I have a friend in one of my classes who I really like talking to. He is really nice to me and all and I am not sure if he is just trying to be nice or if he is interested. He always is talking to me and things and Me being the shy person that I am would be too shy to ask...so I am not really sure what to do. Advice?
2007-10-19 10:08:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, since we moved seats during class its been harder to talk with him so I think its harder to actually ask. The thing is I only see him once during the school day so I am not sure really what to do.
2007-10-19 11:12:12 · update #1
Hi Sarah,
Well first of all... guys like girls with confidence. Guys want a girl that is fun to talk to (looks like you have that part down), and someone that is not always hiding in the background. If you want this guy, and you think he might like you too.... then go ahead and take a chance. Find some courage and a little confidence and ask him about it. Try to be a little "cute" when asking, BUT dont bee TOO cute. (i hope you know what i mean, cause guys hate that.) Never worry about rejection too much. If he is already a Friend, then he will still be a true friend even if he isn't interested in the whole BF GF thing. So, all you need is some confidence and a right time to ask him. You have nothing to lose.
Good Luck Sarah!
2007-10-19 10:17:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll never know if you can swim until you jump in, or so to speak. The worst that can happen is he would turn you down. If he's as nice as you say, then he'll be kind about turning you down.
Never be afraid to try because it's better then always wondering what would have happened.
2007-10-19 17:16:08 · answer #2 · answered by Snuf 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
constantly talking to u is one thing...but how he talks to u is how u can determine whether he likes u or like like u..is he flirty? extra swt? etc. does he talk to u differently then w/ other ppl?
2007-10-19 17:12:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
90% chance he likes you, would like to ask you out, is afraid you will reject him...
Start rubbing his forearm , when you talk to him....
2007-10-19 17:13:09 · answer #4 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say ask him out, that way you can find out if he's interested or not
2007-10-19 17:11:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋