Ive been really smitten with this guy named
James ever since we became best friends in elementry school. One day at college i walked in on James making out with my young "GUY" teacher! He was really embarised and finally told me that he was gay... but i still love him and hes so handsome and his personality is adorable. What do i do?
2007-10-19 09:42:23 · 35 answers · asked by â?¥ Sprite â?¥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dress like a man. Record men speaking and play it back during conversations with him to complete the ruse.
2007-10-19 09:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-08 22:59:32 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not change his sexual orientation, nor can you make him have the same feelins for you that you have for him. Don't run, as someone else suggested. If you love him, you will probably still enjoy being around him, care about him, etc. Life is about caring for people. I have friends that I love, even MORE than friends-wise, but I am married to a wonderful man. I am glad that I at least have these other guys in my life that I can talk with (as if they were my girlfriends).
If it is just too painful to see him, then perhaps when you are happily in a relationship of your own, you can get together with him and his friend, chat about old times, and have fun. You don't go through life knowing who your friends will be or who are the TRUE FRIENDS that will be there for you when you need them. You have known him a long, long time, so I would urge you not to toss that out the window. Good luck!!!
xo
ymmf
2007-10-19 09:51:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Since you know he's gay and you still love him and his personality is adorable and he's so handsome etc, then your pushing for anything other then a friendship that you've already shared since grade school then you are only doing so because of the 'challenge' of turning him back into what he never was HETROSEXUAL.
2007-10-19 09:50:09 · answer #4 · answered by christi m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Aren't you pregnant? Oh, sorry, i'm going a little off the subject. Anyway, even though you still love him you should move on. He's not boyfriend material. You need to find someone who loves you both. (you and your baby) Best of luck:)
2007-10-19 10:39:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him u love him but ur cool with him being gay..Maybe hes bisexual?Tell him all the stuff like hes handsome and nice and he will probably fall for u.if that does not work find a straight guy and james will go after you.Maybe hell change his mind about being gay.
2007-10-19 09:48:29 · answer #6 · answered by moo 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
See if he is AC/DC and you could share him with the teacher. LOL. No, honestly, does he know the consequences of making out with a teacher. Totally not in the rule book.
2007-10-19 09:47:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
OK havn't you seen that one episode of Seinfeld when Elaine trys to get the gay guy to "switch teams", it cant be done!
2007-10-19 10:00:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you just want to be platonic friends, there is nothing you can do. He has made it very obvious that he prefers male company in terms of romance....you apparently don't fit that criteria.
2007-10-19 09:46:15 · answer #9 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well the question does he like you like that is the question that i would ask and if so are you willing to share and is that other Person willing to share
or you Can find somebody else and save your self the drama
but i always say what if so the worst thing that can happen is that he will say no
2007-10-19 09:49:22 · answer #10 · answered by Daniel H 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋