there's this guy at my college that i'm very attracted to. he knows this and i'm quite sure he's attracted to me as well. i was thinking of "kidnapping" him this weekend. kidnapping as in telling him i'm going to "kidnap" him (like take him away from whatever he's doing) and do something fun. what are some suggestions of things we could do and do you think this is a cute idea? how should i set it up...like text him or something like "i'm going to "steal" you for the weekend.
2007-10-19 10:07:37 · 25 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
how is that psycho?
2007-10-19 14:52:46 · update #1
thanks for the feedback! kidnapped is probably the wrong word. no i'm not a stalker...just a hopeless romantic.
2007-10-19 15:04:43 · update #2
and if i was a guy asking this question, would i get so many negative responses?
2007-10-19 15:07:02 · update #3
I would be scared if someone sent it to me!! =(
2007-10-19 10:13:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's a great idea. Don't know where you are, but see if you can go the whole day on a tenner. Perhaps find local parks, play on the swings and do some sport, feed the squirrels. Have a drink in a cafe to warm up and chat. Things that you can both keep light and laugh all day at.
If you keep the day cheap, you can spend a bit more on a meal, club or take away in the evening.
Hope he goes for it. Just don't approach it in a scary way. Perhaps text that he needs to be dressed warm and for fun and be at the bus stop on xxx street at 10 am or his hamster gets it. Don't sign it / us someone elses phone but get the message through mutual friends that you're planning something, so he can put 2 and 2 together.
2007-10-19 17:14:13 · answer #2 · answered by jo :) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think this is a very cute idea and am certain if indeed he is interested in you he will think it is wonderful also. Being a college student your finances aren't probably that great so you may have to take him on a nice picnic or something. If you do then go out and watch the beautiful fall colours and pack a nice picnic lunch. Perhaps bring along a game were you have to ask questions of each other in order to learn more about one and other in a fun and non-threatening way. Best of luck and I hope all works out well with your kidnapping. Ha!
2007-10-19 17:12:47 · answer #3 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would just text him...hey, i was going away for the weekend. i thought i would drive west until the sun sinks below my visor and starts gettin in my eyes. ill see where i end up. you up for an adventure?
then just drive west...dont stop unitl the sun gets in your eyes...then pull off the road, find the cheapest drive in hotel room (or two) if your not that comfy yet!, find a cheap restaurant then have a beer later...(if your old enough) then just hang out and talk and see what happens. if anything the driving time and hanging out together will be a great adventure and memory you can share together...even if nothing happens or the relationship becomes nothing more than that of cool friends...Your still getting away, having an adventure, traveling..and whats best seeing the world while your still young enough to...lol hey keep me posted on how it turns out..(p.s) wait until you become a couple before you use the word kidnap...it will be endearing then as opposed to mildly startling and kind of (wierd) at this point in your friendship
2007-10-19 17:27:33 · answer #4 · answered by momma again 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it is a cute idea but dont say kidnap say steal and like go to the movies or go somewhere and talk all alone and let the magic happen
2007-10-19 17:12:17 · answer #5 · answered by Shawna E 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know u think its really cute but hun if u sent a text like that u might send off psycho vibes and have him running in the other direction. if u think hes into u like that, u could send him one saying "what u doing this weekend- i would like to have u all to myself- what do u say" that's sassy and could work. then u could just take him for long walks in the park or do something different from what hes used to
2007-10-19 17:16:49 · answer #6 · answered by snowflakes 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are initiating a weekend away over an attraction, I'm sure sex, is going to be his idea of fun.
2007-10-19 17:15:35 · answer #7 · answered by bizzi 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1st ask him if he's busy this weekend, make sure he's not donating a kidney or something like that, if not then tell him you want to pick him up for a minute or 2 days. after that have fun and remember to untie him when your done
tc
2007-10-19 17:15:51 · answer #8 · answered by tencar 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it'd be a lot easier to just ask him to hang out this weekend. Kidd napping or stealing sounds kind-of weird.
2007-10-19 17:14:38 · answer #9 · answered by CandyKissesxOx 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well it could be a good idea and it cant be because he might be offended and then he wont be attracted to you anymore. but thats unlikely text him and ask him to go out to eat or to a movie or somthing like that.
2007-10-19 17:12:12 · answer #10 · answered by *nErVoUs lAuGh* 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him what his plans are this weekend and ask him if he wants to hang out.
2007-10-19 17:11:11 · answer #11 · answered by ASHLEY 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋