Ok this question if from my friend whose a 21 year old GUY:
wat should I do..... am having a party and I acedentially invited the two girls I am currently talking to, am really intrested in both of them and I have no idea wat to do.... how should I come across talking to both without disrespecting any of them???????
2007-10-19 17:04:52 · 16 answers · asked by ▀▄▀▄▀ кαяίs ▄▀▄▀▄ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wat if they both want to have alone time with me
2007-10-19 17:14:31 · update #1
since I do have a pool right now wat do i do if tehy both want to press up against me while everyone is in the pool and try not to be mean to either one of them..?????
2007-10-19 17:22:37 · update #2
He should introduce them to each other. As long as he is hoenst with them both, I don't see why he should have any reason to worry.
Unless, of course, he is sleeping with them both. Then a Jack Tripper-like adventure should ensue... but even so, he will probably live through it.
2007-10-19 17:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, this is easy, BE nice to Everyone!! Not just those two if you have to show feened intrest in everyone ( ya know be overly nice, but "equaly) I If they are both there at the same time you are ( as in the same area) pretend to be distracted with the "punch" or whatever distraction, When you need one on one time, have a friend or buddy lure one of them away, like, have your friend, say," oh have you seen his pool"? Or " Hey, what classes are you taking,"? and then lead her off to the kitchen, be creative! Maybe even have a truth or dare, where two people have to go in the closet together for like up to 5 minutes, take each one in, and yep, u might have to take another in not to look suspicoius! Im sure that by the end of the party, you will have decided on whom you like the most, then just don't worry about the other one, hook her up with one of your friends.
2007-10-19 17:38:52 · answer #2 · answered by leah j 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say you've put yourself in a tight corner and the only way out is cancel the night altogether. Then make another date with the one you want to. But I'd wait at least a week after so it doesn't look suspicious. Good Luck!!
2007-10-19 17:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by Zoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm.. i'd say just casually socialize with people at the party and make sure you can move around to see a lot of your friends, so its not obvious that you're going back and forth between the 2 girls.
oh, and from my past experiences, definitely dont do anything drastic with either of them with the other one in the room. and do your best to (nonchalantly) make sure they're on opposite sides of the room.
have fun :)
2007-10-19 17:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Jamie R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know if I was dating a guy that had that problem with me and another girl I'd want him to tell me the truth. Tell them both that he hasn't decided what to do and he wants to spend time with both of them so he can decide. Good Luck!!! and I hope my answer helped some.
2007-10-19 17:09:16 · answer #5 · answered by Luthien 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Primarily be a host and do not start making out with either girl at the party .
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2007-10-19 17:07:50 · answer #6 · answered by kate 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
act like a busy host...apologize to both of them that you can't be around them as much, but don't ignore them or try to keep them apart from each other. just be cordial and nice like you always are to them, but keep yourself busy so that it won't bother them that you aren't always glued to their sides. then, cut your losses on not moving any closer to one of them and invite the one you like the most to your next party. who knows, you might learn something you don't like about one of them there, and that could be helpful in your final decision.
2007-10-19 17:09:16 · answer #7 · answered by Stephanie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're just going to have to deal with it, especially if he isn't dating one or the other exclusively.
By the way, he's lying, it wasn't any accident he invited them both.
Good luck
2007-10-19 17:09:12 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well... pick the one you truely like and have fun with her. Sure the other girl will be hurt but she will eventually get over it and you will still have a good time and you won't regret not doing anything.
2007-10-19 17:09:50 · answer #9 · answered by awesomegymnast13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just casually talk to them, not like anythings going on.
GOOD LUCK
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2007-10-19 17:08:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋