Family & Relationships - 19 October 2007

2007-10-19 09:50:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for five years. He proposed to me about a year ago.

During the first year of our relationship, I was the only one with a job and I paid for the rent, groceries, everything. It was my idea for us to move in together, and he said he wasn't ready to leave his mom's and make it on his own. I said ok, he didn't have to pay for anything until he's ready. We were 19 at the time.

About a year into our relationship, my dad told me that he wanted me to earn a college degree and that he would financially support me while I attended school full time. I agreed, and then told my boyfriend it's time for him to start chipping in for half of everything. He was very upset, saying I never should have asked him to move in with me in the first place when he wasn't ready to move out of his mom's. (But it seems to me that he got out of there because he didn't like living there anymore.) I just let it go at the time.

He has a decent job now, and I'm in my last year of school. But

2007-10-19 09:50:47 · 9 answers · asked by questionable 2 in Marriage & Divorce

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2007-10-19 09:49:13 · 2 answers · asked by mjbooor2002 1 in Singles & Dating

So today I went to the mall and the men were staring at me up and down... I'm sick and tired of this... Everytime I go outside, they always just stare at me and sometimes compliment, but would just leave... When are the boys gonna ask me out? I'm 18... and like when is it gonna happen? I'm just like tired of it...

2007-10-19 09:48:11 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In fifth grade he told me that he liked me and asked me to the dance but I said no but now I like him. (7th grade) In gym, he was just like fooling around and screaming like a girl lol and then he comes up right to my face and screams and then leaves. Then a few days later, we just finished jump roping for a warm up exercise and we're all putting our jump ropes back on this hook . He's right in front of me and he turns around and looks right into my face and whispers "peace" sorta next to my ear and then leaves again. I know these aren't signs he likes me or anything but just asking what was that for? I mean he didn't do it to anyone else and I have no idea why he's doing random stuff like that.

2007-10-19 09:45:19 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy and I have been friends for ten years. To me he is more than a friend. I have already bought him a watch, cuff links, and cologne for other x-mas's. This year for x-mas he bought tickets for a concert and dinner reservations on him, he already told me. So, how does a girl compete with that. I want to get him something good.

2007-10-19 09:45:14 · 17 answers · asked by courts80 1 in Singles & Dating

Husband is always acting negative and being mean to me. I was told I should act like I do care about him anymore and he will start acting right what do you think? Please serious answers only

2007-10-19 09:44:08 · 19 answers · asked by LivingMyLife 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been really smitten with this guy named
James ever since we became best friends in elementry school. One day at college i walked in on James making out with my young "GUY" teacher! He was really embarised and finally told me that he was gay... but i still love him and hes so handsome and his personality is adorable. What do i do?

2007-10-19 09:42:23 · 35 answers · asked by â?¥ Sprite â?¥ 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this young lady I work with, I am 41 and she is 19. We are both Very attracted to eachother and want to go out but age concerns us... I am a very hyper guy with a touch of A.D.D. and she also has a lot on energy... I am playful and youthful for my age and most think I am 30 or so, she is pretty much the same. I can't offer her youth but I can offer her Love, Financial security, and faithfullness. Every women I meet my age acts as if she were 60... Maybe I have not grown up, but I see it this way, earth has been around for billions for 4.5 billion yrs, and life for 17 million years, Energy is timeless and has no begining or end, and without energy the world would not exist that means in theory, some form of energy has always existed and will always exist and that time fram is not comprehendable by man. Man created time, based on BC and AD... Time is a usless tool in an infinte world, our little 80-100 yrs hear are so minimal and a grain of sand, so what does age matter?

2007-10-19 09:42:15 · 14 answers · asked by JEFFREY L 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. my sister and i are having a movie night 2night and we r watching disturbia. i invited my friend (whom i really like). i think he likes me 2. i'm 13 and so is he,he's like 7 months older or somthing like that. how can i get him to put his arm around me during to movie without being to pushy???

ps, i dnt wan any answers lik: ur 2 yound 4 that. if thats all u have 2 say then dont answer.

2007-10-19 09:40:33 · 14 answers · asked by blahblah 2 in Singles & Dating

coze i begin chatting with someone whos really cool and after he or she tells me ,do u have a photo of urs?
i say yes
and when i send it
they wont talk to me again as before i mean in a cool way
do u think that i am kind of ugly?

2007-10-19 09:39:22 · 68 answers · asked by Madeline 123 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of a few months is planning on visiting a friend (girl) who lives in another country. He tells me she is only a friend but I'm really worried as I don't know her and wonder why he has to do this. He met her when studying overseas a year ago and they've been in contact as friends. She visited him once (before we got together) and they've kept up the contact by chatting. Am I paranoid? I can't help feeling that if a man needs to visit a woman, he must have feelings for her. Any words of wisdom would help me.

2007-10-19 09:38:35 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 3 children and I live in Missouri. I recently remarried. My new spouse is in the military and has gotten orders that require us to move to North Carolina. My ex-husband knew this was a possibility and he agreed to this when we divorced, signed the papers and it is filed with the court and everything. we even have an alternate visitation schedule for out-of-state moves. Now it is time for us to move and he is saying no, I can't move with the kids. What do I need to do? Can I still give him the proper notice and move because it is already ordered in my divorce decree or will I get in trouble for doing so?

2007-10-19 09:38:13 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i just want to know-- appaarently they change by every person you talk to so what are they -- i no what 4th is-- dont need to go further than that but how do u classify the 1 2 and 3 ones

2007-10-19 09:37:37 · 4 answers · asked by house_md 3 in Friends

Just wanna hear all those unusual stories out there LOL.

2007-10-19 09:35:55 · 27 answers · asked by kiki 6 in Weddings

I have a predicament...

I'm 21 years old and still in college. I got married when I was very young (~19) to a man that I still care about and have feelings for... We met in High School. He was my first and I was his.

The problem is, I don't think I'm IN love with him anymore. He's a different guy from when I first met him. Now that we're living together and married for almost two years his "other" side is starting to come out and I don't like it. His unbelievably short temper, demoralizing remarks and laziness are starting to get to me. I've had enough of being the only one putting an effort into the relationship and I've expressed my concerns numerous times only to be told that "That's the way he is" or "I should help him change". Unfortunately, he doesn't WANT to change and it's frustrating as hell. I used to be a happy person, but now I'm filled with anxiety, I'm depressed all the time, and worst of all, I feel guilty for it. (cont.)

2007-10-19 09:33:35 · 24 answers · asked by Mrs. Mustang 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay so I went on a date last night with a guy that I had met through a mutual friend.

He took me out to dinner and when the waiter reached our table I was about to order but then my date cut me off and ordered for me.

As if I couldn't order for myself.

And to top it off he ordered an Asian salad that's got tons of nuts and I'm allergic to nuts. My esophagus closes up and I can't breath. So I changed the order to what I wanted.

When the waiter leaves my date grabs my wrist and asks me 'What the f uck was I thinking embarrassing him in front of the waiter like that?'

I freak out at his sudden change and excuse myself to go to the bathroom and make a detour to the door, run across the street a local Wal-Mart and inside I call my close guy friend to pick me up. I was scared the way that he reacted. I found a huge a s s bruise on my wrist this morning from when he grabbed me.

But now that I think about it...I didn't go too far last night, did I?

2007-10-19 09:32:19 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OMG at school, these group of boys were joking and laughing at someone who I really hate and then I went,"Jeez, quit it out, she never done anything to you." They stopped and my foe went,"Why did you do that you bastard ?" And she stormed off. I defended an enemy, is there something wrong with me ??!!

2007-10-19 09:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by pop 4 in Family

i have just cheated on my girlfriend what do i do.im 18 and shes 36 and shes much bigger than me im afraid of what she'll do when she finds out.shes hit me before for small things like leaving the toilet seat up.the girl i cheated on my girlfriend with was her daughter shes 17.my girlfriend wont touch her daughter she thinks shes a saint and will think i forced her into it.her daughter is trying to blackmail me.help!

2007-10-19 09:29:53 · 60 answers · asked by the flying dutchman 2 in Singles & Dating

I know where her on switch is.

2007-10-19 09:27:45 · 13 answers · asked by Alaska 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Guys, there was this guy. who loved me a lot. He proposed to me 4 years ago, I refused his proposal. He's sister called me last week to be the bridemaid for his wedding...I refused that too. But I'm still invite it to his wedding. So here is the question...Should I dance a lot for him too? I mean I dance a lot in every weddings...and he sees me dancing so much. But if I dance little bit at his wedding, would he think that I'm sort of jealous or that I regret not marrying him?

2007-10-19 09:26:55 · 16 answers · asked by IneedyourhelpGod! 2 in Weddings

okay so theres this guy i know, his name is brad. and well i like him..alot...and have been waiting to date him for a little while now. he's really sweet and charming and funny...he makes me smile alot. but he has a gf..and theyre having problems...heres the thing she is staying with an ex of hers. and she acts really shady when shes on the phone with brad when the guy is around her. and when brad confronts her she freaks out cries and gets mad..now he wants me to call her and talk to her..but i know if i call ill freak out and b**** her out. i dont think she deserves him he can do way better and i think she needs to stop playing games with his heart it hurts me to see him like this.. WHAT DO I DO!!???? : S cuz i dont want to sound like a b**** and that i want him to myself. b/c that wouldnt be right..i need help so id really appreciate any advice anyone can give. thanks : )

2007-10-19 09:25:33 · 7 answers · asked by pink_butterfly.broken_wing 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-10-19 09:25:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A guy that likes me told me i had small hands was like holdin mine hand up to his....so ok...sounds normal but then a guy at school told my bestfriend the same thing about her hands..then there was this book and it was explain a sex part in one chapter and right before he took her shirt off he was holdin her hand and said "your hands are small" does this mean something or is it just a big coincident?

2007-10-19 09:21:56 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My guy and I have been together 7 yr and have recently been talking seriously about our wedding. We have been waiting, until we were "stable". My guy is on the verge of a big promotion (salary and company car), which should come through by the end of the year, and we were going to officially declare our engagement then. We just received a call that his younger brother and his girl have become engaged and plan to marry May '09. While I am happy for them, I am very upset because I don't want to "scoop" them, but had been hoping for June '09 (if not 08) . Plus my mom had a close call with breast cancer last year and has never fully recovered, and my dad is 70yrs old and had both knees replaced and I'm not sure how much longer he would be able to actually walk me down the aisle. Can we ask them to delay their wedding, or if it would be okay for us to have ours before their's. One concern is his family which would have to fly in and I don't want to ask them to twice in one year

2007-10-19 09:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we dated for 2 yrs and i ended it coz he gave the lame excuse of not being able to marry coz of family (quite a bullshit). he tred to contact a few times after the break-up and sounded desperate and heartbroken, urging me to be in touch - which i always declined.

as a person, he's reserved, laid back, innocent and quite square and simple. A very good looker and sought after by girls. his past ex girlfriends too are in touch with him and he obviosuly hasn't told anything to his wife....so why do you think is he doing this?

2007-10-19 09:17:14 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-10-19 09:16:54 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was wondering only!

2007-10-19 09:16:52 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

-They are close friends of mine.
-I am very openminded.
-I have a very open relationship with the wife.
-They have been married for 16 years and she wants to give it to him as a birthday present. I dont think she really wants it.

2007-10-19 09:16:10 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

anything

2007-10-19 09:15:46 · 28 answers · asked by California 1 in Singles & Dating