* i love him and i no i really do
* now he decides he doesn't want to be a player and wants to stay with his gf tho yeterday he was all about cheating
* i love him to much to get over him and idc if its bitchy i have to break them up but how?
PLEASE ANSWER k thanks <3
2007-10-19 15:19:40 · 11 answers · asked by Kristen Isabelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
* we sdont go to the same school
2007-10-19 15:26:13 · update #1
how do i flrit with him?
2007-10-19 15:26:39 · update #2
have some self esteem and tell him to screw off if he was a really good man he will see hey she doesnt need me maybe i did screw up.... Do you love him enought to risk your future if he gave you HIV?
2007-10-19 15:27:20 · answer #1 · answered by Clays mom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, I think it is important that you hear the old saying "Once a cheater, always a cheater". That said, you should also know that he is not married to this girl, and maybe all you need to do is give it some time. But if he is not ready to make a commitment to you, don't make a commitment to him. Be sure to do all the things you want to do, even dating other guys! Maybe even if you're not sure you are ready or want to go on dates with anyone else, you need to to keep your perspective. He is not sitting at home dreaming of YOU so there is no good reason for you to pine away for him. If you are really meant to be together, he will eventually break up with her to be with you naturally. You don't need to do anything special. Just be yourself. Believe me, after being in a relationship for YEARS with one person, that is what it boils down to at the end of the day- you and him, being yourselves. You shouldn't try to fake too hard in the beginning because it just backfires.
2007-10-19 22:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by Amy W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, hello? he's a cheater ! Don't you think if you had him he'd cheat on you too? Wake up and go look for someone else. Where's your dignity? You can way better than him. And if you do manage to break them up, what does that make you ? Quite wasting your heart on someone you will eventually break up with.
2007-10-19 22:30:36 · answer #3 · answered by Karen T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is wanting the other person to be happy. You are just feeling rejected. Why do you want someone who used you, then announced it's over?
2007-10-19 22:27:22 · answer #4 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Shouldn't do that, because that could ruin his and your relationship. I wouldn't do that either because its lame and yes it is very bitchy. But i wouldn't risk it. If you loved him you would let him go and Obviously he doesn't love you if he is with that other girl.
2007-10-19 22:27:37 · answer #5 · answered by eeeeeeeeerin. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you, i dont share. if he has a gf, and you are the mistress.. odds are he loves her more. hes being greedy and needs to have a talk with you. break up with him. cheaters are bad news... why cant some girls see that? and then they cry! its like.. ouh. your fault.
2007-10-19 22:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by BrownEyedBeauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seduce him.
**** him.
Tell the gf.
They're over.
Now you're on.
2007-10-19 22:23:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean but maybe he just not into you. read this book its really good. its called. "hes just not that into you" author is Greg Behrendt. good luck
2007-10-19 22:31:51 · answer #8 · answered by jkgilbo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flirt with him to arouse his interest on u.
2007-10-19 22:25:48 · answer #9 · answered by robert KS LEE. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell the girl and get him fight for him
2007-10-19 22:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by Ivan and Marko's momma 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋