So about a month ago this guy tells me that he likes me, and at first I was unsure if I liked him back, but i told him that I did and that I was attracted to him. Since then we have cuddled a few times because we live in the same dorm I go down there sometimes, but most times he never makes an effort to communicate with me during the week, and on the weekend he always wants to chill with me in his dorm, but don't get me wrong he isn't like looking for sex, he is a virgin and he has never had a g/f So im just wondering what's up...what exactly do you guys think is going on? If he likes me then why does he not want to spend more time with me or talk?
2007-10-19 17:39:37 · 6 answers · asked by ru4reel412 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Might be a good idea to just ask him. It is direct, cuts out the possibility of guess work, gives you an answer much sooner than wondering. I am sure that he will give you an answer and then you have good information to work with, or you could take direct advise from this forum and be wrong as the possibility increases with those that do not know either of you. It is not a guy or gal thing, it is a you and I thing and the best way to find out is to ask, face to face.
2007-10-19 17:47:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your cuddling, and he's a virgin, He's probably taking care of his own business after you leave. If you get my point! It's difficult to communicate with a girl when your uncomfortable around them! Sexually or other wise!
2007-10-19 17:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by david 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is a little scared of rejection. try and help him out a little b/c he is probably just a little shy and is not sure how to take the relationship to the next level.
2007-10-19 17:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by jbob30 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he really really likes you. Hes gonna take it slow because he doesnt want to loose you
2007-10-19 17:49:28 · answer #4 · answered by darkman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is a little shy you said he still virgin so he might not know how to react
2007-10-19 17:44:40 · answer #5 · answered by Muscles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is his first time in a relationship..just be understanding with him and i think you two will work out..
2007-10-19 17:47:25 · answer #6 · answered by jai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋