My ex has recently come back into my life and some of his friends have said he still has feelings for me.
Although I love my boyfriend I don't know if we're really going anywhere and I've been thinking about leaving him since before my ex arrived on the scene. What do you think I should do?
2007-10-19 18:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex has recently come back into my life and some of his friends have said he still has feelings for me.
Although I love my boyfriend I don't know if we're really going anywhere and I've been thinking about leaving him since before my ex arrived on the scene. What do you think I should do?
*added*
According to his friend he's "really going to change". I believe in second chances but I don't want to hurt the guy I'm with. I just feel like I'm stuck in a rut and sometimes i think the only reason to stay is because I don't want to lose him altogether.
2007-10-19 18:42:55 · update #1
As the other person said he is your ex for a reason. But... you can take a look at both men, and look at what you like best out of both of them. If you are seriously thinking of breaking up with your current BF then go ahead. Because it is obvious that neither of these guys has exactly what you are looking for. There is no need to rush into relationships. There is the right one out there for you and with the internet the whole world is your oyster don't settle. Never settle. Fight for what you want and you will get it.
2007-10-19 18:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by bssd12000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well your ex is an ex for a reason I would guess, so no not necessarily. I don't know the details of the breakup, so it's hard to say. If it's not going anywhere with this one though, there is always a next one, and that might be somebody different aside from these two.
2007-10-20 01:27:23 · answer #2 · answered by beachdiva954 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that you aren't going anywhere in the relationship, then break up. Don't break up because of your ex. Because you have not confirmed the fact that he still have feeling for you. Find out yourself.
2007-10-20 01:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by Burpee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you truly feel that the relationship with your boyfriend is not
going any where,then leave it along.but dont get back with
the ex for the wrong reason. he the ex for a reason. may you
need to be by your self to fiqure out what you really want.
2007-10-20 01:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Work on the relationship you have..
there was a reason why ex became an ex... it's still there...
2007-10-20 01:33:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your ex for a reason. Don't make the same mistake twice.
2007-10-20 01:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by kirk1500 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Which one do you love more?
2007-10-20 01:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by A_Bothan_Spy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know wat this is tough cuz wat if u get bak with yr ex and u end up crying and realizing that yr current bf is soooo much better.
also wat if u stay with yr bf and end up nowhere and its too late to go bak to yr ex...
i i were u i would follow my heart
2007-10-20 01:28:58 · answer #8 · answered by sassy suzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋