He is a sweet talker but it was kinda disturbing when I found a picture of John Elway with my head photoshoped onto it.
2007-10-19 19:58:25 · 21 answers · asked by KyleBoiAnswer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say no. If he's a BFF, this doesn't have to end the friendship part, but don't get into a Broncos uniform #7 to save your relationship if you aren't a switch hitter.
2007-10-19 20:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by Your Uncle Dodge! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Assuming that you are not gay and are not interested in him, you need to let him know that while you value his friendship, you are not romantically interested in him, will never be, and he will need to accept that if he wants to continue the friendship. Make it clear that you were disturbed by the John Elway picture, and that should you find anything similar in the future, you will find it difficult to remain friends with him (I am assuming that this is the case; don't say it if you don't feel this way).
2007-10-20 03:03:37 · answer #2 · answered by neniaf 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Explain to him how you feel and what the problem is. Be supportive, be understanding, listen to what he has to say. But then again, be firm, don't give him any false hope and don't "go with the flow". He might be going through a confusing or frustrating time right now and being there for your best friend is the best thing you can do! Just be gentle and make sure he gets the message clear out across. I'm sure that he doesn't mean any harm!
2007-10-20 03:02:33 · answer #3 · answered by Somebody Unique 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I understand how difficult it can be to find out that you friend is gay and likes you. First, I would say that if he is a good guy than there is no need for you to stop being friends with him. Nothing has changes but his sexuals preference. Secondly, I would seggust that you confront him to set specific bounderes in your friendship. Just because he decided to be gay and now likes you, doesn't me that you like him back. Let him know the way you feel. Lastly, be honest with him concern his new lifestyle. If you approve, let him know. If you don't, also let him know. He may or may not appreciate you point of view concerning his change but he will respect you for it in the end. Good luck.
2007-10-20 03:08:13 · answer #4 · answered by ChaRiaLer 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweet talker, you say......hmmmmm....interesting. Assuming you're NOT gay (a-hemmm), you're quite uncomfortable being BFF with this gay guy.
If this development has put you off on being BFF with this guy, then why are you posting a question here?
If, however, you wish to be BFF with this guy--then have a frank talk with him. Explain to him you are NOT gay NOR are you curious of the lifestyle. If he can't respect your clear feelings on this issue or tries to make sexual advances towards you---he kills forever the friendship.
Judge his reaction then, see what he has to say and go from there.
2007-10-20 03:04:38 · answer #5 · answered by Mr. Wizard 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah, you need to work out weather you are interested in him back or not.... if yes, then there is no problem really, just be honest with yourself. If you are really not interested in him then you need to tell him a) the photo is a little creepy and b) he needs to realize that this canot go on if you two are to continue friends. Make sure he knows you suport him in his sexual choices but make it clear that you do not and will never feel the same way. Just make sure you dont make him ashamed of feeling gay, or this may hurt the friendship just as much as unreturned feeelings...
2007-10-20 03:04:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on how you feel. Do you like John Elway?
2007-10-20 03:00:50 · answer #7 · answered by californiablueeyes76 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well.. has he tried hitting on you yet? if so... just tell him nicely that youre not interested and that you dont swing that way... again.. nicely! and just hope he doesnt get offended and just say you want to continue being friends. if he hasnt said anything to you... just continue to live life normally! just think of it this way... if you wouldnt of found out.. you would still act normally with him.. and continue to be friends right? so yea.. dont let your friendship end because of something like that. good luck!
2007-10-20 03:04:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm getting the vibe that you might be gay too. Am I right? If yes, then go for your BFF.
2007-10-20 03:02:40 · answer #9 · answered by Mark G 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be straight up with him! Tell him that you just want to be friends not anything else, make it clear to him. If he values your guys friendship then it shouldn't be a problem, if not! then kick him to the curb.
2007-10-20 03:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋