She came over at noon and talked to me about her engagement and then things got odd when i offered her some wine. I asked my co-worker what i should do, he didnt give me much of an answer, maybe someone can tell me what to do?
I love my sister, how do i make this go away, so she wouldnt remember it. Is it against the law? Is it a sin? She left right after, i tried to call; I wanted to tell Dave, my brother in law to be, but hes my best friend. Someone help me.
2007-10-19 11:05:39 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, lets balance this out sir. What came over your head? Ok, maybe just maybe if you were to specify what you consider the 'odd' moments, maybe i can help you and side with you. But the fact that you're intentions were serving wine, you're a little to blame. Now, is it illegal?; Yes, A sin; No! But nowadays it might be, the Bible is a little outdated if you ask me. Now, you told a co-worker, he is going to tell someone, but no fear its better to tell someone then keep it bottled up inside. So, your sister is engaged, she's not yet married, so she is not a threat. Did you enjoy it? That would be the threat. Your brother in law knowing, it would hurt him and he would consider you and your sister a couple of freaks. Be responsible enough to keep it behind you. Call your sister, when shes available, make a time and meet, schedule, and make sure shes responsible enough to forget about it too. Thats all! Be siblings and live life well.
2007-10-19 14:34:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell Dave, it would not do anything but hurt him. If I were you, I would do one of two things - go on with your life and relationships with her and your friend as if it never happened, like it was just a momentary abberation from your normal behavior in a stressful moment that won't happen again.
The other thing you could do is just to take your sister out to luch and talk about it. There's no reason to believe that it will ever happen again, and a lot of what did happen was the wine releasing the inhibitions for both of you.
It is not unusual for people to have hidden fantasies involving being attracted to someone in their family. Until I married my husband, i occasionally had such fantasies myself. It's nothing to be ashamed of as long as its just a fantasy. I'd say the combination of her stress over her engagement, the relaxed inhibitions, her trust in you, your repressed fantasies, and your protective and desire-to-help feelings towards her spilled over into sexual behavior. Whatever you choose to do, keep this episode private between you - anybody else knowing would not be helpful to her, to you, to Dave, or to anybody.
2007-10-19 22:27:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont tell ANYONE! go seek counseling, and try to put this all behind you. dont let it ruin yr sisters new marriage...
2007-10-19 18:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good grief.
She will not forget it unless she was drunk out of her mind.
Get your mind off of your sister.
2007-10-19 18:14:02 · answer #4 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a sin and agaisnt the law and called incest. its bad
2007-10-19 20:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
seek professional help!
2007-10-19 18:11:48 · answer #6 · answered by hotass.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really had sex with your sister you are very very disturbed!
2007-10-19 18:09:25 · answer #7 · answered by looloo27 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
GOOD LUCK
GOD HELPS YOU
2007-10-19 18:57:52 · answer #8 · answered by SOCCER GIRL! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋