Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

Do you keep it after you get married or only before?

2007-10-19 10:18:14 · 4 answers · asked by Surfer J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My grandma has nicely volunteered to make the food for my wedding and wanted to start with Lasagna as the main dish. We can't think of any ideas on what to make to go with it. Any ideas on what goes well with lasagna? Thanks

2007-10-19 10:17:58 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

About two weeks ago I met this guy from college. We started talking and I found out he was a CJ major like I am. I was struggling and he offered to tutor me.
We met and he really helped me out a lot. I ended up getting a good grade.
I recently ended a relationship with someone when he found out he gave me his number and told me to call him.
I told my best friend about him and he warned me not to get involved and that a good friend of mine was very interested in him and he was interested in her as well.
I asked him if he'd like to have lunch. We had lunch today and talked for about 2 hours. It was nice we had a lot in common. I decided to ask him about this girl and he told me he was very interested in her but was confused as to whether or not she liked him. He told me he was going to ask her out on Saturday.
After lunch he walked me back to my apartment on campus hugged me told me to call him

Is he interested?
I like my ex still and he still likes me!
Should I just go back w/him?

2007-10-19 10:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by CandyKissesxOx 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I want to say our own vows to each other but we don't want/ need that slip of paper that comes with the traditional ones. I was thinking about having just a big party with all of our family in the back of the house and saying our vows to each other with music playing from a cd I just need to know one thing who sings the song " I finally found the love of my lifetime"

2007-10-19 10:15:25 · 7 answers · asked by oh_jo123 7 in Weddings

mothers raise there sons fathers lieve them, so then who is the man in said mans life, but his mother.

2007-10-19 10:15:03 · 2 answers · asked by foxy_blue00 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Anybody got any good ideas for reading at a church wedding?

2007-10-19 10:13:55 · 7 answers · asked by Tulip 2 in Weddings

my friend just found out he existed and that he lives in some other country
......so is it ok to just like him?

2007-10-19 10:12:52 · 12 answers · asked by justcurious 4 in Friends

Well I am 21 and he's turning 27 next month. Weve been seeing eachother 8 months now and well I ended up giving myself to him, loosinging my virginity to him. we did it alot for the first maybe month, is he bord now that he got it? I know he loves me and wouldnt never cheat, he hates cheaters. Now that its new I want it "ALL" the time. what guy doesent want sex? Ill get him excited and he'll want to get me going, all this in attempt to get him in the mood but then he will stop and i'll be like common, and he'll say I dont feel like it tonight, i'll say why? and he's just never feels like it. He says he will "give me" some, maybe tomorrow, like he holds the cards and it makes me feel like crap, because I want him to beg for it like guys usually do. I know theres guys with a higher sex drive out there, so its very frustraiting! He works and goes to school all day so i know he's tierd but still! ive talked to him about it alot, i love him but seriously, take viagra! I get so frustraited!!

2007-10-19 10:09:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really like this guy, how do i make myself stand out from the other girls? and how do i talk to him normally and what about?

2007-10-19 10:09:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend in one of my classes who I really like talking to. He is really nice to me and all and I am not sure if he is just trying to be nice or if he is interested. He always is talking to me and things and Me being the shy person that I am would be too shy to ask...so I am not really sure what to do. Advice?

2007-10-19 10:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy at my college that i'm very attracted to. he knows this and i'm quite sure he's attracted to me as well. i was thinking of "kidnapping" him this weekend. kidnapping as in telling him i'm going to "kidnap" him (like take him away from whatever he's doing) and do something fun. what are some suggestions of things we could do and do you think this is a cute idea? how should i set it up...like text him or something like "i'm going to "steal" you for the weekend.

2007-10-19 10:07:37 · 25 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

there is a girl that i like(have liked her for over a year), and a couple weeks ago her friend came up to me and asked if i still liked her. but i wasn't thinking and said no, but i really did. well i want to ask her out, but i don't know if she likes me. how can i tell? or will she think its shallow of me having one of my friends ask her for me?

2007-10-19 10:07:00 · 11 answers · asked by .......... 2 in Singles & Dating

with me and wants to get back together yes or no

2007-10-19 10:06:07 · 7 answers · asked by The kitty Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in May and have decided to have a traditional hymn, so that who those who don't attend church on a regular basis, will feel comfortable with something fairly familiar.

2007-10-19 10:05:32 · 5 answers · asked by Lorraine W 2 in Weddings

2007-10-19 10:05:01 · 18 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

when us girls give you hugs between each period and pass notes to you and one more question do you like it when we want to wear your jackets??

2007-10-19 10:04:55 · 6 answers · asked by Emily 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend just sent me a text message saying this girl asked him for a threesome with me. We joked about it, but then he suggested that maybe we should try it. Not with her necessarily, but a girl we agree on.

I'm not opposed to the idea, I'm attracted to women and it might be fun. But I'm also a total hypochondriac about STDs. Is it possible to do this and be safe? What do we have to do, keep changing the condom? I don't know if it's the best idea...any thoughts or experiences?

2007-10-19 10:02:36 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, I like this guy and I really wanna talk to him. But do guys like it when a girl just starts making small talk with them or not? I think he might be ok with it, as long as he thinks I'm cute, but I'm also worried he'll think it's weird if he doesn't find me attractive. I don't know...how do most guys in general feel about girls striking up a conversation with them? Thanks for any help!

2007-10-19 09:59:27 · 20 answers · asked by oh geez 6 in Singles & Dating

And if you think about it howmay of those 49% of married couples cheat on eachother or have open affairs? I'm engaged to get married to a wonderful man. He treats me perfect and is so much in love with me. He always takes my insucurities and feelings in consideration before doing things. And he is at home every night and works hard to provide for me and my child. But he has a past of being a womanizer and sleeping around before we were together. I know he has done me right cause he is at home every night and never does things I don't feel comfortable with him doing. I'm just worried cause people change people fall in and out of love through out relationships. There's temptation and down the road I'm scared of him cheating when were 30, 40, or 50. I don't beleive in affairs and I don't think I could be in a marriage with someone who cheated on me. Doe's it always happen at least once in everyones marriage? Is it something you accept with marriage. People change I'm scared!

2007-10-19 09:58:11 · 17 answers · asked by Lisa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and i broke up and about 10 days ago he told me
that he loves me and never ever felt this way about anyone before. I don't want to go out with he anymore so what should i say / tell him ???

2007-10-19 09:57:23 · 9 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

well i am 16 and i really like this guy and he is 19 we have been friends since we were really young and we are both shy so i dont know what should do? help me?

2007-10-19 09:56:52 · 20 answers · asked by <3 Allie nash :) <3 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this girl for more then 3 months. I love her. I think she loves me too...But everytime we get there she freaks out or something...her stand is no sex before marriege...what do i do?

2007-10-19 09:56:01 · 21 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Singles & Dating

COME ON I KNOW U GIRLS LIKE HIM<

2007-10-19 09:55:33 · 23 answers · asked by JAMES699 1 in Singles & Dating

I am so bored with staying home with 3 children! What are you others moms doing to keep your sanity, besides cleaning, cooking, disciplining, eating, watching tv, and using the computer? I'm feeling stuck in a little box, help!!!!

2007-10-19 09:55:08 · 12 answers · asked by llenahS 1 in Family

I've been married for 4yrs and my husband and i have sex MAYBE one time per month. Also, when we do have it, he has premature ejaculation.So, it is hell for me.I've given up always looking for him sexually, he always denies me and it hurts me so much and tells me "no"because he's stressed out or tired (which is always). So I don't look for him anymore, i just wait when he wants (which is almost never). We had many fights over this,i asked him in many ways how and why is like this. He hates the topic so we haven't spoken about it since. I'm sexually frustated.Also, i'm starting to pay more attention to men interested in me. Since for my husband, i am invisible or made of wood. I want my marriage to work, but i'm also considering divorcing him because of this. I am not happy. It is not only sex, but i feel whatever i do,i am invisible for him. He is cold, he doesn't talk to me. We can be in the same room and say nothing. I try talking to him but he either nods or yes/no answer. (Sigh)

2007-10-19 09:55:04 · 24 answers · asked by Magia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my "friend" sent me this.. if u received this what would u say? i need some help.

hey how are you haven't talk to you in a while what's up with that i see you and you just walk away and you took me off your top
laterr...

thx. ♥

2007-10-19 09:53:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It's a really long story...but i'm basicly involved with a 20 year old guy and i turn 16 in two months. Well he's not exactly my boyfriend..at least i don't think so...well i only hung out with him twice and we were not alone. He kissed me on the lips and i pulled away. Then he put his hands around my waist and touched me and stuff (not in private areas) and when he drove me and my friend home, he got out of the car with me and kissed me again. I havent seeen him since, but we still talk like every day through the phone/texting. but he is always saying how much he misses me and crap and we made plans to hang out today. (alone) but now i'm having second thoughts...and i am actually kind of..well..scared. What if he rapes me or somthinng? I am still a virgin and i am not ready to lose it right now...Do you guys think i should just go with him?? if not, then please tell me what i should tell him. he already called me and i ddin't pick up the phone, and he text me. but i didn't answer

2007-10-19 09:53:18 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know a lot of brides here are on a tight budget and are getting creative with planning their wedding. So I want to know what is the best deal you got so far. The best deal we got was our professional photographer friend offered to do our wedding photos for free. And so did our jazz trio.

2007-10-19 09:52:47 · 9 answers · asked by Peace 5 in Weddings

I'm talking about man-to-woman talk. Those questions that grab immediate interest, rapport, attraction, and plenty discussion. *interesting* questions.

Best answer gets 10 points.

2007-10-19 09:52:16 · 6 answers · asked by Ryder 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm dating with my bf for a month now. we argued 2 days ago, and i wanted to break up. the reason is really stupid but now I don't like him anymore. I can't simply say to him that I'm bored. today he sent me tons of messages, and tried to talk to me. so i said ok but i don't want him :( all in all he is a nice guy and hasn't done anything bad to me. the problem is that he is my classmate and we will be in the same class for 2 years more. What should i do now? How can i reject him politely, i don't want to break his heart :(((

2007-10-19 09:52:01 · 7 answers · asked by єуℓüℓ 4 in Other - Family & Relationships