Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

What should I do when my boyfriend wants to get into my pants? I really like him, and I mean REALLY. But I told him I wanted to wait a couple more years. I really want to do it and I am tempted. What should I do? Have sex with him, say no, or what?

2007-10-19 16:16:34 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 16:11:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 16:10:21 · 2 answers · asked by andy m 1 in Singles & Dating

In general, I think the info that says sex is very close 2 the top of the list of men's needs & right alongside of that is that the woman is supposed to try real hard to look good 4 the man. This SEEMS so so shallow to me because as a female human I'd like to be valued for who I am, but I know I only see it from a female's point of view. I feel people should be appreicated for the "inside of the cookie" for in a marriage, what is it that really makes it last ?/ I know there has to be love & affection, but if men so strongly desire a good looking woman who is sexy, is that all it takes for a good marriage ? In my mind's eye, in relationships in general & love relationships, why is looks & sex so important or it seems to be like 98% important when isn't it a good hearted, loving, well rounded person that usually makes a relationship work ? i am not at all against sex, but ? men, help ?

2007-10-19 16:09:39 · 6 answers · asked by I Love Jesus 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm sick and tired of my parents. i don't want to go into the whole story cause that would take too long but just tell me how i can do this

2007-10-19 16:07:35 · 7 answers · asked by Dmel 4 in Family

i really like him almost love..but im rely confused.. please help me.

2007-10-19 16:07:31 · 7 answers · asked by whitney b 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is dating this guy which i do not like but thats not the problem. I like his son. My mom is going to break up with him any way. I think he likes me. Is it o.k to date him?

2007-10-19 16:02:24 · 10 answers · asked by Mysterious 2 in Singles & Dating

ugg... my ex says that im ugly... is she saying this cause i am or is it just cause shes pissed off at me cause i dummpped her?
cause i can talk to cute and hot girls and they like to talk to me.
so is it just cause i am ugly or is it just cause shes really mad?

2007-10-19 16:01:16 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It bothers me that he masturbates and watches porn a lot, especially when i'm not there.. He cannot ejaculate during sex without watching porn, and it hurts me, making me feel as if i did not turn him on, and bothers me because he's watching other women while we have sex - we've had terrible fights about it, is there anything i can do to change his habits?

2007-10-19 15:58:41 · 11 answers · asked by hmmm... 1 in Singles & Dating

Just wondering.

2007-10-19 15:57:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I''m a healthy man, love sex, and am quite normal (in my opinion), but all or most of my male friends love women with big hooters. Me? personally, I like them small, and perky. The women I've mentioned this to don't believe me, saying all men like them big, but honestly I don't. Am I weird, or what ?

2007-10-19 15:56:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-19 15:53:25 · 40 answers · asked by The truth 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a family obligation tomorrow, although it's not really a big deal if I don't go. I said I would and now I don't want to. This function is early, far away, and I have a baby. My hubby can't go. Think of an excuse for me please!

2007-10-19 15:49:03 · 29 answers · asked by Carrie 4 in Marriage & Divorce

nothing was hurting, everything was great, first my lower body was trembling by itself then all of a sudden i started crying and i couldn't control it, my husband was worried hahaha in the end there was nothing to worry about

2007-10-19 15:48:56 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I feel very unlovable. Every relationship I get into always ends on a sour note. Meeting the right guy is really what I want. I don't know what I am doing wrong. Maybe I just attract the wrong type of guy. I tried the dating online thing, but again, nothing has worked out. I am attractive, well kept, knowledgeable in many areas, and have a sarcastic sense of humor. I do try to keep that in check as not to chase people away. I don't want to hear, he is just around the corner. Stop looking, he will find you. Maybe it is just not the right time. I have a few single friends. Few being the key word. I have been a bridesmaid 7 times. I am so NOT gay. In fact in the bedroom, I am the queen of being a pleaser. I go the extra mile to make sure the guy gets anything and everything he wants. This often means I sacrifice my own needs. I just want to be in a relationship where I don't get taken advantage of or abused as I have been in the past. Looking for serious answers only.

2007-10-19 15:48:33 · 12 answers · asked by Cold Heart 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 15:47:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really like this girl. and it's driving me crazy. i don't want this feeling. and i just want it to go away. i still like guys though. does that turn guys off? my old guy crush is hitting on me but i don't like him anymore because i like the other girl now. darn it. what should i do? i don't know if she is a lesbian although she is very masculine. i want the feelings to go away, what do i do?

2007-10-19 15:44:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend had plenty of girlfriends in the past..(especially in a years time).. He says he wants to be honest with me and so he told me all the stories of his ex-girlfriends.. I know i needed to know all that.. but it makes me scared.. He calls me his first love. And he is mine.. But is it natural to have doubt..? To think that he could want something else of me.. or get tired of this close relationship.. I just really want to know how to get rid of this awful feeling.. I don't want to doubt him.. How do i get over it?..

2007-10-19 15:39:51 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if some girl ask me wuts my name? is that a sign of somethin? if so what kinda compliments should i tell her?

2007-10-19 15:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Happy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 15:37:18 · 2 answers · asked by adrian s 2 in Singles & Dating

For every player theres a scheming ***** out there that hurts 'good guys'. Everyone learns what love really is from getting hurt. I'm doing a fricken public service!!! I'm sure many of us have been on the receiving edge of some kind of playa, but we then learned and got stronger. I hate it when girls tell me I should be ashamed of myself or I'm doing something wrong or your an a$$hole for hurting them. How dare they besides I don't hurt girls anymore i'm too experienced to do that. I simply have my fun and leave. And theres nothing wrong with having fun as long as no one gets hurt. Besides some girls like to play the game anyways when they know the outcome already. I am justified.

2007-10-19 15:37:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a husband has an affair and fathers a child with the other woman, can the other woman be sued by his spouse? If so, what would be the grounds for suing her? The spouse suffered mental, physical and emotional abuse during the time of the affair and the birth of the child. To date, the spouse still suffers abuse. Help.

2007-10-19 15:34:07 · 20 answers · asked by Mae B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 15:34:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm really want to help my friend, 17.. I just don't know what to tell her.
K, She was with her bf for about 8 months and just about a month ago they broke up, she broke up w/ him cuz she started to realize that she didnt really feel the same way about him that she used to.. plus she had a lot going on w/ her family, her father is sick and shes having trouble w/ our other friends that she figured a boyfriend was just too much extra to deal with at the time, and she didnt want to have to put him through all that.
But now, I've noticed shes beendown alot lately, thinking about him, she said she really misses him, little things always remind her of him. but she knows getting back 2gether with him probly isnt the best thing for her at the time andsays that he doesnt need to deal withsomebody in as tough a time as her.
But just, what can I say to her?, Ive never had a boyfriend before so I really dont know how she feels, and i really dont know how to put how i feel into words..

2007-10-19 15:33:27 · 6 answers · asked by melloyellow 1 in Singles & Dating

bug us more than some big things sometimes?

2007-10-19 15:32:25 · 5 answers · asked by Rayray 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

OK, I live in America, he lives in India. WE did have a three month courtship period. We saw each other once a month, and spoke every week on the phone. Now, i"m in the states, he's still in INdia, waiting to come over. We still only speak once a week. We agreed this was sufficient since neither had much to say to one another. I don't carry his pic wherever I go; I just don't. I don't want to loose it. plus, he's my guy, so sooner or later, he'll be seen by all. But it seems I'm a bit odd compared to most indian girls in love with their men...especially one's who are newly wed...because once a week is enough for me, and I have enough pics of him in my heart, and in my room, i don't need to carry it around. I hear we need to act inseparable, so then when we're together, it'll be common, and our marriage will flow smooth for years to come. We sort of act like an old married couple; but he's not complaining. We know we miss and love each other. We're just not outward 'bout it. I get advic

2007-10-19 15:32:09 · 13 answers · asked by Uncertain Soul 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy and we don't really talk but we have lots of classes together. He looks at me alot, and always smiles at me. I smile at him sometimes when he does that. He's so cute, and I really like him even though we don't talk, and I want to get to know him but i want him to make the first move....what do I do?????

2007-10-19 15:31:14 · 3 answers · asked by Love. 5 in Singles & Dating

I am 12 do you know what I should say when he calls me that because I am not a terrorist and my Dad works for the U.S. gov. we are no where near a terrorist family what should I say? Thank you!!

2007-10-19 15:28:43 · 6 answers · asked by My Life is in Black and White 4 in Friends

Ok, today at school, I was playing around with this girl and I tried to shut her locker when she was done, but instead, she stuck her head back in and I nearly knocked her out. I've been meaning to say sorry, but everytime I get close to her she says "I hate you"
What do I do?

2007-10-19 15:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by Albert 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 13


I live in a duplex with my 17 yr old brother and parents

My brother is a snotnose and i have to share a room with him we are both guyz i think we need our own rooms


My house had one floor the other one was a duplex we have to go outside to get their though

I never had my own room when wemoved in 96 i was a baby in didnt have a say in the matter if i got my own room or not

i always get colds cause of my brother


does my life suck?

2007-10-19 15:22:05 · 13 answers · asked by Washington Prince 2 in Family