Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

2007-10-19 17:02:24 · 13 answers · asked by eldrich 1 in Friends

i tried to wear the clothes you like you say they give me the looks, i even tried to like the fodd that i know you like to cook.

2007-10-19 17:02:17 · 3 answers · asked by jason c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 17:02:16 · 7 answers · asked by Gatekeeper 4 in Singles & Dating

just wondering

2007-10-19 17:00:45 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend has been married for 35 years and her and her husband havn't had sex AT ALL for the last 20 years. She wants it but he tells her that there is more to marriage than just sex.
She thinks he is getting it elsewhere.

2007-10-19 17:00:17 · 15 answers · asked by Lee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

omg Im sooo confussed there xen who says he loves me I think of him like a brother theres bob whos in his 30s who likes me but I think of him like the father i never had teres seth who loves me but hes a player and hurt me about 11 or 12 times(dont ask I aint desperate he just kept making moer and more promises) theres spencer he cheated on me but says he still likes me and then theres troy who says hes in love with me and I kinda like troy...I do not wanna hurt anyone...please someone help meee :( :*(

2007-10-19 16:58:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine was sued for seeing a married woman for something called alienation of affection. Personally I think this law is Brilliant. What are your thoughts?

2007-10-19 16:57:32 · 8 answers · asked by rustychiefs 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im 17 I was 16 when I found out... I was getting a file out for my dad and I noticed a file that said alm adopt... so being the curius bad girl I am I looks and it was filled with lettters and stuff about my adoption... I finaly at the end of the day got up the courage to telll my dad... he said its true but it doesnt make anyway difrence it did to me I cryed for 3 days it felt like my whole world had fallen apart ... he said he didnt know the papers were in there ... he said my mom and him allways talked about telling me but they were scared.. anyway I will skip a little he told me some stuff about my family be cause he knew them... my mother was alive when I was adopted she didnt think she could take care of me at the time so she wanted my family to foster me but they said they didnt feel it was right swiching a kid from family to family so she agreeded on leting them adopt I also found out I had 2 twin sisters and a half brother.. then I found out my mother died a year ago...

2007-10-19 16:57:14 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I dumped him and then 2 days later he had a girlfriend!

2007-10-19 16:56:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've known this girl for 2 and half years and we both use to talk a lot to each other. This year (9th grade) she has suddenly stopped talking to me. I have on class with her, but she sits on the other side of the room. I think she stares at me everyday, but doesn't even say the "hi" or anything to me. She has said she is very busy with homework and other things, but it has been like 2-3 weeks that she actually has said a word to me. I think she knows that I like her more than a friend. I told her that 2 years ago, but she said she was too young to date. Also, I have heartache just thinking why is she acting like this toward me. She looks in my opinion sad or depressed or something is bugging her. What should I do? Also, why is she acting this way? Please Help!!!! Thanks to people who reply to this question

2007-10-19 16:54:15 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My great uncle is in his 60s and he's married to a young woman who's 21. My aunt (great uncle's daughter) is in her 40s, so she's uncomfortable about this. She feels that woman only marries him for his money (which I think is true) because she keeps spending on his money non-stop. And my great uncle doesn't seem to care whether she loves him or not as long as he gets to keep her. So my aunt is worry about what that gold-digger might do with her family fortune.

2007-10-19 16:51:28 · 11 answers · asked by Staci L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I knew this girl a few months ago and really started to crush on her,we both just kinda vanished and she was all i thought about until today she appeared in my phone???weird??? but anyways i gave her a text and she replied who is this..i told her it was me and she replied with xoxoxo i miss you blah blah blah..i want to tell her how i feel but dont want to chase her away?she has a three year old baby girl and i always tell her how cute she is and she really likes it when im nice to her daughter she told me she really thinks thats sweet..
how do i bring up how i feel bout her?

2007-10-19 16:50:58 · 12 answers · asked by chewbac63 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I know I sound like everyone else, but here's for trying! My husband of 12 years is an alcoholic, with all the problems that that causes. He does not want to stop drinking even after jail,prison, counseling, medication, etc. I have decided to leave him, but therein lies my problem. I am not employed and I am take care of my 91 year old mom. I have no income other than her SS. My daughter lives in S.D. and I could go there, but I have a house and property here plus lots of things to move, also have animals that I am responsible for. I have no help here as I know nobody who could help me go through things (lots of stuff) and help me pack, as I cannot do it by myself. I need enough money to rent a moving van and all that. Once I get to SD I can gain employment so I will have an income. It is
just too overwhelming to try and do it all from this end. So, how do I get enough money to move, and how do I do it? Anyone?

2007-10-19 16:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by anita r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm quite intersted in the lifestyle and i think it will be fun to be a child growing up in this situaton and it will be homourus, make me stand out and intresting/exciting.I have heard that many open marriages dont work and so i dont want my parents' marriage to break up as i wanna have a lot of money from my parents.I'm not sure if my parents's relationship is strong enough for this. Howdo i tell them i want them to have an open marriage

2007-10-19 16:49:18 · 12 answers · asked by possessed by insanity 3 in Marriage & Divorce

It seems like wealthy men leave their wives or partners (once and they old) to go for much younger women. Is there any wealthy man out there that stays with his wife or partner?

2007-10-19 16:42:10 · 10 answers · asked by Staci L 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad got a random 17 yr old girl at a party pregnant when he was 15, and stayed with her. when i 1 month she split and my dads looked after me ever since. he has mates over all the time but wont date. it makes me feel guilty as if i ruined his life. he tells me that "i am the only girl he needs" but i dont really understand it. he wont go out to clubs, where he could meet heaps of chicks, and he is a good looking, nice bloke. i think he is worried about the change, because his parents kicked him out when he get the girl pregnant and it has only ever been the two of us, and friends, never girlfriends. i want him to date but he just wont. what can i do? we are very close but him having a girlfriend would make him happyer. he thinks that any one his age would run away screaming when he says he has a 15 yr old daughter. what do you think?
he hasnt dated since he was 15.

2007-10-19 16:41:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was at school outta town and teachers were scrambling all around rolling tv's into each classroom and 3 and 4 classrooms would combine and just sat and watched.....

i was on my phone trying to reach my mom or someone from home and people i didnt know helped me call home.

2007-10-19 16:41:05 · 20 answers · asked by badbitty101 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

And when I pick what I want in the wedding (photographer) she over rides it and than says "it's the girls job to plan the wedding" Is this true?

2007-10-19 16:39:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

From what I've seen, old men tend to go for young women (18 and up) that are young enough to be their daughters. Does this mean that old women (40 and up) don't have a chance of dating men their age?

2007-10-19 16:37:41 · 5 answers · asked by Staci L 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex ended it, he really hurt me in the past couple weeks and I told him a few days ago I couldnt make him but since we are no longer together or friends he should remove the pictures of us together on his facebook which he has not. I have also recently found out he talks to my best friend to ask how I am and ask random stuff about me. He knows I am angry and is smart to stay away from me right now but what is up with him?

2007-10-19 16:32:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I didn't meet my father until I was 24 (am 26 now). He just kind of left when my mom was pregnant and my mom knew she was better off without him. For my whole life I never knew anything about him, only his name. I didn't even know what he looked like. I was able to find him a few years ago and we developed an amazing relationship. I found out I had a half sister (8 months younger! found out he cheated on her mom with my mom, my mom didn't know about it). That was the first chip in our newfound relationship, then he would miss plans, say weird things, etc. The final straw being in January when he said "Liz, you were conceived after 6, it's not like it meant anything!" Well to my mom and I it sure as hell did! So since then I have not spoken to him, until tonight, when he IMed me, and I told him it was funny because I had just been thinking of him the other day and he said he thought of me everyday. At the end he said he loved me. I couldn't say it back. Now I'm all upset and confused

2007-10-19 16:29:24 · 4 answers · asked by LFE 2 in Family

It's not as easy as it sounds. It was my first time feeling that way about anyone and I just can't move on.... i want to but its harder than I thought... can someone, anyone give me advice???

2007-10-19 16:27:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 16:26:06 · 9 answers · asked by familyfunshopguy 1 in Family

2007-10-19 16:24:42 · 8 answers · asked by imjustakid&lifeisanitemare 4 in Singles & Dating

there's this one girl at my high school we dont talk but she kept on looking at me in the hallway and sometimes even stare at me but when i look back she seems to start looking away. When she sees me in the hallway she start to scream her friends name loudly, one time she even dared one of her friends to say hi to me. Then she heard a rumor that i like her and she started to ignore me in the hallway suddenly stop looking at me ans start looking at the ceiling or her feet when i passed by her. one time she saw me in the hallway she turn around and walk the other way

2007-10-19 16:24:38 · 14 answers · asked by michael 1 in Singles & Dating

likes me and i find out when they don't any more

2007-10-19 16:22:35 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 5'5 and im only 100 pounds
im dont have anything like anorexia
its just normal for me
i eat alot but it just burns right up
but somtimes i feel to skinny
im the skinniest one in my class
guys would this be a turn off?

2007-10-19 16:20:16 · 12 answers · asked by Scintillate88 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 16:18:51 · 6 answers · asked by flannelpajamas1 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im in 8th grade, well, I went to this 6th grade party and I brought some pills with me. Im NOT a drug addict! I just use drugs every now and then when Im at a party or really pissed off. Some little sixth grade girl saw me take a pill and got really scared. She told these two girls that live very close to me in my neighborhood. I convinced the little girl that they were for a toothache but my other friends know otherwise. Its just two of them and they dont understand that I am NOT addicted to drugs. They keep nagging me about it and they are worried about me. I told them that when the girl found out, It really scared me and that I was not going to do drugs again, but they are like "well, thats what they all say" But the one thing im worried about is they were like "Theres only one way to make sure you dont do drugs again and thats to tell your parents, but we dont want to do that" I just dont want them thinking that I am some druggie. And i dont want to get in trouble.

2007-10-19 16:17:35 · 33 answers · asked by Dallas S 1 in Friends

I'm afraid I won't be able to please my girlfriend if I have sex with her, we still haven't had sex but I'm afraid that she might think my penis is too small :\ I'm 17 and I'm 6.5" long and 5.5" in girth :\ please be honest and tell me if she will laugh if she sees it :( I think she is a virgin so I don't know how she would react :\

2007-10-19 16:16:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating