if ur father were to hae left you b4 u were even born would you want to meet him? what would you do if u did?
mine left. i kinda wanna meet him, at least learn his name and what he looks like, and if nothing else spit in his face and cuss him out maybe.... what would you do/want to do? At what age do u think you would want to be when u do?
2007-10-19 11:32:09 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
My father left when I was 2 no contact no nothing until this year around my b-day. I really do not want to meet him it has been 11 years and maybe I he kept in contact I would but I don't. But I think he should have at least sent a card visited even a phone call but oh well I have my mom and I love her soo much. Have a wonderful day. :^)
2007-10-19 12:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My mother left Dad and me when I was just a couple months old, so I know how that feels. I do not want to meet her or have anything to do with her. She abandoned me, she didn't love us, she was in legal trouble with drugs and prostitution. If I met her I might get violent, and I would rather just leave her out of my life since that was her choice anyway. Dad says she was bad news which he didn't discover until it was too late, but at least she gave him a great going away present.
2007-10-19 23:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course I would like to meet my father And before spiting on him listen carefully his side of the story Many of you who had been abanded as a baby its because the mother made sure the father was not in the picture
2007-10-19 18:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my dad died when i was a week old so kinda the same? in my case i would love to meet him. in your case i dont know. probably yes for some closure and to know where i got my ears or hair, eyes, temper etc. from. i wouldnt do it till i was older though. maybe when i had a hubby and family. if he ended up being a nice guy i could see that leading to the fear that even if you found someone nice he would leave you or something?
2007-10-19 18:41:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when a parents leaves the child, thats denying youre own flesh and blood, they werent strong enough to step up and take responsiblity, becuase its never the child's fault that they were born and then all of the sudden one or both of the parents say "oOO i gotta go!!"
i would not want to meet a parent who walked out on me, who didnt love me from the start instead of thinking about just them
2007-10-19 18:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would want to be old enough to speak my mind without my mom breathing down my neck to make my own decisions and i would ask him why and spend time with him my parents r split and 4 almost 5 yrs i didn't see my dad
2007-10-19 18:37:46 · answer #6 · answered by b_ashley_n 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A Man like that doesn't deserve anything from you.He does not even think about you so he will go straight to hell. Go on with your life you are a better person without him.
2007-10-19 18:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by nylatinanurse 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh you sweetie,you hold my sympathy....
you deserve witch ever you wish,i personaly would wish to not because there are so many things to think about but then again if you do not,it leaves you to wonder,what if,something else i wouldnt want.
2007-10-19 18:38:31 · answer #8 · answered by amber b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋