Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

2007-10-19 13:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering what everyone opinion was on watching porn. Do you condiser it wrong to watch or do you feel it's not really a big deal? I'm 18, and i was curious about it so iw atched a video and now i can't stop watching porn. I actually enjoy it, it turns me on. But, one part of me feels like it's wrong and the other i feel that it is a natural thing to watch. I'm not sure how to feel. What should i do, or how should i feel about this?
Thanks in advance!

2007-10-19 13:35:34 · 19 answers · asked by Brookie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 13:34:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 13:27:59 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And no, I am not one of the Osmonds, in case you were wondering.
She's not so hideous that should cause him to call her a dog. Sure, she scratches her self in public, but I don't think it should matter...we made out a few times and now I'm itchy all over. Should I continue to see her?

2007-10-19 13:23:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About 8 days ago, I took my midterm exam. Well I got the results of my exam and I got a freakn B. My gf is the one to blame for my failure on that midterm. I should have made an A, but god she would not leave me alone when I was studying. Anyways I approached her about how she needs to leave me alone next time or just leave me altogether because I was tired of her crap. Well she told me that it wasn't her fault. What the hell is she talking about. I told her that she knew what she did and I explained it to her dumb self but she didn't see my point. Should I just cut my losses now and dump this idiot and liar. .

2007-10-19 13:23:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My divorce from my wife (or may as well be her damn interfering mother) has been finalized.

Should I go and party, get depressed, or just go to bed and forget about it? There's a lot of anger about the mistreatment I've endured at the hands of her family (and her supporting their abuses, not just against me but the kids too) - but I still love her also.

What do you folks reckon?

2007-10-19 13:22:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is there a such thing as loving someone to much?

2007-10-19 13:21:11 · 32 answers · asked by Lee23Lee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-10-19 13:18:15 · 7 answers · asked by Marc S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

especially me and my mother, she believes we are insulting her when we say totally harmless things, and she insults us (you are SO stupid, you think you are SO great, etc.) She does not live with us and we are thinking of asking her not to come over anymore. Would that make matters worse?

2007-10-19 13:17:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im married for almost 2 yrs.. and i still dont get along with my husband, we always fight for small crap because i cant understand him and he dont understand me either.. is divorce is an answer?

2007-10-19 13:16:49 · 27 answers · asked by not_so_sure 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Invitation says ..
At Brides Request
any food that can be brought will be greatly appreciated.this will be a Pot Luck event.Upon R.S.V.P please let us know what you would bring.
Thank you so much!

2007-10-19 13:16:26 · 27 answers · asked by Carey H 1 in Weddings

me and my gf broke up after a year n a couple of days
she still talks to me and says that she still loves me and gives me those heart and kiss faces and tells me she wants to hold me and stuff
but i just want to be friends with her b/c i dont want to be with someone thats hurt me 13 times and cheated more than 3 times
i think if i stay friends with her though it'll be harder to get over her
idk what to say to her or do

2007-10-19 13:14:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Spanish teacher is really hot. Her name is Ms Esperanza. I've been trying to woo her for a while, but she keeps resisting me. Last week at an afterschool study session, w made out for like two seconds and she said "No. I can't do this." But I know she wants me. How can I get her to give up the box? have any of you guys wooed teachers before? I've tried apples already, so don't mention it. I'd like for her to spank me with a ruler for "not doing my homework". How do I bring this up also. Please help me.

2007-10-19 13:14:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will summarise the following:
> this girl i like isn't sexually attracted to me but when i talked to her, she said she doesnt look for looks in a guy.
> she requested that I turn up to her birthday (i was the only guy she told in private) cos i usually dont like going to parties where she is.
> she invited me to this dance thing last year so I tagged along. Then she made me go to her performance in a concert......WHY?
> she helps me with my homework and assignments which is great.
> I think she has a boyfriend cos he hangs around at her place and they flirt but she kinda likes to talk to loadsa other guys too. I asked her about her boyfr and she denied having one.
> She invited me to meet her friends and always cracks jokes with me. Sits next to me in labs for some strange reason......I dunno whats happening?
> We eat food together now........but I still think she has a boyfriend. I dunno now.

Should I make my move or is it only going to be friendship?

2007-10-19 13:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by peanuts for the lady 1 in Singles & Dating

ok! we jost started our first year of hs and my friend has gotten engaged! i suppose i approve of the guy but the subject makes me cry a lot! shes one of those people that will make you cry with one look at them ! lets just say she has had a lot of bfs and i dont want her to get hurt either but ever since that fateful day she has been distant! she has faced scrutiny from her peers and mine for that matter and im worried! shje cried so much over that guy last year and now she cries when hes gone for more than a couple of hours! i dont know if im jealous or what!?! bt this is ridiculous ! i need help cuz i love her but i also want her to be safe and happy

2007-10-19 13:10:20 · 6 answers · asked by AMF 2 in Friends

my husband saves EVERYTHING and wont listen to me about it he brings home UGLY chairs ect ect we are moving this weekend to a smaller place thank god and it driving him CRAZY because he will have to throw some stuff out! my question is the new living room will fit our nice furniture but he wants to squeeze his UGLY BROWN DIRTY soafa behind the other ones that are white and its driving me INSANE now my small living room is going to look like a DUMP anyone have to deal with husbands like this?

2007-10-19 13:07:36 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 13:06:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got into a debate with my mom on this.

She says that if a man is willing to spent $1000 on a ring for you, it means he's really committed and your marriage is likely to last longer.

I'm not a materialistic person, so I could care less how much a man spends on my ring.
I'd take a pretty $20 zirconium ring over a tiny $900 diamond any day.

Plus, I don't think it has any relation to the strength of your marriage.

In fact, if 2 people can love each other despite the price of the ring, wouldn't their love be STRONGER sine it's not based on material wealth?

What do you think?

2007-10-19 13:04:35 · 24 answers · asked by Kar 3 in Marriage & Divorce

what do you like best in girls?
like looks, way they act..? like what makes you want a girl, like really fall for them, as in really wanting them. and do you like the hair were its blonde on top and brown underneath?

2007-10-19 13:04:25 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 13:02:44 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well here it goes again!! i am home with the kids on a friday night and my husband went out to have a beer. well my question is why is this always my responsibility to have the kids? don't get me wrong i love being here with them but it just bothers me that he can just up and do this kind of thing. he loves going out to have a few beers with his friends!!! i resent the *ell out of it!! there is a problem and i want to hear from you! tell me what u think about this.

2007-10-19 13:02:27 · 18 answers · asked by sunshine 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am with my husband now for 21yrs but still cannot get my first love out of my mind. He left me when i went away for school for my best friend we never did it or anything just heavy petting but I still feel like if i was to see him today I will proberly have an affair with him and i sometimes find myself dreaming of making love to him. What is wrong with me helppppppp?

2007-10-19 13:01:14 · 9 answers · asked by vislander35 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need to register as soon as possible, due to my family situation.

2007-10-19 12:58:41 · 2 answers · asked by Mhac D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am desperatley trying to save my marriage! My wife is bipolar and her mother has convinced her to divorce me. I know that we can work through this. She is unable to take her medication as she is pregnant. We have a beautiful daughter as well. The problem is, we are to go to court next week (Austin, TX). I cannot pay $5000 which is the fee for representation. I may have to represent myself in which I risk losing my family. My preference is marriage counseling and/or mediation. What can I do to prevent losing my girls and wonderful wife?? I've emailed pro-bono, legal-aid, church & pastors, etc. No responses yet. Help!!

2007-10-19 12:58:03 · 2 answers · asked by cjsimmons269 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been married for four years. me and my husband we had a lot of problems that we couldnt resolve but none of us wanted the divorce. two months ago I found out he is cheating on me. He refused to leave the other woman and to try together again with counceling and all what will take to work the marriage, his excuse was that he knows I will never be able to forgive him. Right now we decided for the divorce as soon as he is baCk in the US. With all our problems in the marriage , I always felt alone and living as single since my husband was away for school most of the year. Since the separation i m thinking about getting back in the game and see if i can meet someone. I know i m not ready for a relationship but will it be bad if i date someone and then see what will happen?

2007-10-19 12:52:14 · 20 answers · asked by babe 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have made a huge mistake:(. I got to know the sweetest girl who is the fiancee of my future brother in law. I knew it right away that I wanted her to be my maid of honour even though I known her for only like 5 months.

However, I was advised that I should think about choosing my best friend instead who I known for years. Of course that made sense to me so I did ask her. But when I did, it just did not feel right...its weird. I explained to her what it meant to be a maid of honour (stagette etc) and told her its ok if she wants to wait with her answer since she is graduating around that time. Now, she is thinking about it. I know the first girl wouldn't even think about that....

How on Earth could I ask the first girl now? I was always so careful to make sure everybody is happy and now I made a huge mess. Please advise me what can I tell her now? I feel so terrible:'(I don't want to hurt either but I don't want to regret anything either.

2007-10-19 12:50:53 · 22 answers · asked by jj 1 in Weddings

Is it okay to share things with your partner e.g. how was work and asking questions like why you don't you do something about work. Here is example of his behaviour one day he asked me that he want me to do his work all the time and I was happy to help but when I ask a question relating his homework , he shouts and blames me. He shouts all the time and blames me so I just want to know if this is normal...You know whats funny that he sayz that he not himself so i just need to igornore him and if I dont like it I can find someone else so How does that works gayz...

2007-10-19 12:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by Rani 25 2 in Marriage & Divorce

to sapproach a guy if she think he is cut.... and see if he has a girlfriend or does guys take that as despration

2007-10-19 12:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

recently i started uni and i made friends with one of my neighbours.. we got along so well, like a house on fire and though we havent known each other for long, it feels like i've known him for a really long time..

we've recently spent nights together watching films and just talking&he always teases/winds me up.. and the other night we watched a film and it finished&we just ended up cuddling each other.. and nothing happened BUT just cuddles&intimacy.. &i asked him how comes he was being so intimate and he never answered, he just said "mmmm"..&then when i tried2go, he kept saying "okay, just 5 more minutes please.. "

what does this mean..?!

. [x] .

2007-10-19 12:47:45 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating