2007-10-19 13:36:56 · 16 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I caught her. The next day I was on the phone finding an apartment. I moved out at the end of the month.
Earlier in my life I made two clean breaks as well - not because I was cheated on (at least not that I know.) It was very difficult and, in at least one case my heart still aches when I think about it. But I knew if we tried to be friends it would be torture for me - so I made a decision to cut all ties and not look back. If you think you're strong enough to do that - then I would suggest it - you'll get over it quicker - things will be less complicated - but the first few weeks or months you may feel like you're in shock - like someone dropped you in an ice filled lake on a 85 degree F day. I wouldn't fault anyone who can not make that type of break - everyone is different in what they can handle.
Good luck.
2007-10-19 13:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by ron9baseball 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, the fact is, it never feels good to be cheated on. It hurts and it sucks and your first instinct is to leave the loser and never look back. But then you have to remember, it's human nature. Unfortunately, none of us are perfect. It's better to try to work things out again and not let some flaw distract you from a truly loving relationship. Now, if you are never cool with this (like the majority of people in the world) type of behavior, let them know. If they continue, it's obviously not a loving relationship and the respect level is in the negative. That's when you should drop the loser and move on.
2007-10-19 13:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by AshP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The "once a cheater, always a cheater" is definitely not true!! Don't let anyone tell you that. I have cheated once before on an ex and NEVER did it again and never will (I am happily married now) However, if you are not married to this person who cheated on you, then yes, definitely run now. If someone does not value you and respect you enough to at least break up with you first before hooking up with someone else, then they aren't worth your time. Good luck!!!
2007-10-19 13:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
this would possibly not be what you want to take heed to yet he has no longer forgiven you. Your tried suicide has guilted him into staying and featuring you with all those circumstances is a thank you to make him sense somewhat greater effective. besides the incontrovertible fact that, that is barely temporary. this might proceed to devour him alive. How do i understand? properly, i became into cheated on through my ex besides and that i could no longer handle the reality that she willingly gave herself to a diverse guy. It devastated me to the factor of melancholy. permit me ask you a query. in case you felt so undesirable which you may attempt suicide, then why did you cheat interior the 1st place? think of approximately it. in case you had no longer been caught, you may nonetheless be doing it. that is egocentric which you would be able to assume this guy to stay with you. in spite of if he does, no quantity of counseling will ever erase the painful innovations. this might continually be interior the back of his innovations and could maximum probable make him insecure which you will do it returned. BTW: dishonest isn't any reason to be abused. Your marriage became into over the 2nd you cheated and he hit you. the perfect element to do may well be to permit him circulate, circulate to counseling to your guilt and study from this journey.
2016-12-29 18:53:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i stayed and i told him how i felt and what was on my mind. I told him if he ever cheats again he better hope she wants him cause i wont cause i cant put up with that sh*t.. & it's worked cause he hasnt cheated and he told me he's scared to lose me so we are more open and even talked about it and he said since i said that he will never cheat cause he really knows if he messes up im gone
2007-10-19 13:48:29 · answer #5 · answered by Rayray 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I stayed in a relationship for 11 years like that and then finally I split .Too much stress.
2007-10-19 13:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by witchfromoz2003 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i stayed and we are trying to work it out we'll see how that goes but every other relationship i tried to stay it just happened again they cheated.
2007-10-19 13:41:36 · answer #7 · answered by maybeeoneday 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I stayed, but he ended up asking to break up anyway, because he fell in love with the girl he was cheating with.
2007-10-19 13:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Bellicosa 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I stayed, but found that I couldn't bring myself to trust him anymore, so then I bailed.
2007-10-19 13:52:48 · answer #9 · answered by Lunachit 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater always a cheater....what makes you think the person will all of the sudden stop? Think about it. Run....Run fast!
2007-10-19 13:39:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋