Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

I must say, I dated Western woman and almost married 3 of them, but Asian woman are hands down better quality girlfriends, friends, lovers, partners.

While Western woman are busy trying to be like men in the workplace, portrayed in movies and media, Asian women actually like being women. They like being with men, as opposed to having a man, then trashing him to your g/f like Western women do.

Asian women actually respect themselves and men and don't have to carry signs in the street and join organizations brow-beating everyone who doesn't care to listen to their victimology.

Anyone else think Asian women are better?

2007-10-19 20:44:20 · 6 answers · asked by dumblib2009 1 in Singles & Dating

This person can provide all the material things you desire, but your heart is with someone else. Your family really likes this person and wants nothing to do with the one you really love. Could you learn to love this person and leave your true love? Would you feel comfortable consummating the marriage? Having kids with this person? Divorce is NOT possible in this country.

2007-10-19 20:44:18 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It took a couseler to convince me we should be married after 3 years of dating. I said you know what, you right I should be more comited. We did it, and being married is what i have always wanted. But shes not right for me. Controlling, almost feminist. And just when Ive had enough, very nice and giving. And I forgive, Probably because its the easy way. But we have been fighting sibce our wedding night. Her whole family knows, and I hardly like to visit them because every one know everything. But my family doesnt know a thing and would be a shocker if we were to split up. My family thinks im happy. We have been doing good for a week now, and tonight we had an arguement. In bed she said she cant sleep with me because she might hurt me... whats up with that. We pretty much have role reversale where she makes all the money but I have been on my own and self suficient since 18. I could do it again, but Im worried my family would think im a loser. what should i do?

2007-10-19 20:43:44 · 11 answers · asked by joe C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

is he less interested than he should be? am i more interested than i should be? should i be concerned?

2007-10-19 20:38:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 20:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by anjali 2 in Weddings

I love my wife. We will be married for 12 years this November. I am trying to find ways to make her feel special and show that I love her. Most of the advice that I have read say do little things like help out around the house by cooking dinner, doing laundry every once in a while and pick up (In our house I am the one who normaly does all of this). Give her flowers every now and again. Tell her you love her everyday. Give her a small special gift. Take her out for a long romantic weekend without the kids. I do all of this and more. I bring her coffee to her when she is in bed every morning. I make sure that I give her a big hug and kiss and tell her that I love her every morning, when we get home from work and before we go to bed. I tell her she is beutiful. I need help finding other ways. Do any of you have any ideas?

2007-10-19 20:30:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

should I go for it or make the sacrifice??

2007-10-19 20:27:31 · 2 answers · asked by vetkin// 1 in Singles & Dating

haven't you exepted the fact that she is gone how can i tell my sister she is hurting me by not being very supportive to my feelings without making her mad

2007-10-19 20:23:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Well guys, I just got married a couple of months ago, but my mom is living with us, I mean, we dont have a problem with that, shes out all day at work and stuff, but shes getting divorced, so she is not going back to her house because of my dad.
The problem is that she is always bitchin about the way I keep my house...if this is clean, if this is not, if this looks bad...etc. I love my mom to death and so does my husband, but I dont appreciate her telling me what to do anymore, I dont want to hurt her feeling because I know she is going through a rough time..but Im really tired of that.
How can I tell her to stop messing with the way I keep my house without ofending her??

2007-10-19 20:21:38 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just finnished watching the new hannah montana show,
it was so cute. and then i realized how much i like this guy. ive been crushing on him sense cross country started. I was so into him, and i tlked to him all the time on myspace but both of were to shy to tlk in person, one time i went up to him to tell him good job on. hes younger thsn me almost about a year, hes really tall, and cute. whenevr i tlked to him on myspace he always tlked about how he won, so i would have to compliment him, so i said yea ur a god and before when we first started tlkin i said he was cute and he responded as thanks.. i always see him starring at me but that was before now cross country has ended and ive never seen him since, at the championship he got 1st place of course and but never tlked to me and then finally came up to me and tlked the fair was that wekend and he asked me if i was going tonight meaning awhile ago, i said yes but then he totally ignored me and didnt say hi and we walked by each oth

2007-10-19 20:21:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend's six year old daughter will be serving as a flower girl at her sister's wedding tomorrow. Is this legal? Someone said that she was too old and I am afraid that the wedding will be raided by the State Police. That's the last thing we need!!!

If raided, will the six year old be breaking the law or the couple getting married? Or does the liability fall on the wedding planner? Or perhaps the girl's parents? Please help!!

2007-10-19 20:17:17 · 21 answers · asked by bartmcqueary 3 in Weddings

Any comments?

2007-10-19 20:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by Kaka 3 in Singles & Dating

do you agree or disagree
why
thanks a lot

2007-10-19 20:01:32 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

He is a sweet talker but it was kinda disturbing when I found a picture of John Elway with my head photoshoped onto it.

2007-10-19 19:58:25 · 21 answers · asked by KyleBoiAnswer 1 in Singles & Dating

If you say yes, how many times did you sleep with him before deciding on him?

2007-10-19 19:55:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been in a relationship with my girl for 5 years. She is my soulmate but in those years she has kissed 4 guys that I know of behind my back and confessed she only kissed them. I love her but personally I have not ever cheated on her. I always imagined being with her in marriage but I don't know if it is right. Can you help me disect this situation? what could life be like with her? Am I kidding myself to think that this wont happen again and even, wont be worst and more than just a kiss? Advice please?

2007-10-19 19:53:42 · 33 answers · asked by AspiringLovDoctor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 and never had a girlfriend, not even my first kiss, or been on a date. I just graduated highschool and no girl ever found me attractive in all my years.I am in college now and still no girls find me attractive. I am a nice, kind, caring guy. I am built/athletic got really nice abs. I am pretty good looking. I love pretty much all sports. I am smart always had good grades. I like to have fun doing just about anything. The only thing I can think of is that I am really shy, but for no girl ever be attracted to me ever just because I am shy, so that cant be it. I just dont get why girls dont find me attractive what so ever, I cant understand what is so wrong with me,please help what is wrong with me??????????????????

I am in college and never even been close to a girl ever, I have also had very few friends that were girls, I dont know why but I must just not be cool enough or something I dont know I am just sick of it

2007-10-19 19:51:36 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont like when my sisters hang out with there boyfriends all the time and not with me. i dont trust their boyfriends, i am the youngest of three and i look up at my sisters when i was young. am i jealous or protective????

2007-10-19 19:44:40 · 7 answers · asked by whothiknow 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and the other person likes is continually doing things to cut you inwardly what should that tell you about that person? I can tell the person cares to a degree however it's my opinion that she has had suffered much abuse in previous relationships that she is caring with her. Addicted to drama? Any advice/ input is welcome...

2007-10-19 19:40:24 · 3 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

do u think a nice beautiful smart girl coould ever like a nerd

2007-10-19 19:38:31 · 17 answers · asked by George S 1 in Singles & Dating

a lot of my friends are mormon...
but I hear from, like, everyone that they can't date till they're 16 or something.
true?
false?
just tell me all there is to know about mormon && dating.

thank you

xoxo

2007-10-19 19:27:28 · 15 answers · asked by marie 1 in Friends

If a couple divorce and remain in the same house ,but are living in seprate rooms [no sex] is she expected to do the same chores as she did when they were married.?He drinks until early morning and she stays home and does the cooking and cleaning [her choice].Can you give her some ideas as to what is now expected of her or not.Shes waiting for your new set of rules he and she can live by.He wants her to stay the same yet he goes out .she cant afford to leave but she hates the circumstances.I told her to grow some balls and do nothing for him go out and find a new life. am I right

2007-10-19 19:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by angelbaby1 3 in Marriage & Divorce

He let him come in our house & sit on the couch while we were upstairs getting dressed. He also invited him to go with him to a football game tonight.

My concern is that my husband is being too nice, he has no type of guard up. I think that maybe we should get to know him a little better before we invite him in our house & all that. He could be someone who is scoping out the situation to possibly rob us or even a rapist, who knows.

My husband is always making new friends. I think he is too nice all the time, always giving others the benefit of the doubt before he get's stabbed in the back or something like that.

How should I go about confronting him with my concerns about having a stranger in our home. We have 2 young boys & my 2 nieces live with us as well. We are a young family @ 27 years old, but I still think we have a responsibility as parents & family to make sure our home is as safe as possible. I don't think that inviting strangers in is doing so!
Am I over-reacting?

2007-10-19 19:17:52 · 14 answers · asked by Ballagirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

He ever told me how much money he have. So what can i do.

2007-10-19 19:15:33 · 12 answers · asked by andrianna Angel 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

or temptation is to high very weak can't control themselves. What do you think? Cheating = no love at all?

2007-10-19 19:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 19:07:41 · 19 answers · asked by Lady B 4 in Singles & Dating

Help im meeting this girl tonite for the first time and i just want her to love me help

2007-10-19 19:01:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Wasn't sure if the rough and tough look is appealing or maybe just a lil too scruffy

2007-10-19 19:00:34 · 25 answers · asked by LOFT1009 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 18:56:49 · 40 answers · asked by priya p 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all, my guy and I have heard that premarital counseling is crucial to a long-lasting marriage. We don't have too many issues, except we both kinda have tempers and I tend to fib in order to make his life less stressful. My question is, is counseling necessary? If it is, is it expensive?

2007-10-19 18:56:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce