Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

So we just broke up, but we still like eachother and tonight she is going to a dance where she could possibly grind with other people and maybe even more, i was supposed to go, but now i can't so her and i won't dance togethor, so what do i do if she does something with another guy? do i forgive her or leave her?

2007-10-19 11:39:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if ur father were to hae left you b4 u were even born would you want to meet him? what would you do if u did?
mine left. i kinda wanna meet him, at least learn his name and what he looks like, and if nothing else spit in his face and cuss him out maybe.... what would you do/want to do? At what age do u think you would want to be when u do?

2007-10-19 11:32:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My ex, broke up with me throug an email, and this week was horrible, its possible to survive... What u need to do to live again.

2007-10-19 11:25:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend homeboy asked him have i cooked for him yet and i dont know what this means....what does this mean???...and no im sure it doesnt mean actually cooking becuz my bf..said "not yet" and he was smiling.

2007-10-19 11:23:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who has always been just a friend....and will always be just a friend.....nothing sexual going on.

2007-10-19 11:19:32 · 14 answers · asked by daljack -a girl 7 in Singles & Dating

So I like this boy and I sit by him in several classes and I always talk to him and give him hints that I like him, but I don't think he realizes. How can I get him to take a freaking hint?

2007-10-19 11:18:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know that he cannot afford to spend a whole lot of money on a ring. I don't want a huge massively expensive ring. He thinks I am just saying that to be nice. I think that any more than .5 carat is way more than enough. He asks me at the jewlery counter which one I like----- what do I do?

2007-10-19 11:16:29 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

We live with my fiance's mom with our new born son. We are trying to catch up on bills before we get our own place. I dont work right now because I am breast feeding for 6 months then I will go back. When I go back the agreement is that his mom will watch our son along with his sisters son. He is a little over a year old. The thing is that she doesnt actually watch him. He is always getting hurt and today we had to take him to the ER because he fell down our whole flight of stairs. Luckly he isnt hurt too bad. We will have our son in his bouncie seat and when she isnt paying attention our nephew will come up and try and hit him in the head or pull his legs. She is much more concerned with cleaning the house then watching the boy. I am literally terrified to leave our baby with her especially since she cant even pay attention to the one she is already watching. The thing is, since my fiance has heard horror stories about day care he doesnt want our son going there.

2007-10-19 11:16:02 · 8 answers · asked by angel l 3 in Family

this person asking this question and saying that the are 12 and still a virgin and everyone in there class isnt are lying...if you look at there other questions then you would know that they are in college or something like that so please dont feal sorry for this liar and i removed my heartfelt coment frome his sick question

2007-10-19 11:12:56 · 1 answers · asked by leah 3 in Family

My hubbie and I just moved from my Florida where my famuly leave and we are in 12 hours away. My family want to spend the holidays with is and my hubbie got mad at me due to that he wants to spend it alone with me. What should I do, if I want to spend with both of them.

2007-10-19 11:11:29 · 12 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1 in Weddings

I'm 15, my boyfriend's 18 and has recently gone to uni. We text quite a bit, and talk over the phone, and he comes back every few weeks but our relationship has obviously changed.. and I just wondered, has anyone else tried long distance relationships and can they work? Are they worth the loneliness in between?

2007-10-19 11:10:33 · 24 answers · asked by Nancy 2 in Singles & Dating

She came over at noon and talked to me about her engagement and then things got odd when i offered her some wine. I asked my co-worker what i should do, he didnt give me much of an answer, maybe someone can tell me what to do?
I love my sister, how do i make this go away, so she wouldnt remember it. Is it against the law? Is it a sin? She left right after, i tried to call; I wanted to tell Dave, my brother in law to be, but hes my best friend. Someone help me.

2007-10-19 11:05:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been really good friends with her. We talk all the time and are pretty close. Sometimes i feel like asking her sexual question, about masturbation and virginity.. Kinda getting dirty with her.. I personally think she would like it just as much as me, because sometimes when we talk you can kinda see it... I was wondering if I should and if it would make our relationship as friends stronger... What do you think i should do? BTW, Im 13 and so is she.

2007-10-19 11:01:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

boys at my school they talk about things but i know it is not about girls? what is up with that?

2007-10-19 10:57:02 · 6 answers · asked by Mona L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so there is this guy at my school and he totally flirts with a crap load of girls. at homecomming i rode on a float with him and he held my hand and let me lean agianst hi and then at the game he kissed me on the cheek twice. and he kept putting his arm around me. and now at school he plays with my hair all the time and hugs me.

but he likes to flirt with alot of girls and do some other *things* (if you catch my drift.)

so im kinda confused.
what do you think?

2007-10-19 10:55:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been married to her indoors for 6 years and though she is no angel she cooks,cleans,does errands and all the other normal women stuff like picking up the kids picking up beer for when its raining cutting the grass etc.I do love her..but she has this one really annoying habit of nagging me of my one slip up(I had a thing with her mate) all she does is say things like where have you been or whats that on your collar.yak.yak.yak come to think of it she has always been that way even when me and her sister were at it like rabbits and she never knew..she nagged anyway..she says once a cheater always a cheater Im so fed up with it I just might as well move in with the little minx out of accounts Ive been having sex with at lunch break..why do they make us do these things? Im not proud of what Ive done but feel I am given no choice as Im starved of affection and am dismayed at how easily it is to get it on with any women and they have the nerve to say all men are b'stards

2007-10-19 10:48:12 · 52 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok so there's this guy that i liked last year and i told my friends to tell him i like him so they told him he didn't care too much so i got mad so then for the rest of the year he just keeps staring at me all the time for some really weird reason. so summer past and 7th grade started. he stared at me 24/7 whenever i was around him. but the thing is is that now he has an 8th grade girlfriend and he still does that. (o and by the way his new girlfriend is really ugly!) do u think he likes me a little or no? and no rude answers please!

2007-10-19 10:45:36 · 7 answers · asked by xxmy_chem roxx_14 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been married for 5 years. We have had a lot of plroblems in our marriage, and i feel unloved an appriciated a lot.

Our new neighbors introduced themselves to me while my husband was at work, a few weeks ago. Their marraige is pretty much the same as ours. The husband feels neglected and unloved alot. Him and i talked for hours last week, and we have a lot in common. I feel like we really connected. I even get butterflies in my stomach around him, like a little girl with a crush. He even admitted that he wished we would have meet before any of us got married.

I am starting to have feelings for this man, and he is having feelings for me as well. Both of our spouses work out of town, and him and i are home at the same time. We hang out alot and watch movies. I feel so comfortable with him. But i feel guilty that we have feelings for eachother.

What do i do? Do i stop being friends with him, confront my feelings, tell my husband, or what? I am serious...

2007-10-19 10:45:22 · 32 answers · asked by mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alot of people tell me that im to young to be with him. Even though we have been going out for 9 months. whats your thoughts on this?

2007-10-19 10:45:09 · 46 answers · asked by lyssa c 1 in Singles & Dating

If my husband said that he was going to Denver after his ex becasue she has suddenly decided she wants to be a mother to the 2 kids I have raised for the past 5 years, without asking what I feel, do you think I should be upset? I know she was a meth head and she is pg with another man's baby but I can't help feeling upset that he would spend our time and money to go after her when I seriously don't think she will stick around anyhow. She has never contributed a dime to these kids for support, never sent a birthday or Christmas present or has not been consistent in calling them.She has pulled this several times over the years, she came home, his family loaded her up with money, he gave her a car and each time it was back to where she came from. I am tired of seeing these kids hope only to be hurt. And dad having such hope for her to be a mother to them when I see these things. Do you think one more chance will be the lucky one? Oh, in all fairness she is in treatment until Decembe

2007-10-19 10:38:48 · 13 answers · asked by LaRae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WE WANT TO DUE WEDDING PROGRAMS BESIDES HAVING THE WEDDING PARTY LIST WE ALSO WANT TO LIST THE PEOPLE WHO BOUGHT US OR IS DOING THINGS FOR US. SUCH AS THE PERSON TAKING PHOTOS DOING THE VIDEO, BUYING THE CHAMPANGE, IN CHARGE OF THE APPETIERS, THE UNITY CANDLE ETC.

2007-10-19 10:38:45 · 7 answers · asked by CUTIEBUG 1 in Weddings

i keep hearing how about like some fat on there chix

or like big butts

or like big girls

dude the only girl im attracted to is skinny well excerised chicks with big boobs an thats it no fat no big no semi plump

skinny minny

minny minny thats it with some boobs on top

2007-10-19 10:37:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 10:35:06 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so I'm having sex with my manager at work, and it's a good deal. I got a raise and can pretty much do whatever without ever getting in trouble. But now this other skank I'm working with is asking people if she should try and start sleeping with him too!

I mean if she starts sleeping with him then I might lose some of the perks of being his "special friend" I don't want to share him with another coworker! Should I kick her a**??? Help please.

2007-10-19 10:30:57 · 30 answers · asked by Jane 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 10:29:35 · 45 answers · asked by cha_parralinda 1 in Marriage & Divorce

be?

2007-10-19 10:24:05 · 16 answers · asked by dccuttie75 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm holding a party in a few weeks, some of the younger members of the family are threating to get drunk, they've done this before at their sisters hen night and almost got removed from a hotel, I've got all my close friends and work collegues going and i don't want them to show me up, i feel really guilty cos they're family, but what can i do?

2007-10-19 10:21:18 · 8 answers · asked by bx_reed 2 in Family

My best friend is a newlywed. She and her husband are very happy. However, my friend has told me that she had a secret hobby that she does not tell her husband about, and it is somewhat of a sexual nature. She writes and posts online erotic stories, on an erotica site. She does not contact other readers or authors, or so she says. And she doubts her husband would be upset if she did tell him. She just enjoys keeping it to herself. She didn't tell me which site she uses or what her user name is...because she said she wouldn't feel comfortable having someone close to her read her stories. I am not sure if she should be keeping secrets so early in the marriage. Is this harmless, as she says it is? Or, is it wrong?
Thx!

2007-10-19 10:20:41 · 19 answers · asked by ~Brenda~ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

So, I'm 25 , my fiancee is 29. We've been together for 21/2 years and we're both professionals. I still live with my parents. After I announced my engagement my father got so mad that I am getting married that he barely talks to me. The rest of my family approves, but it's like a tabu to talk about my wedding at home and it's like nobody can participate in my wedding because my father doesn't approve. He still hasn't given me a good reason why. He's a very jealous guy, and I know its just that he doedn't want to let go. But he's a wall, and would NEVER listen. What should I do? This is totally ruining my wedding :(

2007-10-19 10:20:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Well there is this guy i like and we go mudden together and he invited me last night and then this morning he tells me he is taken another girl what to do pleaz help me

2007-10-19 10:19:25 · 4 answers · asked by 30 2 in Singles & Dating