Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

ok, so call me a nerd but i guess im more obsessed w/ school. Never had a bf that lasted for longer than 2 weeks. Any advice?

2007-10-19 18:00:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 17:59:48 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Caus i just got a F on chemistry and i have to reado a paper i already did
My teacher is old so she cant remember to good ; 0

2007-10-19 17:56:38 · 11 answers · asked by Cassi C 2 in Family

Reception Site A-about one hour away from ceremony site.
Includes: 5 hour Open Bar, Champagne Toast, Wine at Tables, Flowers, Color Coordinated Linens and Bridal Suite.
Cocktail Hour w/ cheese and cracker display
Appetizers-1 hot and 1 cold (This is a sit down dinner)
Salad Course
Pasta Course
Entrees-Choice of Chicken, Prime Rib or Shrimp (all served w/ sides)
Dessert-Cake we supply (but they offer ice cream, coffee and hot tea)
Total Reception Time-Cocktail Hour 6-7pm, dinner and dancing 7-11pm. Cost $69 (per person) plus tax and gratuity.

Reception Site B: only 20 minutes away from ceremony
Open Bar, Color Coordinated Linens, Wine at Tables, Champagne Toast
Cocktail Hour- Assorted cheese and crackers, Veggie Crudite w/ dipping sauces, Fresh Fruit display
Appetizer-Salad (Sit Down)
Pasta Course (not included, we would add it on)
Entree-Chicken, Pork, Salmon
Dessert-coffee and tea....we supply cake.
Same deal-cocktail hour-1 hour, dinner/dancing-4 hour

2007-10-19 17:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by Je Adore 2 in Weddings

I have a classmate that likes to touch my hair like for instance, yesterday, her arms are literally resting on my back while touching my hair. she's done this a couple of times and only to me. also, she always rest her head on my shoulders saying she is tired. (like today she rested her head on my shoulders 3 times saying how tired she is) she also loves to touch my arms and like play around with it.
when we talk to each other there is this awkward tension between us and we feel shy towards each other. she keeps teasing me in everything.

also, when she did my vitals i was so nervous and my pulse reading was like on 128...then when i did her's was 108. we were both above normal. when i was putting the blood pressure cuff on her arm she felt very shy and quiet. i dunno

when i asked her about our teacher being gay...she seemed quiet and her face was serious. i think she got uncomfortable about that topic. she didnt even answer my question.

im bi and i don't know if she is...im not out

2007-10-19 17:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by hellocrazyb 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 17:53:39 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-19 17:47:11 · 1 answers · asked by skateboarding 1 in Singles & Dating

after many years of persuing me and wanting me, i finally gave in to him and fell in love with him. NOW for some strange reason, he stopped asking me out and he barely wants to talk to me. i feel rejected and so down. i feel like my heart is broken. y did he want me to fall in love with him and not consider me? y would a guy b so cruel. i told him from the start i did not want to b hurt so i did not accept at first. i decided to accept cause i thought it was wrong to let him linger. but now he acts like he doesnt care, i've never been so upset in my life. please give me some good advice. i cant stop crying

2007-10-19 17:46:04 · 16 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5 in Singles & Dating

Especially since she has a boyfriend.

I spend so much time thinking about her. Its distracting me from my work.

2007-10-19 17:43:53 · 13 answers · asked by florida 1 in Friends

2007-10-19 17:41:48 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been told that I'm too nice. When I take a lady out, I know before hand I'm sexually attracted to them. But. out of a weird respect I find myself waiting for them to make the first move. Would ladies rather have a guy that's more agressive when it comes to taking the initiative?

2007-10-19 17:39:57 · 16 answers · asked by david 4 in Singles & Dating

So about a month ago this guy tells me that he likes me, and at first I was unsure if I liked him back, but i told him that I did and that I was attracted to him. Since then we have cuddled a few times because we live in the same dorm I go down there sometimes, but most times he never makes an effort to communicate with me during the week, and on the weekend he always wants to chill with me in his dorm, but don't get me wrong he isn't like looking for sex, he is a virgin and he has never had a g/f So im just wondering what's up...what exactly do you guys think is going on? If he likes me then why does he not want to spend more time with me or talk?

2007-10-19 17:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by ru4reel412 1 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for two and a half years, together for over 4. We have a 3 year old son together and two boys (8 and 5) from her previous marriage. I am 30, she is 28.

I found out earlier this year that she had been cheating on me. After some back and forth, she says that she does love me and wants to stay. She said she was confused, but now knows that I am the one she wants to be with. She says that I should believe her because if she wanted to be with the other guy, she would just leave me. I know this guy and I know that he is deeply in love with her and willing and able to take care of her. So I dont think she is with me for security or financial reasons.
The problem is that she still goes out with her girlfriends almost once a week until late. She says she won't give up her friends for anything, but her frequent going out was the first sign of trouble. I wanted her to be more independent at first because she was very clingy, but now I want the old her.

2007-10-19 17:36:37 · 18 answers · asked by nobody 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why has casual sex become much more commom and accepted than it was 25- 30 years ago? Do people not believe in relationships or have morals anymore? Sex is not what it used to be. Does anyone believe that casual sex is killing romance in todays society? I dont understand how people can sleep with one person and move right on to the next and not give a damn about the person they were just with. Sex is supposed to be valued. Casual sex has become more physically risky with the spread of STD's and it seems like nobody cares. People may be using condoms but that doesnt always protect someone from catching an STD. Anyone can catch an STD even when wearing one. Are people all about fun or what?

2007-10-19 17:35:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Should i invite her over for a night of fun? She has been secretly admiring us both. I am not bi but dont mind watching. So should i invite her over? lets see what can of worms i opened. lol.

2007-10-19 17:34:58 · 14 answers · asked by alicia s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't wait until the day of my wedding.
I can't wait until I get my first house.
I can't wait until I can watch my child grow up.
I can't wait to be a cool mom.
I can't wait to be a grandma who does crafts with their grand babies.
I can't wait until I get to be old so I can reflect on my life.

am I the only one who feels like your much older than you really are?
I feel as if I am 20 years old traped in a 13 years body.
I want to be able to live a life on my own.
So for now I am waiting to be grown up.
Does anyone els feel the same way?

2007-10-19 17:34:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

okay so~

i just got a new boyfriend and we have never said more than a sentence too eachother but we really like eachother. he is soo shy!! normally i can get a boy wrapped around my finger in 2 minutes and open up to me but we have this awkwardness with eachother its soo strange! usually im never shy around guys but its hard for me to even look at him. i mean i really like him ive never had this problem before with guys i like! help? and also----

what can i do to get my charm to work on him? (dont mean to sound kinda self centered :( )

2007-10-19 17:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. Super hot chick, she's average fun, but you don't like hangin out with her that much, your boys are funner

2. Average looking chick, but you absolutely love
'hangin out" with her, she's fun

2007-10-19 17:32:36 · 1 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

is your relationship perfect?

is there such thing as a perfect relationship? and if not, why are you still in the relationship if there are things that aren't right?

my bf lied to me...so i ended it. but now i'm thinking "well theres no such thing as a perfect relationship...maybe lies are ok in a relationship?"

2007-10-19 17:25:38 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ladies, I know this sounds crazy, but I want a lower sex drive. My sex drive compared to my boyfriends is out of control. I can do it a few times a week, but him? Not so much. We haven't had sex in a month, and this has become the typical routine. Sex once every 4 or 5 weeks.
Generally after one session I'm set for a few days, but then I want it again, and when I don't get it I want it ALL the time. I hate having to try all the time, and I'm usually met with a "no." But my boyfriend means more to me than sex, so I want to know how I can lower my sex drive?

2007-10-19 17:24:45 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm not complaining but just wondering why. I'm a sophomore in college this year and guys have been starting to ask me out and want to hang out with me. I haven't done anything with my looks, i look pretty much the same. I go out about the same amount. I don't really know what it is.

In High school I only had one guy intreasted in me the whole four years. And last year I only had a handful of guys. But so far this year I've had more guys approach me than High school and last year combine.

why??

2007-10-19 17:23:13 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 17:22:14 · 21 answers · asked by kemi 1 in Friends

Due to my extreme shyness, I have managed to make it into my mid-30s and still remain a Virgin. Am I dead in the water? Is lack of experience a major negative for an adult male?

2007-10-19 17:19:39 · 30 answers · asked by Sirius70 5 in Singles & Dating

There's that old saying "once a cheater, always a cheater" which I totally disagree with. I've cheated before, but I don't cheat anymore, for personal reasons. This question is not to find out who thinks this is true or false....this is for people who have cheated before or God forbid, cheating now.. Do you think this is something you will do all your life or when you feel it's time are you willing to make a change?

2007-10-19 17:18:48 · 33 answers · asked by Tnisha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like light colors. My Fiance doesn't care but doesn't want to rest his head on butterflies or take a shower behind Paris. So how do I make our home more comfy to live in? He doesn't care to decorate he just wants to add that he doesn't want to live in a girly palce, which I am more than willing to compromise but how? What colors do you guys think are good to make both parties satisfied? What designs for walls and tables do you think is a compromise?

2007-10-19 17:18:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She did it before we married, but now she does it constantly, and tells me to get used to it, I did it before we got married, and I am not changing. And she wonders why I don't feel attracted as I used to be

2007-10-19 17:12:40 · 42 answers · asked by PJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Its more complicated than the title states really...

We dated for 3 years, lived together for 2. We broke up 3 months ago, when I was 9 months pregnant because he wanted her to be put up for adoption, and I refused. We are still close, and have only regained our closeness after our daughters birth, he worships the ground she walks on, and curses the fact that he ever asked me to give her up. We are now just "friends". He asks me to stay over his place at least three times a week with our daughter, mind you, its only DURING the week. the weekends he still spends at the bar and partying with friends. When we do get together, theres always something in it for him, whether it be getting a ride to work (he doesnt have a car!) or getting a ride to do errands etc. Basically, he gets the benefits of a relationship with me (sleepign NEXT to me, but no...we don't "fool around" at all anymore) without the title or commitment.

2007-10-19 17:12:27 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Why do the majority of people buy their dress from David's Bridal? I see people on here all the time saying 'I bought my dress from davids' or 'this is my dress' with a link to davids bridal. I have seen the site and the dresses all look pretty standard, that is pretty but not wow! Why is it so popular?

2007-10-19 17:05:20 · 21 answers · asked by Stiffler 6 in Weddings

Ok this question if from my friend whose a 21 year old GUY:

wat should I do..... am having a party and I acedentially invited the two girls I am currently talking to, am really intrested in both of them and I have no idea wat to do.... how should I come across talking to both without disrespecting any of them???????

2007-10-19 17:04:52 · 16 answers · asked by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 in Singles & Dating

Just telling you guys I'm not wanting to end my life. Anyway I'm a first LT of the US Marines stationed in Iraq and was expecting to go home in 4 days. Guess what my Colonel gave me some bad news and says that my squadron has to stay in this hell hole for 6 more months. If that wasn't bad enough about a week ago while were on patrol I told my brother to scout an area and he gets snipered and dies. I was suppose to attend his funeral when I get back but then can't because of this. I have a beautiful 4 year old daughter who I haven't seen about a year and a beautiful wife. I haven't told them yet but will soon. This kinda sucks big time. I actually cried.

2007-10-19 17:04:03 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce