I will summarise the following:
> this girl i like isn't sexually attracted to me but when i talked to her, she said she doesnt look for looks in a guy.
> she requested that I turn up to her birthday (i was the only guy she told in private) cos i usually dont like going to parties where she is.
> she invited me to this dance thing last year so I tagged along. Then she made me go to her performance in a concert......WHY?
> she helps me with my homework and assignments which is great.
> I think she has a boyfriend cos he hangs around at her place and they flirt but she kinda likes to talk to loadsa other guys too. I asked her about her boyfr and she denied having one.
> She invited me to meet her friends and always cracks jokes with me. Sits next to me in labs for some strange reason......I dunno whats happening?
> We eat food together now........but I still think she has a boyfriend. I dunno now.
Should I make my move or is it only going to be friendship?
2007-10-19 13:12:41 · 7 answers · asked by peanuts for the lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Always let the female make the first move. They like to do the choosing anyway. Just slide along. Hey, you're grades will be good with all that help. How can you lose? Hang in there.
2007-10-19 13:18:19 · answer #1 · answered by Irish 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love is great, isn't it? Caution: don't get into a relationship if you don't think the other person can give you back the love you have for them. Friends should not date or marry If however you are wondering if your more than friends the ball is in your court. Your job is to ask the big question first to yourself. Do you love her and what does that mean to you. If you can't answer that question don't bother with dating anyone yet.
Maybe your asking the wrong question here. Start out with "what is love and what is a friendship?". I experienced making that mistake in life, i don't want to mix the two, life-long friendships are rich and wonderful but if you marry your friend you may be find yourself struggling in relationships.
When you find some one that is a lover you both should know the reason why and have the same passion for eachother.
Good Luck!
2007-10-19 20:25:56 · answer #2 · answered by Panda Lover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say it but it sounds like friendship. My best friend is a guy and it took me awhile to tell him I had a boyfriend when we first started hanging out. I wasn't physically attracted to him but he had the coolest personality ever and I spent a lot of time with him and wanted him to meet my friends and joke around. That just means that she is comfortable with you and has a nice time. Try to get passed the fact you like her, the friendship will work out 100x better guaranteed!
2007-10-19 20:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, she's sending you mixed signals. Although I'm going to say that she just wants to be friends. It sounds to me like she's just a girl that is really comfortable around guys.
2007-10-19 20:19:26 · answer #4 · answered by howlermonkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
friendship....just cuz its a girl doesnt make it any different...it MITE develop into something more later in the yrs though
2007-10-19 20:19:03 · answer #5 · answered by Heaven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
both. i think she likes you, but if you refuse, she still wants to be your friend.trust me. im a girl.
2007-10-19 20:23:54 · answer #6 · answered by I scream for ice cream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think shes trying to give you the hint that she likes yooh ;)
2007-10-19 20:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋