well I turn 16 in 2 months. And the guy is 20. ) Tell me your opinion on this

2007-10-19 08:28:50 · 99 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 25 and I find only if I am super turned on will my body remotly let me get that far?? Ladys or knowledgable guys...is anyone in that boat with me?? Also are there solutions, remedies....anything what so ever? I am slightly self conscious about my body but I love to experiment and be abit of an exhibitionist.

I would love your feedback

2007-10-19 08:28:08 · 7 answers · asked by river_runner 1 in Singles & Dating

my male friend is an old friend from highschool, but he dated my best friend back then. though some crazy series of events my friend found him 4 yrs later and they dated. when the broke up he moved in with me, my BF and his friend. i have felt the tension brewing, but didn't think there was a chance. he was drunk the other night and talked with me about the possibility of starting a relationship together, saying it was my choice to leave my boyfriend. i said a few things then asked what waas going through is mind, he said he needed some time to think.
i waited two days and then texted him asking him if he had thought about it. he texted back "i am working on it. ill let you know when i am ready" later that night we were texting and i asked if he really meant what he was saying that night, he said he was really hammered and dosen't remember exactly what was said.
should i stop pursuing him? he is a great guy and extremly intelligent. how do i get him to be honest?

2007-10-19 08:25:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He lies about everything. Nothing is ever his fault. Even if you see something in his handwritting; he didn't do it. I am at the end. I have never been the type of parent to deny that my kid could do wrong, and

His behavior is starting to cast a shadow on his younger siblings. Since it is a small school, they are starting to think that they are all rotten children. In a private school, they will only put up with so much before you are asked to leave.

Not even two months into a new school and he has already turned everyone in his class against him. Very manipulative, even had the principal fooled.

Unfortunately, dad is not in the picture and doesn't want to be anytime soon. Tried the public schools, he had them convinced that he was abused at home. After an investigation, they found nothing.

Had to go to family counseling, that was a waste of my money. Therapist to him to grow up and take responsibility for his actions.

I don't know how much more I can take.

2007-10-19 08:25:05 · 8 answers · asked by zibby97 2 in Family

Ok so a girl breaks up with their bf because the relationship gets stagnant and boring for them. However, this bf was a great guy to them, might even have been the most attractive guy they had ever been with, and really enjoyed being with them for a while. So they break up with him because she feels it's not fair to each other. The bf is unconditionally in love with her and he has told her that he cares for her no matter what just the way she is. He treats her with the respect and dignity that all girls want. However it's obvious this relationship became stale because he was TOO nice all the time and didn't keep the flame burning by doing this and didn't keep her guessing and interested. My question is: how often do these women who go through this end up regreting letting them go later because they realize what they had was something great? And how long did it take and what made them come to realize this?

2007-10-19 08:21:36 · 13 answers · asked by FutureFederer 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend who finds it very easy to charm women online. They just love him and frequently would get together with him in person. However, I went out to a bar with him a couple of times and he was far less successful. Why do you think that is?

2007-10-19 08:21:07 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was walking down the street yesterday and saw this smoking blonde who i went up to. she was 19. anyhow i whistled and with no warning all i saw was her right hand flash out to the side. 1 second later *slap* and i'm holding the left side of my face!!!!!! i never thought that crap would work on me!!!!!! i was sure i'd be able to duck or something, but i can't. too fast. ladies, if you ever had to do that, does it usually work on guys? ouch!!!

2007-10-19 08:20:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to date

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2007-10-19 08:15:52 · 10 answers · asked by triston b 2 in Singles & Dating

Say that you sit next to someone in a certain class. You don't really know this person, but they seem to be pretty nice whenever you talk to them. Would it be too awkward to ask this person out?

2007-10-19 08:15:07 · 33 answers · asked by calilove1922 1 in Singles & Dating

I just recently met a beautiful girl on Match.com, and we set-up a date. The date went absolutely amazing, and we of course made plans for this coming week. I just received an email, but haven't responded yet from her saying that her sister is in town for the weekend, and she wanted to know if I want to go out with drinks for them. I really want to go, but I don't know, because I am worried about the sister, Should I tell her I have plans and just go on the date this coming week or do I go out with them tomorrow night?

2007-10-19 08:11:21 · 26 answers · asked by Jennaba9048 1 in Singles & Dating

I just asked another question on Yahoo Answers & based on the answers it looks like everyone thinks that ALL single mothers BASH their childrens father(s) ~Well, I'm not one of thoses types. I never have been & never will be, that is their FATHER & even though I don't agree on how he has handled parenting I will never make my kids feel bad about who he is or who they are (his children) It's up to them to decide how they feel about him with out me planting any ideas. So who are these mothers? I want to thank them for giving all single mothers a bad name.

2007-10-19 08:08:40 · 15 answers · asked by justaskme 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend that wants to get divorce. She is wondering how long it will take until she is free from her husband? It is a divorce that both of them agree with. No assets to split or anything,,, You know?

2007-10-19 08:04:47 · 9 answers · asked by :) 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Also, we have a 2 year old daughter...

2007-10-19 08:03:48 · 9 answers · asked by smlindse 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the signs for a girl to love me? i mean what are the signs she could love me?

2007-10-19 07:56:31 · 3 answers · asked by chicago cub's bat bunny 5 in Singles & Dating

I was at work today & my bra was too lose & it was bothering me so I decided to move the strap in the back to make it smaller. Well I was at my desk doing this and it didn't go smoothly. I was struggling to get it attached back on the hooks. So I am sitting here with it undone and it keeps moving up & I'm placing my hands around me to keep it down till the cost is clear. We are one man down so I didn't want to go in the bathroom cause the other woman was on the phone. So I looked & thought the cost was clear (still not sure) and I had to lift my shirt up on one said to get the strap in my hand. Well I was trying to do this and I couldn't get it. So less then a minute later I look over, in the hallway is the doctor I work with looking this way. I have no idea if he saw my little charade. So I finally said that's it and went into the bathroom & fixed it.

So embarassed but maybe he was just checking the time or if he had another patient.

Sounds like a good Seinfeld episode

2007-10-19 07:54:59 · 7 answers · asked by Brownie12866 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay I feel terrible. I went to a friends house and forgot to call my mom is was 9:00 and she had to go to work at 4:00 AM the next day. This was yesterday and Ive cleaned the house (one level) made muffins and tea for when she comes home but it doesnt feel liek enough. She was really worried about me any ideas what I can do well shes working for the next hour to show her I'm sorry?

2007-10-19 07:54:47 · 7 answers · asked by Rachel B 2 in Family

2007-10-19 07:47:34 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am man and I wouldn't want to be a women. my reasons are because men are more physically able to do a lot of things. Especially playing football, basketball, soccer etc. I mean girls do play these sports, "except football," but it’s not that exciting. Another is the pain that women have to go through when having a baby. That’s just ridicules. Last, when getting up in the morning they have to make sure they put their makeup on, fix their hair, and do their nails. For us men’s, we could just get up take a shower and go to places. But these are my reasons. What’s yours?

2007-10-19 07:46:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my mother with all my heart. She has brought up us kids with good morals. Parents do make their own mistakes. I know I am a parent and I have learned what not to do with my daughter. My mother is very negitive. She has always favored my sister because my mother use to tell me all the time while growing up that I was a mistake and that I was not suppose to happen. All my life even till now she always says that I have never been smart enough and that I am stupid. I have told her couple of times but she continues. I am about ready to cut her out of my life once and for all. The last time she called me stupid was on my birthday because of her dying friend who has brain cancer wanted to give me a purse but I was told never to take out anything. I mean come on..It's a purse! I have been trying so hard to have confidence and self esteem.My mother says I need to lose weight and maybe if I do I will get a man. NO matter what I say or do I can never do anything right. HELP! I am 45 & tire

2007-10-19 07:45:18 · 24 answers · asked by conny 6 in Family

2007-10-19 07:43:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so this guy is a book fanatic like me and we get along so will when i go to get a book where he works but i dont know if he likes me he is teasing annoying but he knows i like him and i think he enjoys my compeny but i want more then to meet him at the store please give me your best ideas thanx:)

2007-10-19 07:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm just sayin that the boys in my class say horrible things to me and just make fun out of me about the same thing all the time and i was wondering why boys do that constantly. does that mkae sense?

2007-10-19 07:36:11 · 8 answers · asked by g 3 in Singles & Dating

My old boyfriend found me and has expressed that he still loves me... 10years later! I still care about him but, so much has changed between us and things ended really badly between us. We faught all the time and things even got physical (on both our parts). He says that he has changed and claims that he wants to try again. Like I said I still have feelings for him but, I don't know if I should take the chance. Any suggestions? Advice?

2007-10-19 07:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by KMB 1 in Singles & Dating

This money hungry woman wont leave the house, she never had to work and now is saying since they are divorcing (not final yet) she cant take care of herself and doesnt thik she should pay for her cell, ins, gas, etc... she has a lawyer and he tells her she can stay in the house but he wants her out, it's her own fault she cant take care of herself, he has custody of their daughter and his son from another marriage... any suggestions to get her out legally??

2007-10-19 07:34:31 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I personally am a plus sized 18 and I decided on a halter dress for my wedding dress...well I've seen far too many Brides 22+ lately wearing strapless gowns and looking all insecure in their photos...why do it? And then they're worried their boobs are going to pop out when they dance. Aren't you suppose to be classy that day? I'm all for saying a Plus sized Bride CAN look as good as a smaller Bride But respect yourself...Sorry--My pet peeve of that day! I think being a bigger girl I CAN say this! LOL!

2007-10-19 07:34:03 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings