Holding a party, scared family will make a show in front of friends and work mates, Help!!?

Question

I'm holding a party in a few weeks, some of the younger members of the family are threating to get drunk, they've done this before at their sisters hen night and almost got removed from a hotel, I've got all my close friends and work collegues going and i don't want them to show me up, i feel really guilty cos they're family, but what can i do?

Answer 1

let them know they need to controlt hemselves and if they dont then they will be tossed, family or not it doesnt entitle them to be loud rude and disrespectful.

Answer 2

Tell your family about your concerns and tell them them a few rules.
1. don't embarass you in front of mates and collegues.
2. have some fun instead of worrying about the younger members of the family they deserve a break too.

don't not invite i did that one time and when they found out they wouldn't talk to me and i felt really guilty.

Answer 3

Get all their alcohol, and empty it prior. Then fill it with a soft drink, or whatever, so they can't tell difference. It's a little extreme, but they're the sorta extremes i would go to for my mother if she drank. Sadly she doesn't so there's no way to control her behaviour. And why does your family have to come to this? Say you're trying to impress your boss who also coming, so you can't have them there, because you want to give off a more "professional" look.

Answer 4

Tell them if they get drunk, you'll call the cops and have them removed from the scene. It's your party, be in total control of it.

Answer 5

don't tell them the date or lie say your going away for a weekend to do with work then have the party and don't even mention a word to them if your really that worried.

Answer 6

warn them wether their family or not you will have them thrown out the same as you would any drunk causing havoc at your party

Answer 7

don't invite them

Answer 8

don't invite them.