Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

I just met this guy. He asked me to lunch, picked the place and made the reservation. The conversation and laughter flowed easily. Lunch lasted almost two hours. The check comes, he paid. He asked me what I was doing this weekend and made some suggestions for things we could do. I reacted positively and say that sounds great. He walked me out we continued to talk for a few mintues, then said goodbye. it was a great first meeting. Everything went smoothly. An hour later, I sent him an email saying thank you for lunch, let's hang out again soon, and here's a link to that website we were talking about. That was on Wednesday. He didn't respond until the next day, saying thank you for the link and you had fun at lunch. I responds saying you're welcome. It's now Friday night, and I still hasn't heard anything else from him. Was he just being polite about getting together again?

2007-10-19 15:21:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For the past few months since December 2006, my guy friend has been calling me everyday. I never flirt with him to make him think that we have chemistry. He'd call me so early in the morning and when I'm in class. And when I do get his calls, he only calls just to talk, talk talk, talk, talk, talk, talk talk, talk, talk, about his problems of where he lives. I'm not saying I don't ever listen to my friend's issue. but he ONLY calls just to talk bout his drama and not really about mine. So, I stop getting his calls and *prayed* that he stop calling. But does he? NO! What do i do? Is there any way to block his number on my house phone?

2007-10-19 15:20:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

* i love him and i no i really do

* now he decides he doesn't want to be a player and wants to stay with his gf tho yeterday he was all about cheating

* i love him to much to get over him and idc if its bitchy i have to break them up but how?

PLEASE ANSWER k thanks <3

2007-10-19 15:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by Kristen Isabelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Give me a list of preferrential, NOT NECESSARILY ESSENTIAL, traits in a boyfriend/partner.

You should know that I am conducting this experiment with the utmost seriousness, and I really would like to find out more about the female mind, so please humour and enlighten me.

I am a very mature guy when it comes to women, no giggly little girls please, only intelligent women/young girls who are interested in real, serious men.

The crux of this question is I would like to find out what you ladies would consider positive traits in males.

2007-10-19 15:19:26 · 16 answers · asked by Exacerbate 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 15:17:26 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have 4 kids. 14,13,5, and 16 mnths. 2 weeks ago my job had to lay me off because i missed too many days due to my spouse's heart condition. They do have me back for automatic rehire in 3 mnths though. Since than my 13 year old daughter has been acting as if i owe her for losing my job. She no longer hardley does anything around the house and she acts as if she does everything ( I've had to resort to washing our laundry out by hand, and I've taken up 4 different paper routes that I do by foot 7 dys a week, so we can at least make rent). I'm up at 3 am and when I do finally lie down for an hour nap when she gets home from school at 4:30 she acts as if I'm being lazy and requiring her to do too much. Her Dad and i have tried everything we can to give her some space, while asking some responsibility the 3 older kids,1 is cooperating the best he can with a broken collarbone. What do we do? I'm trying to do the best I can and i'm about to go crazy w/ worry, stress & lack of sleep.

2007-10-19 15:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-19 15:16:47 · 16 answers · asked by skimboardergal6 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm 13


I live in a duplex with my 17 yr old brother and parents

My brother is a snotnose and i have to share a room with him we are both guyz i think we need our own rooms


My house had one floor the other one was a duplex we have to go outside to get their though

I never had my own room when wemoved in 96 i was a baby in didnt have a say in the matter if i got my own room or not

i always get colds cause of my brother


does my life suck?

2007-10-19 15:15:12 · 28 answers · asked by Washington Prince 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been going out with my boyfriend for 14 months, we lost our virginities to each other, and I know that he loves me so much. He is really shy, painfully nice, and I am his first relationship. But...I mean...guys don't do it for me. As in, you know, I'd rather be with a girl or no one at all. And not only that, but I'd be more comfortable with someone who is on my same wavelength: loud, outgoing, laid back and radical, rather than someone who speaks with two worded sentences. It KILLS me inside and I feel TERRIBLE just THINKING about breaking up with him, but I am the world's worst dumper. (Usually I try to get them to break up with me, but I know he wouldn't ever.)

Should I stay with him and see if this blows over (although, I know it will come back; I have gone through this three times before in our relationship), or take life as it comes?

2007-10-19 15:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She doesn't know I like her or does she??? I'm not sure, we're best friends.

2007-10-19 15:09:50 · 9 answers · asked by Enders 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 15:08:30 · 14 answers · asked by sweet_linda51 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. Super hot chick, she's average fun, but you don't like hangin out with her that much, your boys are funner

2. Average looking chick, but you absolutely love
'hangin out" with her, she's fun

2007-10-19 15:03:43 · 1 answers · asked by J 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl asked you out through email, would you give her the answer though email on phone or in person?

2007-10-19 14:53:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so there is this guy that I really like, and he is super nice and all and talking to him is easy because he isn't like...rude and blunt. Anyways, I know for a fact that another girl likes him to, and she is way pretty. And this poor guy doesn't know a thing. How do I tell him I like him with out being creepy and/or stake a claim to him to let the other girl know she has competion?

2007-10-19 14:53:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well. I had to tell my mom that i have kissed my Bf, who i have been dating for 2 months, and now she won't leave me alone about it...... She always have to make a way to make fun of me! I am 14! wat can i do to make her leave me alone!!!

2007-10-19 14:51:35 · 8 answers · asked by babygirl_06342 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

"Mommy, I want to marry you!"

I know, it's totally weird... not to be taken literally... and it essentially means "I love you for life!" :) :) :) What are some of YOUR favorite innocent questions from out of the mouths of your babes?

2007-10-19 14:50:00 · 3 answers · asked by Insomniac Butterfly 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-19 14:48:31 · 8 answers · asked by Jo-Lynn G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been best friends with this guy for 20years, we're both 22. But recently, well since New Years, i've been feeling really different around his brother, and i think i've fallen completely in love with him! Before i came to uni, we spent nearly every day together, he had a gf then but he doesn't anymore. I don't know whether i should tell him how i feel, because i risk an entire friendship on that one statement, and regardless of how i feel, i don't know whether it's worth it! What do i do??

2007-10-19 14:44:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Who is more prone to cheat in a marriage? men or women? and why you think so

2007-10-19 14:41:03 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I don't want to break up with my girlfriend because she is always happy with me. please help!!!

2007-10-19 14:40:03 · 5 answers · asked by Andrew 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm in my early 30s and I've been in just 2 relationships of 1.5 years each. I know is nice to have company, but until now, the "nice" girl that cross my path, I can see is a wolf with a sheep custome and it doesn't take a long time for me to see the truth, and why I don't commit. My point is I am considering to spend the rest of my life by myself, has anyone out there took a similar decision and got to his 40, 50 and say it's been a good decision?, have you thought on staying single for the rest of your life in your 20s or 30s?

2007-10-19 14:40:02 · 17 answers · asked by livingthe30s 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a guy with a different type of foo fetish at least I think it is. I love comparing feet.. the size of them to be exact. and it really doesnt even have to involve me if I see two women with their feet side by side I find it hard not to stare or even better if they are sole to sole comparing...of course I like comparing too but am really shy about doing so. and the strangest thing is I like women whose feet are bigger

2007-10-19 14:39:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have an uncontested divorce in Louisiana. There is no property to divide, NOTHING. How long does it generally take for a divorce to go through and I be a free woman?

2007-10-19 14:39:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm really worried that I'm a 'sack of potatoes' in bed! I just don't know how you're supposed to move! I've never had the guts to ask a guy but I suspect it may explain why I'm always getting dumped.

2007-10-19 14:38:44 · 23 answers · asked by hatty m 1 in Singles & Dating

This is a complicated situation, but I will try to give a brief summery. My mother passed away in June of last year. My Grandmother (Her Mom) passed away in April of this year. A few weeks before my grandmothers death, My uncle who had power of attorney over her estate changed beneficiaries on her IRA account to himself and my father. This eleminated my sister and I from getting what would have been my mother's share of the IRA since she passed away before my grandmother. We have just learned that my uncle has power of attorney of our step grandfather's estate. This was done two months ago. There is no blood relation. Our dad mentioned this to us after our Grandfather was found in a town several miles away without knowing where he was or how he got there. A medical review now shows he is incapacitated. He does have blood relatives living as well as grand children from a previous marraige. However; according to our dad his will does not include them.

2007-10-19 14:38:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How many relationships have you been in and how many times have you cheated or been cheated on? Be honest.

Out of the 9 girls I've dated in my life, I've been cheated on 3 times. Later on I cheated on two girls.

So 3 girls cheated on me out of 9
and I've cheated 2 out of 9

copy and pasted this with your answers:

A) number of relationships I've been in
B) how many times I've been cheated on
C) how many times I've cheated

2007-10-19 14:38:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

And do you think it matters if they're married, or "only" in a committed relationship?

2007-10-19 14:37:37 · 5 answers · asked by Singinganddancing 6 in Singles & Dating

My husband's daughter calls me and I want to say "no" to her nicely.

2007-10-19 14:36:27 · 15 answers · asked by eshjane 2 in Marriage & Divorce

do they work??
I live in California and he lives in Arizona

2007-10-19 14:33:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to be attracted to my cousin?

2007-10-19 14:30:31 · 18 answers · asked by The Great One 3 in Singles & Dating