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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 14 months, we lost our virginities to each other, and I know that he loves me so much. He is really shy, painfully nice, and I am his first relationship. But...I mean...guys don't do it for me. As in, you know, I'd rather be with a girl or no one at all. And not only that, but I'd be more comfortable with someone who is on my same wavelength: loud, outgoing, laid back and radical, rather than someone who speaks with two worded sentences. It KILLS me inside and I feel TERRIBLE just THINKING about breaking up with him, but I am the world's worst dumper. (Usually I try to get them to break up with me, but I know he wouldn't ever.)

Should I stay with him and see if this blows over (although, I know it will come back; I have gone through this three times before in our relationship), or take life as it comes?

2007-10-19 15:13:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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i was in the same position with my boyfriend because i was the world to him but he didn't mean that much to me. in the end, i just told him it wasn't good enough for me. he called my mom and she told him that if he loves me, he should want the best for me, which is letting me go. i dont know if it was what she said or if it was the fact that my mother was telling him, but he's finally getting over it.

2007-10-19 15:21:39 · answer #1 · answered by britney♥ 2 · 0 0

You indicated in your piece that you have been through this three times with him in your 14 month relationship.I am curious why you kept reconciling with him if you knew you were no longer attracted to him or any man for that matter.If you are certain that you are now a lesbian and don't want a man, then you owe it to him to tell him no matter how much you think it is going to hurt him.How do you think he is going to feel once he finds out your new sexual choice and that you did not tell him.So end the fiasco, tell him , and then let him deal with the pain his own way.If you wish to remain his friend and he also wants to be yours then you guys can start a new friend ship from scratch.

2007-10-19 15:48:09 · answer #2 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0 0

why don't you guys sit down and have a talk.tell him what you want so that he could understand you better.if he still act the same way then just let him know that this relationship have to end.that way both of you won't get hurt.

2007-10-19 15:23:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

ok maybe you guys need to break up. Maybe you guys can stay friends, but before you go after another guy wait. It will break his heart if you go after another guy right after breaking up with him. If your not happy in the relationship, its probally best to break up with him.

2007-10-19 15:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kimbo slice 3 · 0 0

Just dump him and move on, you have to be happy he will get over it.

2007-10-19 15:22:19 · answer #5 · answered by c_t_5_2 5 · 0 0

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