Ladies, I know this sounds crazy, but I want a lower sex drive. My sex drive compared to my boyfriends is out of control. I can do it a few times a week, but him? Not so much. We haven't had sex in a month, and this has become the typical routine. Sex once every 4 or 5 weeks.
Generally after one session I'm set for a few days, but then I want it again, and when I don't get it I want it ALL the time. I hate having to try all the time, and I'm usually met with a "no." But my boyfriend means more to me than sex, so I want to know how I can lower my sex drive?
2007-10-19 17:24:45 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay, let me specify. I have a vibrator. I have more than one. I don't care about that. I'm sorry, but a vibrator just doesn't do it anymore. I want the REAL thing, and I want real answers.
2007-10-19 17:29:50 · update #1
keep busy and exercise like crazy!! If you exercise everyday, you wont have the energy to have sex. But your sex drive is not out of control! Every few days is a healthy amount.
The exercising actually may increase your sex drive, so you are going to have to constantly improve and work harder. You will get a great body out of it and when you do have sex, you will feel it way more and you will feel way more sexier!
2007-10-19 17:29:27 · answer #1 · answered by Mike G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First things first. Remove the vibrator. Sex toys are not the solotion to this predicament. Then, while he's watching t.v. or something, slip into some sexy laugire, and get him on the horny side. Do this when your sex drive is going wild.
2007-10-19 17:33:58 · answer #2 · answered by Ali W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is this guy, some kind of nut?
Put some sex zip in his drink.;
Don't get mad=get even.
If he can't take care of your sex needs now, he will be on AARP by the time he is 30.
Get him a cane and a walker for Christmas.
Call Scooter chair and have them deliver one to his home.
2007-10-19 17:42:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a health sex drive, but, as it is with most relationships your drive does not equal your partners. So you must decide if this will affect your relationship down the road.
I doubt that you can lower your sex drive. You can, however, broaden your interests and get excited about new and different things.
2007-10-19 17:33:45 · answer #4 · answered by earlofsnoh 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, he needs his amped up!!! Slip a little viagra in his drink!! What guy says no!?! Once a month? You're not serious! Is it possible that something is actually wrong with him like erectile dysfunction or maybe he's just not into girls? It really is a problem with him and NOT with you! I have to have sex 3-4 times a week myself and my boyfriend lives 9 hours away (think phone sex and masturbation, trust me, it works!). You really need to talk to him about this, it really is a problem!
2007-10-19 17:33:45 · answer #5 · answered by curiousjeunefille 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Very interesting. Maybe get an adult toy and take care of yourself when you want it and he doesn't. Perhaps try doing it in front of him, maybe it will get him all turned on. Seduce him instead of settling for less. I'm sure you can get his sex drive up even with yours, it just takes a little work and willingness to play with it. Good luck!
2007-10-19 17:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by ShaunaMae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh god, looks like me in all of my relationships. i've got in no way met a guy who ought to maintain up with my intercourse force. in cases like this, the greater stress you positioned on him to have intercourse, the greater in all probability it relatively is which you will no longer get any. once you combine intercourse & criminal duty then it loses its luster. attempt spicing issues as much as maintain him on an identical web site! artwork that intercourse force female! :) marvel him while he gets homestead from artwork - bare!! or purchase something appropriate to strut around in. length 6 or length 10 i'm constructive you're nonetheless captivating - purely with some greater curves!!! flaunt it chicky! a large number of the time i would not desire to stress my guy to have intercourse, so i would not even enable him be attentive to i wanted it. then while no longer something could ensue i could get annoyed... the concern there grew to become into i ought to have made the flow!! discover out what he likes and choose for it! good success female! bear in mind: you're surprising!
2016-10-07 06:30:49 · answer #7 · answered by devoti 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would think finding out why he isn't in the mood, would be the place to start. There is probably something going on inside his head.
2007-10-19 17:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by timothy n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go out with me giggedy giggedy OH!!! lol kidding
u watched blades of glory?? lol im thinking sex addiction might be an actual disease now rotfl
anyway i think there are pills u can take to surpress your libido
or u can play dressup ; )
2007-10-19 17:28:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u said it not only sex in your relationship but i think it is a good idea to get a good hobby to keep your mind off of it perhaps reading will help
2007-10-19 17:32:16 · answer #10 · answered by redprincess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋