I've been seeing this girl for more then 3 months. I love her. I think she loves me too...But everytime we get there she freaks out or something...her stand is no sex before marriege...what do i do?
2007-10-19 09:56:01 · 21 answers · asked by Jay 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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Is your question about why she won't have s e x or what should you do? Because you ask both. She won't have s e x because she believes in her own morality. You shouldn't try to manipulate that - it's her decision. If you care about her and want to be with her then you need to take care of things on your own. If you get my drift. wink wink nudge nudge.
2007-10-19 09:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Respect her decision... That's what you have to do... If she's not ready then she's not. She has her own morals and views on this kind of thing. If she wants to wait til marriage then it's her own will. You can't make her or try to sooth you sweetness into getting bed with her just because you want to have sex. Sometimes in a relationship sex isn't everything especially when the other person wants to maintain that way til they get married. Just respect her and I hope that this won't make you want to turn your back away from her because she wants to stay as a virgin. If you do that, then... ummm you're just like the other guys out there who leaves their girlfriend because there weren't sex involved. If you do that then you being with her was actually base of sex more than basing on loving her as for who she is and what she wants.
2007-10-19 17:08:33 · answer #2 · answered by vintage_springs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wishes and if that doesn't satisfie you-seeing as how you love her so much though, that shouldn't be an issue-ask her to explain why she doesn't want sex with you. If that still doesn't work, obviously you don't love her all that much and you should either get with a girl whos a little more "out-going". Depends on the "LOVE" thing you've apparently got going on.
2007-10-19 17:04:47 · answer #3 · answered by Mara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you have to respect that about her, but if you want sex, then get out of this relationship and find a girl that is not into that stuff. Life is too short to deny your needs. I think this whole wainting out for marriage thing is complete crap, but that is just my opinion. I think sex is a huge part of a relationship and you need to know before you marry them that you like the sex between you too. What happens if you marry this girl and turns out she is into some freaky stuff like peeing on you or something.
2007-10-19 17:06:59 · answer #4 · answered by Mike G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wait. Obviously if you love her you'd understand that. Don't pressure her into doing anything else. And to all the idiots that said leave her, did you forget the part where he said "I love her"? Dumbasses.
Sex isn't everything and I'm sure either hand will provide you with the comfort you need at this moment.
2007-10-19 17:02:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop going there. When she is ready she will let you know. And since she has made it clear she is waiting for marriage, you should respect that. If you are not interested in marrying her, then let her know. Otherwise, just show her the respect you believe she deserves (otherwise, why are you with her?), and wait until the honeymoon.
2007-10-19 17:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Tami 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect her wished you love her that much. Don't pressure her, that's the worst thing to do.
Try to ease her into anything.
2007-10-19 17:01:50 · answer #7 · answered by erica s 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her then respect her and her wishes,
if you persuade her into something she may end up hating you for taking advantage or just have a real big issue because of it..
how old are you? and would you marry her? because she wants that before anything else...
2007-10-19 17:00:15 · answer #8 · answered by old_soul_945 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You agree with her! If you really love her then you should respect her and what she wants and dosnt want! She loves you, she just dosnt want to have sex before merriage!
2007-10-19 17:03:13 · answer #9 · answered by makemecrazysae 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u really love her then u will respect her wishes. she wants to honor god and herself. either just wait until she's ready or move on.
2007-10-19 17:01:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋