i have just cheated on my girlfriend what do i do.im 18 and shes 36 and shes much bigger than me im afraid of what she'll do when she finds out.shes hit me before for small things like leaving the toilet seat up.the girl i cheated on my girlfriend with was her daughter shes 17.my girlfriend wont touch her daughter she thinks shes a saint and will think i forced her into it.her daughter is trying to blackmail me.help!
2007-10-19 09:29:53 · 60 answers · asked by the flying dutchman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is too funny!! Dude, you're a man, if anybody, man or woman, tries to lay a hand on you, hit them square in the face as hard as you can, and then do it again. Then walk out the door and don't call them anymore!! Be a man!!
2007-10-19 09:34:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Ouch. That really really bites >_< Yeah, an understatement. Seems to me all you can do is either come clean with dignity and take back control of the situation, or try act like it doesn't matter to you. The more worked up about this you get, the more believable it will be when she spills. If you act like a creeped out ex, because she is stalking you, that's fine, but if you go over and beyond a simple warning to your friends and family about her being seriously pissed off and determined to ruin your life by any means possible, including lying, then you make yourself VERY suspicious. I recommend coming clean with dignity, or coming clean to a few people that you trust so that they can help discredit her and if they act like it's not true, others will follow and just take the bit of info as a rumour spread by an insane ex. Seriously man, good luck. I'll be rooting for ya! Oh, and if it's something like a past experience, those can be played off pretty easy, but if it's something like sexual orientation...it's a lot more tricky and being outed can be a liberating experience from what I've heard. But regardless, just laugh it off and play it up once it does get spilled.
2016-05-23 19:36:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of that relationship! If she hits you now, it will only get worse. It sounds like she has turned into the monster mother from hell. She's treating you like a child.
You are clearly not happy with her or else you wouldn't have cheated. Be brave and finish it now - preferably in a public place, and stick to your guns. Once it's over, it's over, not yo-yoing on and off because you feel guilty.
Like I said, do this in a public place - a cafe or the park, where there are people around. And I know it's really really harsh, but if you are that scared of her, do it by phone.
Find someone who treats you well and you love enough not to do the dirty on.
2007-10-19 09:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by jo :) 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yea it'sa mess but let'try to work it out.
The best thing is probly to walk away.But if the daughter wants more relations.you hafto tell
your girfriend.So it endss up with a split.
Or you can talk to a
lawyer about it.THE thing is she may yell rape.
You could write down all the details in a letter making two copies. leave town and mail her a copy
breaking things off and why.
2007-10-19 09:55:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's hit you, she's NOT your girlfriend. Time to take a step back & evaluate the situation. There is NEVER a reason to allow yourself to be hit. The first time it happens should have been the last time. It's time to walk. Take a break & find someone else. No one deserves to be abused. This goes for guys hitting girls too.
Walk away from them both, let someone else deal with them.
2007-10-19 09:39:55 · answer #5 · answered by Ursan 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to the both of them and tell them to grow up, then leave your girlfriend and find someone your own age that you won't cheat on! if you would stick with girls your own age you wouldn't have this problem. also, i would get a restraining order on the girlfriend for hitting you....she has no grounds to do that at all!!....
2007-10-19 09:43:37 · answer #6 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOSER
-why are you dating an older woman - practically ur mom's age (next time try someone your own age)
-why did cheat - and with the woman;'s daughter too (dont do that again) its why you're in this position to begin with
2007-10-19 09:42:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's what happens to cheaters. You've got yourself into a pickle. I think you just need to get away from this family and go somewhere else and try again. Next time, don't cheat.
2007-10-19 09:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by gilgamesh 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
you idiot why the hell would you go out with people like that in the first place
dude just face up to them say bye to them BOTH
oo and by the way going with mother AND daughter is way gross
good luck x
2007-10-19 10:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oopps!!
What does the daughter want?
If it's more of the same, no probs.
If anything else, escape and report her for hitting you to the police, they may help find a refuge for you.
2007-10-19 09:33:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋