Is it okay to share things with your partner e.g. how was work and asking questions like why you don't you do something about work. Here is example of his behaviour one day he asked me that he want me to do his work all the time and I was happy to help but when I ask a question relating his homework , he shouts and blames me. He shouts all the time and blames me so I just want to know if this is normal...You know whats funny that he sayz that he not himself so i just need to igornore him and if I dont like it I can find someone else so How does that works gayz...
2007-10-19 12:48:52 · 13 answers · asked by Rani 25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, that's not normal-but you don't sound particularly mature which probably doesn't help.
2007-10-20 08:54:26 · answer #1 · answered by Very happily married. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course it is normal to ask about work etc but it is not normal for him to shout at you and blame you. I sounds like he is stressed and knows that and that is why he is telling you to ignore him. has there been a change in his mood recently? is he depressed? has he always been like this? - if so i would consider getting out of this relationship. Good luck
2007-10-20 03:22:52 · answer #2 · answered by cottontail 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's having an affair. Typical cheater's behaviour to create an argument, blame you generally, and then say he is not himself and you can find someone else.
2007-10-19 22:13:22 · answer #3 · answered by Sun is Shining ❂ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this your husband or boyfriend? It sounds like he has the potential to be verbally abusive, and who knows what else. Nobody has the right to yell at you about anything. Even your inability to use the spell check.
Do not be with him if you want him to change.
Good luck.
2007-10-19 19:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why is he shouting at you when you are trying to help him? When he says if you don't like it find someone else next time...say ok I will.
2007-10-19 20:02:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure what you are asking but if the two of you are not married yet and you are already having problems like this then you might want to reconsider your relationship.
Sounds like insecurity.
2007-10-19 19:58:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like a blamer who blames others for his own problems. if he is telling u if u don't like it go elsewhere, it usually means he is not going to change, and what your seeing is the true him. anyone who loves their mate would not feel this way unless he just didn't care one way or the other. he sounds like a man who can't deal with his problems.
2007-10-19 19:57:10 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a typical man. Selfish, inconsiderate, and thoughtless. You must treat him the same way he treats you, or leave him in the dust ,or stay and suffer all your life!
2007-10-19 19:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by sandra b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you are 25? You sound like 15 and I cannot understand anything what you are saying.
2007-10-19 19:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by terliuke 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
welll you should tell him to do his own **** he isnt no baby he has hands
and you shouldnt let him yell at you because if he does he will probably think it is alright than he will do it more and more often until one day he will do something about it and loose his anger
2007-10-19 19:53:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋