Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

2007-10-19 18:54:52 · 19 answers · asked by Erika 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a open bar at my wedding but the bar isnt in my room

how could i let the bar see that my party drinks free?

i was thiking a card like a bussiness card tht says like my wedding date and to bring to the bar or the possibly o a bracelet er something

its in a bout 2 weks cant order anything any ideas?

2007-10-19 18:53:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My wife, asked me several times if I didn't mind adopting her 12 year old niece. At first, I refused, but finally, since I love her so much, pursued ways to bring her here from China. Now a year later with her niece in America, my wife is having doubts because her niece occasionally takes advantage of her. She is certainly a decent little girl from most standards - but personally - she and I don't jive that well. After putting our foot down and telling her we are ready to send her back, she suddenly turned over a new leaf and is being a good kid. However, my wife just gave birth to a baby girl and we are so busy loving and taking care of her that we both wonder whether it is better to send our niece back. Our niece is doing well in school and made a lot of friends and likes the baby. Personally, I wouldn't mind if she left so that I could devote my time to wife and baby. Yet, my wife wants to give her a chance but would easily send her back if I chose.

What would you do?

2007-10-19 18:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by Healing Touch 2 in Family

Well, I had a first date tonight and I think it went well. But first a little background. The guy I went out with told me before our date that he had never had a girlfriend and that he was a virgin.Thats no problem for me. We had a good time and we talked and laughed alot. We went to dinner and then afterwards went to a bar that he works at part time after his daytime job. So he knew almost everyone, and it was a little hard for us to really talk after that. He was sort of all over the place. I didnt say much, but I did participate in the conversation and laughed. But at the end of the night he didnt hug me or even try to kiss me, and he didnt say that he wanted to do it again. He said that he hoped I had a good time and I said the same, but he just sorta shook his head yes. Im confused. I want to see him again. He was totally charasmatic and I really liked him alot. Nothing bad happened, and I thought we hit it off but he gave no indication that he wanted to do it again. Any thoughts?

2007-10-19 18:51:00 · 16 answers · asked by Needs Help! 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe its true that you cant love someone until you love yourself? I think its true but im interested to see what everyone else thinks

2007-10-19 18:50:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have discussed our strong desire to be married in 2010. i will graduate college in 09 and he plans to propose to me close to graduation. i'm just curious as to what your thoughts are for after the proposal...how soon do you move in together? or do you wait til youre married?

i know it "all depends on the couple" but in general terms (or in your person opinion from experience) what's the basic timeline going to be like after he proposes? thanks!

2007-10-19 18:45:25 · 26 answers · asked by niugirl1114 3 in Weddings

2007-10-19 18:43:58 · 35 answers · asked by darrskater 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Before I start, let me say:
I'm 46, and she's 23. I didn't marry her because she's young and hot or whatever. We're really in love. She has recently been diagnosed with Epilepsy since about a month now.

So I've noticed since this entire week, that my wife has always been saying things like, "Promise you'll always stay/be here. Stay with me." Stuff like that...almost like seperation anxiety. But I don't think that's it because ever since her new medical problem, I've had my eye on her 24/7. I myself am a doctor (cardiologist), and I go to all her doctor apointments with her neurologist. Her condition isn't cardiac. I don't know if this anxiety or whatever has anything to do with her medical situation.
She has also been really lovey-dovey with me. Always saying she loves me and stuff. Not that I don't like it, but it's just different.

Any ideas?

2007-10-19 18:42:40 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I dont understand how single people in their 30's get up and go fight for another day. Sometimes I just want to lay in bed and not fight anymore. I dont see the point why I fight so hard to get ahead. For who? It's just me, and I have no one else so why do so?

2007-10-19 18:41:35 · 10 answers · asked by terminallyalone2007 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 18:39:03 · 29 answers · asked by expert c 1 in Weddings

So I am a 30 year old woman with 2 beautiful girls and I just kinda realized after 14 years with my high school sweetheart that I deserve and want better! Is it really possible, please tell me there is some one that will love me for me and my children? I feel like I still have so much to experience, I am not satisfied or fullfilled, and I am freaked out! Please any advice or life expierences welcomed. It's crazy, is it not?

2007-10-19 18:38:38 · 21 answers · asked by Dawnie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

every time i see him i blush and i always have like light pink cheeks so its not to obvious, but i just get really happy and i can't help flirting with him... hes really sweet to me, but i'm afraid that i'm liking him and he likes me as a friend only.... he used to flirt in class b4 he transfered schools, but i still see him occasionally. whenever i see him he like calms down and is really nice and stuff... i've seen his friends (the ones that i don't know that well) like hit him or nudge him and stuff when i'm near and stuff, but i don't know if that means anything :) thanks for the answers!

2007-10-19 18:33:19 · 5 answers · asked by sexychick2009 3 in Singles & Dating

because i don't think so , people say i will. i mean if mother theresa can die as a virgin , i can too.

2007-10-19 18:30:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 2 weeks. We haven't kissed yet but i want to. Tonight i asked her out to homecoming(next weekend) and she said yes. When I had to leave from a friends house at about 11, we hugged, but i chickened out and didnt kiss, we might go see a movie tommorow night. Should I just wait for our first kiss to be at homecoming during a slow dance or something?

2007-10-19 18:30:08 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've heard both sides of the story. Some say "It's great! I wouldn't trade it with anything in the world." In the other hand, I've also heard from others that it's bad and that I should never do it.

2007-10-19 18:26:39 · 21 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well plez decode these for me... guys only
1. he is really mean to everyone including my friends but is super sweet to me
2. he loves to sit next to me but always scoots farther away wen i want to sit closer
3. he tells me he really likes me but he still does this lean toward his ex
4. he keeps saying that he is not ready to ask me out
but still wants me to hang and dance wit him
does he want me or just as friends he is sooo confusing help!!!

2007-10-19 18:26:35 · 10 answers · asked by madison d 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 18:26:15 · 23 answers · asked by Fancy You 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I met a guy in July, he's your typical bad boy. We ended up hooking up, i got his #, never called,I knew he wanted nothing serious. 3 months later i contacted him thru myspace, he said we should meet up for drinks. we did the other night. i got really drunk and acted stupid. He had said earlier in the nite he'd fix my car. Next day, i texted saying, can you help me with my car still? he said, yes and he did help. He told me i had acted kind of crazy the night b4, but he laughed. He still has more of car to work on, but made it seem like he was really busy and woudnt be able to do it till next week. I went home (didnt hook up with him) but he thought i was going to stay. He said, ill call you next week. I feel a little bad that i havent heard from him. I mean my friend kept telling me he would ask about me, tell me he said hi, etc. he doesnt seem interested whatsoever! I feel like i will just text him sunday and ask if he can still fix my car?

2007-10-19 18:24:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this guy I like, but I don't know how to talk to him. I've had short conversations with him, but I want more. What do I do? I'm going to see him tomorrow.

2007-10-19 18:23:45 · 9 answers · asked by Violet 3 in Singles & Dating

here's how bad it is. i am married but there is this guy that i use to work with and i had a huge attraction to him, and still do. there is just something about him that really has me thinking about him. i would never cheat on my husband but is it wrong for me to have this feeling or is it okay to like what i see and still be married??

2007-10-19 18:23:19 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 15 years old and have never been kissed thats ok...... right?

2007-10-19 18:22:56 · 42 answers · asked by rikki c 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex has recently come back into my life and some of his friends have said he still has feelings for me.
Although I love my boyfriend I don't know if we're really going anywhere and I've been thinking about leaving him since before my ex arrived on the scene. What do you think I should do?

2007-10-19 18:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It just sucks. KJ's right cant sleep, eat, or find joy today. Any advice about moving on after being lied to and cheated on.... Revenge/... would be nice if only I could find her....

2007-10-19 18:20:36 · 19 answers · asked by itsjust me123 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am so serious...i have a large family...but don't want any of them to come to my wedding....read and you'll understand
I told them next year...Sept 21,2008... I am getting married.Everything from...not dressing up to..better have alcohol there was all up in the air. My family is poor, but my new inlaws are not. We have agreed to spend $5000 to get make over and new clothing for everyone. No one wants to do it. They are all over weight...and don;'t care. Not hygenic (embarrased to tell ya that) and refuse to get make up and hair done. My dad refuses to go..if he can't have alcohol, There is so much more,i don't have space or time . They are the most disfunctinal family ever.Younger sister wants money...although i am paying for everything. They all have truck drivers mouths... My to be In-laws are very religious...that wont work. I don;t know what to do...they don't care and i am really set on paying people to stand in. Our families have not really met. So my in laws wont know...

2007-10-19 18:20:19 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

You meet someone and there is an instant attraction. You become friends with that person, and then you become really good friends with that person. After you've been really good friends for a while, you both decide to date each other. After dating for a few years, you both decide to get married. After marriage, you both live happily ever after.

Is this a good pattern for a "happily ever after" marriage?

*Please just answer the question. I already know that every couple does their own thing, and relationships are all different. So, please don't give me a lecture about that.

2007-10-19 18:19:16 · 6 answers · asked by Mr. Main Event 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i ask the guy i like (we are friends and i think he likes me!) his phone number? what if he says no!? what do i do!

2007-10-19 18:16:25 · 2 answers · asked by <3 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has 2 kids under 5 and is in love with a 21 year old man. I think it is o.k., only she first met him when she was 20 and he was 14. She met him through her younger brother who is now 24- he has no problem with it. Also her ex-husband grew up with him and they all come from a small town. I am not sure what to say to her???? I dont even know if it is wrong/ right???? My husband thinks the whole thing is weird@&$@??

2007-10-19 18:06:38 · 9 answers · asked by animalluvr 2 in Singles & Dating

How will you select one .

2007-10-19 18:04:58 · 7 answers · asked by AUNTY 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am on the UK for a school trip. I want to know where i can find a prostitute without aids lol. And money i ant to spend is 50 Pounds at the most. Help me.

2007-10-19 18:03:25 · 21 answers · asked by King JT 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 18:02:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family