okay so~
i just got a new boyfriend and we have never said more than a sentence too eachother but we really like eachother. he is soo shy!! normally i can get a boy wrapped around my finger in 2 minutes and open up to me but we have this awkwardness with eachother its soo strange! usually im never shy around guys but its hard for me to even look at him. i mean i really like him ive never had this problem before with guys i like! help? and also----
what can i do to get my charm to work on him? (dont mean to sound kinda self centered :( )
2007-10-19 17:34:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
HAHA, that's just oo cute. just give it some time. try to relax around him a little more.
2007-10-19 17:37:37 · answer #1 · answered by ♥dealt with love♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness!! This is exactly what I went through with my boyfriend when we met 6 months ago. Start asking him questions about himself. That in itself will let him know that you're really interested in getting to know him as well as sparking a conversation. Most likely he'll ask you to respond to most of the same questions. I've never been happier and our communication is so good that we rarely ever watch TV nore listen to music.
2007-10-19 17:41:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest with yourself, if you really don't know him all that well then you really can't like him too much either.
try to spend more time alone with him, and be as casual as possible to make him feel comfortable. sounds like you'll have to set up the first couple of dates yourself but just keep talking and asking him questions to get him to open up.
2007-10-19 17:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by Ann T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um well if you havent said much to each other nad it already isnt working out then sry to say but i dont think he is for you? find someone to fit your personality
2007-10-19 17:38:08 · answer #4 · answered by Taylor G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say "come here" grab him b the shirt and kiss em
2007-10-19 17:38:17 · answer #5 · answered by Diggin' In The Crates 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be you.obviously that is what he likes his shyness will wear off eventually and all will be good
2007-10-19 17:37:17 · answer #6 · answered by luchi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiss him quick
2007-10-19 17:37:02 · answer #7 · answered by Fred Flintstone 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest about your observations. watch what you say to him. i mean , think before you speak.
2007-10-19 17:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by Apprentice Ghost 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a little bit nervous. give him time he will warm up to you.
2007-10-19 17:42:02 · answer #9 · answered by Kevin M 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋