My old boyfriend found me and has expressed that he still loves me... 10years later! I still care about him but, so much has changed between us and things ended really badly between us. We faught all the time and things even got physical (on both our parts). He says that he has changed and claims that he wants to try again. Like I said I still have feelings for him but, I don't know if I should take the chance. Any suggestions? Advice?
2007-10-19 07:34:54 · 6 answers · asked by KMB 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would be sure that he is in it for all the right reasons. The best thing i can suggest is to talk to him in detail about it. If he expresses that he doesnt want to talk about the past i would be a little worried because we learn from our past and if he is just avoiding it he hasnt learned. I would see what he really wants out of the relationship too. I understand how hard it can be to talk to someone about matter of the heart especially but if you dont feel comfortable taking to him I would send him an anonomous message using http://hikkup.com , its what my friend did and it ended up that her ex really did want her back and was change but just didnt know how to express this to her in a way she would believe him. I wish you the best of luck and always fallow your heart, it will lead you to happiness. If you need anything dont hesistate to message me on here.
2007-10-19 07:40:45 · answer #1 · answered by stacyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a "classic" situation.. If you still have feelings for him it's ok to share them with him and possibly be just friends and maybe down the line at some point you can start anew. However, in terms of "physical" or a perhaps violent relationship it might be best to talk on occassion and move on.. Some things no matter how hard you want them to just don't change. It's best to leave it alone... good luck
2007-10-19 14:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by pebblespro 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you faught and got physical then it could be a bad idea, just because you care for each other doesnt always mean you can get along with one another, maybe you should go through the reasons to why you care for one another. If you find more reasons for caring for one another than for why you need to get a long and not fight then maybe its worth it, otherwise it might not be
2007-10-19 14:39:47 · answer #3 · answered by E.S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try hanging out with him just as friends for awhile and see how it goes. It may lead somewhere and it may not. You may realize that you don't even like him anymore. Ten years is a very long time to be separated and I'm sure you both have changed.
2007-10-19 14:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by Skelli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch "Legends of the fall"
2007-10-19 14:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Walker L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's my opinion. Run away from him. Leopards DON'T change their spots.
2007-10-19 14:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by thomas m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋