Well I am 21 and he's turning 27 next month. Weve been seeing eachother 8 months now and well I ended up giving myself to him, loosinging my virginity to him. we did it alot for the first maybe month, is he bord now that he got it? I know he loves me and wouldnt never cheat, he hates cheaters. Now that its new I want it "ALL" the time. what guy doesent want sex? Ill get him excited and he'll want to get me going, all this in attempt to get him in the mood but then he will stop and i'll be like common, and he'll say I dont feel like it tonight, i'll say why? and he's just never feels like it. He says he will "give me" some, maybe tomorrow, like he holds the cards and it makes me feel like crap, because I want him to beg for it like guys usually do. I know theres guys with a higher sex drive out there, so its very frustraiting! He works and goes to school all day so i know he's tierd but still! ive talked to him about it alot, i love him but seriously, take viagra! I get so frustraited!!
2007-10-19 10:09:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there loads of men out there willing to help!
2007-10-19 10:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should try turning him on differently. If you make him want it bad enough, he'll give it to you. The last thing that turns a man on is discussing the lack of it. Mess around with different ideas and see what gets him going. I'm sure you'll find a subject or kinky area in his mind that will get him ready to go any time you want it.
2007-10-19 10:17:18 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Kym♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL! and I thought I was the only one having this problem. He's older than you hun! his libido isn't working like it once did and your just going to have to get used to it. Could be that he is bored and your going to have to get some different moves! Watch porn together or something to make it more interesting for him. He's obviously not new to it like you are. You could try being more agressive and when you see that he's all hard, you could just get on, do the hard work yourself! He's had a long day. Good Luck with that!
2007-10-19 10:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yess i agree with jenny.
act like u don't care that he's not giving u any. i know it's hard, but guys like it when u 'play hard-to-get' or whatever.
it's more of a turn-on for them when they can beg for it ;)
good luck
2007-10-20 14:03:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg girl that sucks!!
How about you just leave him alone for a while and when he sees that you are not asking for it he is going 2 start craving it!.. and we he does ask you - RESIST!! let him have a piece of his own cake..
mean while buy yourself some nice toys and have fun!! =]
2007-10-19 10:34:11 · answer #5 · answered by jenny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a controller,in this case deciding when you can have sex and when you cannot....
2007-10-19 10:16:14 · answer #6 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well jus give em time..n keep tlkin 2 em....or jus leave em n wait couple months...wile dan party like a rockstar!!!!!!!
2007-10-19 10:14:07 · answer #7 · answered by N3N4 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you might want to find someone who wants it as bad as u
2007-10-19 10:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by blaaah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll substitute for him when he's "tired"... ;) hit me up
2007-10-19 10:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by alwaysremembertwentytwo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'll help
2007-10-19 10:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Backhoe 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋