okay so theres this guy i know, his name is brad. and well i like him..alot...and have been waiting to date him for a little while now. he's really sweet and charming and funny...he makes me smile alot. but he has a gf..and theyre having problems...heres the thing she is staying with an ex of hers. and she acts really shady when shes on the phone with brad when the guy is around her. and when brad confronts her she freaks out cries and gets mad..now he wants me to call her and talk to her..but i know if i call ill freak out and b**** her out. i dont think she deserves him he can do way better and i think she needs to stop playing games with his heart it hurts me to see him like this.. WHAT DO I DO!!???? : S cuz i dont want to sound like a b**** and that i want him to myself. b/c that wouldnt be right..i need help so id really appreciate any advice anyone can give. thanks : )
2007-10-19 09:25:33 · 7 answers · asked by pink_butterfly.broken_wing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just tell him you can't call her because your heart is way to vested in this. Meaning, you really care about him.
2007-10-19 09:31:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It prob wot be long until he sees what is really goin on and as long as you are there for him then he will see what a great friend you are. Good friends make great partners. I wouldnt say anything bad about this girl as he may think u are just trying to split him up and wont thank u for it
2007-10-19 09:31:21 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ask him why he is still staying with her. Then tell him that the longer he stays with her he will probably end up getting hurt tell him that you know he can do so much better and that you are there for him. If he breaks up with her kudos to you all you have to do then is give it time then make your move. Oh and dont try to pressure him into breaking up with her to quickly.
2007-10-19 09:32:33 · answer #3 · answered by kbmisfit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why on earth would he have you talk to her? Does the man have testicles of his own or does he just rent them on occasion?
You have no obligation to talk to his girlfriend... that's his problem. If you do, you'll just come off as the b**** who doesnt mind her own business, which is not what you want to be.
Just be you and charm him. If he sees that you are the better girl, then she'll turn begin to look like the beast she really is and he'll end it to be with you.
2007-10-19 09:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by Doogin 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 05:13:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him when HE needs someone to talk but otherwise, keep your mouth shut. His girlfriend is none of your business.
2007-10-19 09:31:46 · answer #6 · answered by bikinkawboy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exactly how oldare you 5 or 6?
2007-10-19 09:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by me m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋